Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

Can someone please give me some advice.

3 yrs ago, my husband got it in his head he was sick of renting and we should own a home. We were wed one year and a baby already here and one on the way. We went into the cheapest thing we could afford, where it was in Hells Angels community and it was a nightmare. We sold 3 yrs later and lost money b/c I was desperate to get out.

Now, comes the second house, we are 10K our allowed amount, had to take out a third mortgage to pay for it. We can not afford to do the repairs required in this house. It's a year and a half we've been here. Part of the cost was, we got rid of our car and are now carless for the past year.

The problem is, we will never get a car, our credit is shabby and I think we should sell this house and rent and buy a cheap car. My husband will not budge and we're heading into winter with no repairs done and two kids that are as sick of walking everywhere as I am.

2007-09-19 06:02:21 · 2 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,there's this guy i like and has like totally cute eyes and smile.........WE don't have a gym so we go to a local park and do activites.......so i signed up for walking and so did he.......and we did like one lap and then we took some weird shortcut..........and he wanted to show me the viewof the city...........then i asked him to carry me back.....he tried but were bout the sameweight......im not fat!.....lol..........he gave me his number and lets me sit on the chair with him before skool starts and lets me put my legs on him...........

And then today i was walknig with him and he was goin like super fast so i told him to wait up.....and when i caught up with him............he put his arm around me............i was expecting ti so my reaction was i told him to get tis arm off me.........in sort of a nice way..........but basically.....Do you guys think he likes me or not?!..........thnx!

2007-09-19 06:01:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married next July, doing most of the planning and paying for the wedding ourselves. Any advice of what you are glad you did at your wedding, things you would change, or just general advice for us? Or even things you have seen going to other peoples weddings that you loved or hated? Ideas!!! :)

2007-09-19 05:54:16 · 31 answers · asked by Crystal D 2 in Weddings

I've tried to contact my lawyer on several occasions thru e-mail and by telephone to get an update concerning my personal injury case. His secretaries keeps putting me thru to his answering machine, and i keep leaving messages asking him
to please call or e-mail me on this matter.

I have yet to hear from him, it's been over 2 months now and
all I ask is that he e-mails me if he can't call.

What could possibly be the problem,
maybe he's already settled the case ?
maybe he's not getting his messages, or just not my messages ?
maybe he's sick or i'll ?

"Wait "! Maybe he just does'nt give a fu$%k ?

It's been a year since my traffic accident.

What can should i do at this point?

Sincerely,mitchell@kianas.net

2007-09-19 05:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got married to this women and she ask if i ever had a threesome before and i said yes know she says that there is no romance and pasion between us anymore but are work schedules are not the same and we hardly see eachother only for sex and maybe somedinner.

2007-09-19 05:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by bigg mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf started working at her job last Monday
and the girl that got her the job is one of her friends
so my gf tells me that she found out that her friend has a guy friend that works there and the dude has a crush on my gf
and she told me 2 nights ago that he asked her to a dance, but her sister is going with her, but I don't think it's right for him to do that since she's MY girlfriend not his, he said he wanted her to go so he can have someone to act crazy with, ok? he has friends, anyway i admit im jealous but I want to handle this situation right without pissing her off so how do I do it? what's the right thing to do?

2007-09-19 05:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by jamiegotmadskill 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my dad is really racist and before you attack me notice i said my dad( not me) im white and my boyfriend is black my dad wont even talk to me now all he says is "i cant believe your living with a F*cking N*gger!" and i get so mad every time that word comes out of his mouth that i cant even stand to look at him!!!! the thing is were getting married soon and i really want my dad to walk me down the isle. how can i get my dad to get to know my boyfriend as a person instead of a color before the wedding?

2007-09-19 05:41:30 · 3 answers · asked by Brutal 2 in Weddings

my mum left my dad when I was born as he abused her and was a drunk. I've never met him but he still asks my nan about us. Now, I need to get something from him - I need to get a passport under his nationality - to do this I need details from him and for him to sign a statement that I am his daughter, as he didn't sign the birth register.
has anyone got any ideas on the best approach?

