I just got married to this women and she ask if i ever had a threesome before and i said yes know she says that there is no romance and pasion between us anymore but are work schedules are not the same and we hardly see eachother only for sex and maybe somedinner.
2007-09-19 05:48:45 · 17 answers · asked by bigg mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It has been my experience that menage typically makes a bad relationship much worse over time.
However, there are exceptions and you need to decide just how 'open' you relationship is.
Personally, I wouldn't go there.
2007-09-19 05:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Eclectic 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You just got married and there is no romance? You have more problems than worrying about a threesome. I am puzzled as to why you got married. Had you not, you could have had all the threesomes you wanted.
2007-09-19 13:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bringing some romance back between the two of you, a threesome will only make matters much, much worse!
2007-09-19 13:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you write I'd say she has some real insecurity issues and therefore jealousy. She no longer feels like she is "enough" for you. So I'd say it's nothing you've done, it's just her own insecurities that are getting in the way now, and in the future too if she doesn't solve them now.
I mean, come on... did she think you'd never had sex before you met?
2007-09-19 17:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got married and there is already no passion & romance. That sucks. I would be worried about a threesome either way with another girl or another guy you could lose her
2007-09-19 12:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you had a great relationship already I'd tell you to go for it and have a great time. But that doesn't seem to be the case. DO NOT use a 3some to fix the marriage. It will not work. It will cause more problems and most likely a divorce.
2007-09-19 13:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for threesomes, but in your situation buddy, HELL NO. She clearly doesn't want to be with you at all. You either let her be with someone else, or figure out what you're doing wrong.
2007-09-19 13:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by meagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a bad idea. Do you honestly want to bring other people into your relationship? If you want to be married and you want to be with only her, then she's not playing fair. Obviously, you aren't good enough for her or she wouldn't be looking around.
2007-09-19 12:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sarahbelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be the spiritual head of your family, I only answer cause it seems there is something in you that senses doom and your certainly right. Put on the belt of rightousness for your families sake, get on your knees.There will be a day you need to give an account.
2007-09-19 12:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T DO IT!!! You think you have problems now, wait till you deal with the insecurities that are going to come from this big mistake.
2007-09-19 13:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