2007-09-19 05:34:18 · 15 answers · asked by juology 4 in Family

Help!I never told my fiancee that i had a son from a prior relationship.I did not tell him because i was embarrassed since i got pregnant when i was 20 yrs old by an ex.bf during a fling and gave birth right before i turned 21 yrs old.It was awful my ex.bf had been my first real bf ect.. so i trusted him but he never mentioned his new gf.I was humiliated by all the drama it caused.Five months after i gave birth i met my current bf now fiancee when i returned to college we became friends and study buddies.Another 5 months later we started dating casually.Originally when we first started dating i just omitted this fact because it was the beginning of the relationship and i did not want to scare him away.Now its 3.5 year later and i still have not told him and it was implied accidently that my son is my brother a fact i did not contradict!I been feeling really guilty and was getting ready to come clean but during the conversation he told me he hates kids and even had a vasectomy?

2007-09-19 05:32:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you miss being single or do you feel safe and happy with a partner?

What are the best things about being taken?

2007-09-19 05:31:21 · 23 answers · asked by smilingontime 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to a wedding in a few weeks, and I know the bride very well, but the groom I have only spoken to a few times. Is it inappropriate to get a gift that is more focused on the bride and her personality than a traditional wedding gift such as an appliance or something?

2007-09-19 05:28:13 · 18 answers · asked by mcorcoran12 1 in Weddings

done..so dont you wish everything was much simplier then it actually was?? Maybe ppl would be so crappy.

2007-09-19 05:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Nursery is so expensive and his dad would love to stay at home with him during the day. The thing that worries me is he loves playing with other kids but his dad can take him to playgroups and parent and baby things cant he? What do you parents out there think is for the best? We are in the same financial situation wether our son is at nursery or my partner works as nursery is so expensive. He is such a good dad as he has grown up around kids because his parents were foster carers.

Thanks for the help

2007-09-19 05:25:50 · 22 answers · asked by thebippy 5 in Family

2007-09-19 05:24:39 · 1 answers · asked by <3 ME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does anyone here is studying in D.Y Patil college of Engineering, Pimpri, Pune????? Specially in Computer Branch. PLease please please help me and write to me on anu-69@india.com. Plz plz...

2007-09-19 05:24:32 · 4 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Friends

What do you people think about this honestly. As people age it seems to mean alot less ,but she's only 17 .

2007-09-19 05:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by mitzdiz 1 in Family

I absolutely ADORE my boyfriend. we tell each other "I love you", but I'm looking to say something else to him that would make him smile. I usually say you're such a sweetheart, and you're my cutie, and all that cute stuff..... but I feel like I'm running out of adjectives!!! LOL! what's something I could say or do that would be different? I feel like I repeat myself a lot. I'm not too creative, I need help. haha

2007-09-19 05:22:00 · 21 answers · asked by lesliemarievip 2 in Singles & Dating

http://www.flickr.com/photos/10002474@N06/1389402847/ lets keep it real and leave the psychology to the psychologist because all women who see my brothers face turn their head quick

2007-09-19 05:21:59 · 17 answers · asked by mrellis08 1 in Singles & Dating

6 year reationship ends, why do you pay afor another mans kids, when he doen't even pay.

2007-09-19 05:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by dcticky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Women, why is it such a problem for most of you if your guy looks at porn?
As long as it's not to an adictive point. My husband and I look at it together. We fight for the latest issue of Playboy Magazine. The articles are great!

2007-09-19 05:18:30 · 21 answers · asked by delina_m 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a guy that is sub-par in looks--according to my friends that are girls (not hideous) but like a 3-4/10. Im not dynamic in personality--bit boring (until you get to know me). I am a caring person tho---i am the one person that'll stay up for hours just listening to a friend and trying to help them. And yet guys around me, who are better looking get all the attention. I feel like i live in their shadow. A lot of them act insensitive and sometimes like jerks (according to many girls) and yet girls still run after them. Girls wont even look at me or give me a simple chance to get to kno them (yes i take initative to meet sometimes) The ones that are my friends, i talk with them, care for them, listen to them (according to some thats my biggest skill) give them all attention they need--yet they dont appreciate it. What should i do? I want to be appreciated/noticed/give a chance by girls! Im not desperate, but frusterated of not being noticed and never being given a chance.

2007-09-19 05:15:19 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 05:13:29 · 39 answers · asked by Shelbie 2 in Weddings

I'm still living with my parents I'm only a teenager, I have so much work and I try so hard but I still don't think I am acheiving my parents expectations, I'm top set for everything and always do homework and extra activities, but my parents make me so stressed and don't realise how hard I am trying, I feel really low, tired and depressed and just wish I wasn't here, x

2007-09-19 05:12:22 · 25 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Family

I just posted a question some time ago about my divorce and how it happened. For those how unswered thanks it was helpful and I really appreciated. I am a busy guy in my 40s and still going to school and have no time to look for a new woman and or ramnance. I tried some sites but I don't feel confortable posting photos and to much info plus it did not work in the two I tried. singlesnet.net and yahooo personals, I am evaluating singleparents.com but I am not sure if that would be just to waste money again.
Does any one have any suggestions where to begin?

2007-09-19 05:12:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mickey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

whisper seductively to her "I want you"?

2007-09-19 05:11:52 · 25 answers · asked by Jimmy Sarno 1 in Singles & Dating

So my b/f and I have lived together for 5 months. I cought him looking at porn 1 day &I got really upset, we didn't talk for a few hours, then eventually discussed it and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. our anniversary is comming up and he is planning a day thing that is going 2 be a surprise. I was curious & looked through the cookies on our PC to try & figure out the surprise, when I came accross a porn site that has profiles of girls who live in the cities surrounding us. I became instantly offended and insulted by this. I do not want to start a fight as I know that most men consider porn a "necessity". I have treid to shrug it off but it is still eating me up inside. He knows I am upset about something & has asked me about it but I won't tell him. I don't know how 2 confront him about how this is making me feel. He dosn't know that I found his website. I don't want to jepordize what we have because it is incredible but I need to deal with my insecurity & why he must have porn.

2007-09-19 05:10:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning a nice sit-down dinner. Is it rude to not offer guests a choice of entree?
At the place I have selected for the reception it is one price for the selection of one entree and quite a bit more if I offer guests a pre-selected choice of 2 (I still have to give an exact count ahead of time). I'm not thrilled at being raked over the coals and can't think of any issues if I selected the one entree (I know all of our guests would eat it, nobody is a vegetarian or has allergy issues). It makes me wonder, do the guests expect to be given a choice of entree?

2007-09-19 05:08:17 · 26 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

Ok here goes. there is this guy who i find attractive and he also finds me very attractive. He is not my boyfriend and we have never dated. He keeps giving me advances and i think he wants to have sex with me. I am a virgin. I am also very busy and i dont think i have time to maintain a man. Would i get emotionally hurt if we have sex continually if he isnt in a relationship with me? Or would it be fun to just have sex without commitment?. Also is this a good way for me to loose my virginity?

2007-09-19 05:07:40 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need word of support and encouragement from all of you.
Dont get me wrong, I have pretty good relationship with her...its just that I am 5.5 month pregnant and tired with two toddlers to take care of....she is coming in 5 hours but i havent put together my house yet and my fride is totally empty.

2007-09-19 05:03:46 · 35 answers · asked by Laura 3 in Family

I just recently got back with a guy I date back when I was in high school (7 years ago) I am absolutely loving it and he says he is too. It takes alot for me to be with someone, and now that I'm with him I just worry that I will lose him even though he says he wants to be with me and that he really likes me. I kind of worry if I don't hear from him even when he says he'll call. Sometimes it may be that he's busy, but sometimes I wonder. I know he really likes me but I can't get these thoughts to stop.

What is your advice?

2007-09-19 04:58:46 · 39 answers · asked by redblippygirl23 1 in Singles & Dating