Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

I finally took the strength to come clean & tell my boyfriend the truth about my past after a year of lies & hidden fact.
I'l be visiting him in 2weeks (we live in different countries) i wanted to wait till i got there to tell him everything but he was so looking forward to me coming & i didn't want to make it extra hard for him then it already is.
I hate myself for delaying of telling him & lying about my past, because what is ment to be the past i have now brought into the relationship.
I feel he has some hatred & things towards me but he keeps saying no, but after all that i have put him through how can he not i sure do.
He is the best thing in my life right now & i was scared of losing him, losing us & hurting him but i guess thats exactly what i have done ten times over.
Despite everything he still loves me so much, still wants me to come see him & wants a future with me
I love him so so much & i really want to show him once i get there as actions speak louder than words.

2007-09-19 21:35:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

physically fit(muscleman)intelligent about a variety of subject matter,intuitive and a good guitarist/musician.

2007-09-19 21:33:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the older sister of my best friend have a crush on me, she is 25 I'm 20.
I don't know what to do she kiss me when my friend when to the bathroom during the movie, then she kiss me again in his house, she is only on vacations for the next 10 days. So if something happen is going to be a one night stand.

He is my best friend I know him 6 years ago, his family thread me like I'm part of the family.

what should I do, I don't want to hurt her feeling but I don't want to loose my best friend neither.

2007-09-19 21:29:54 · 15 answers · asked by Jean 2 in Singles & Dating

I went car shopping not too long ago and I wound up wanting the car salesman! He was my type from head to toe and I sensed mutual attraction and everything! The problem is car salesmen are notoriously known for feeding you b.s. to get the sale. However, he was forthright about having a girlfriend (so he's off limits to me anyway right now because I am not a homewrecker). My sister was with me and even SHE sensed chemistry brewing between us.

I haven't bought my car just yet, but the whole experience of meeting this guy has got me thinking is it wise to ever date a car salesman? I want your opinions to lull over the idea if this issue pops up again for me. (He did mention that his girlfriend is draining his bank account and he liked the fact that I am more frugal, assuming he believed me when I said it.)

2007-09-19 21:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by CayennePeppa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 21:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by John123 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 21:23:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

allow my boy-friend and I to move in together, into a 2 bedroom apartment. Any statistics that could help would be great.....such as the percentage of women living alone that get attacked, the level of happiness of a person alone, etc. THANKS!

2007-09-19 21:20:54 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha T 3 in Family

i love a girl n also i proposed her a month back.We are very close to each other. When i proposed her she said she already has a boyfriend and i being just a god friend. Even though, when she meets me now, many of a times she meets me for monetary sake. Please do tell me even if she has got a boyfriend is it good to take money from me each and every time. Many of times we both go to shopping as well while she has never been with her boyfriend.And in monetary case i cant say no to her.What should i do?

2007-09-19 21:17:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-19 21:17:28 · 6 answers · asked by ashwest21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never date a girl before, so I think maybe I should be prepared. Because we met each other on a matchmaking site called sugardaddymeet.com, so I think she may ask a lot of quetions that she doesn't know on site. Girls, what would you ask me if you're dating me tomorrow? And boys, How would you answer those questions?

2007-09-19 21:16:56 · 4 answers · asked by Simon C 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf of nearly 3 months now is too busy wit her studies in university and i might get to see her only 1-2 times a month. We dont even hold hands or take pics coz she doesnt wanna get too attached to me until she nos that she can handle both her studies and me. I was thinkin of breakin it off and goin for other chicks but one side of me wants to keep fightin on...wat shud i do?

2007-09-19 21:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by Letsgofishing 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a group of people at school that I became fairly close to during a field experience at school recently. Because we shared this expirence, I feel close to them. However, I often get the eerie feeling that they dont like me and worse that they talk s***about me when I am not there. I am not just being paranoid; I am not easily offended or overly sensitive. The people in question all pass themselves off as being so "open minded and non judgemental" yet really actually are very close minded and I can tell judge me constantly. I do love them as people very much and enjoy hanging out with them otherwise. I have tried to talk to them about it and they blow it off. How do I know what is really going on?. Its so annoying...

2007-09-19 21:15:44 · 4 answers · asked by Meese 1 in Friends

My friend is 26 yrs guy and he is indulging with this woman of 42 years. She is a single mother with 3 children. First one is 21 girl, second one is 19 girl and third one is 16 boy. She has left her partner (never married) 12 years before and living alone with children. She is self supportive and children are all live in and doing their studies.

Cool. My friend is also earning well and can support equally, but the question is, if they enter a relation ship, will that be ok? Already he looks like a match to his mate's daughter. LOL.

2007-09-19 21:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went into work yesterday and my manager (a woman) and this other co-worker (a girl) [manager's about 30 and the girl's about 20 I think, I'm 19 if that matters at all].

And I walked into work (fast food place), they were sittin in the manager's office and the manager handed me the drive-thru headset thing. then I turn to walk off and a couple seconds later, she said "Hi Justin." and I said "Huh?" Even though I heard her the first time. and she said "Whats up?" And that was it. I could tell them two were talking something about me by the way she was talking to me, but i dont know what.

2007-09-19 21:11:18 · 1 answers · asked by Oscar H. 1 in Friends

I was wondering about other people. Before the baby, we held hands ALL the time (in public, in the car, the movies, the mall).

2007-09-19 21:10:25 · 16 answers · asked by keri_ricker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know about that. i dont know what women and men this study was done on but i know not a day, hour, minute, or second go by that i dont think about it. anybody else feeling me on this? come on women back me up!

2007-09-19 21:06:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 21:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by prem s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 21:04:02 · 7 answers · asked by goodday6653 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls are meant only to satsify man's desire and reproduce. That is the very reason most of them do not want to have sex with men that easily - its because they know that they are not getting a fair deal. It is the men who enjoy sex more than women. Girls are sex objects.

2007-09-19 20:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if the boy or girl is half or double the age

2007-09-19 20:52:13 · 23 answers · asked by etchemzee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So this question mostly goes out to girls as to why nice guys finish last and bad boys/jerks finish first? I guess the age-limit on this particular factor would probably age around 14-21? Is it because younger girls want a challenge and nothing serious? confused/scared of commitment to being with one guy? There's a difference between being a nice guy who cannot stand up for himself and a nice guy who can stand up for himself and tell someone off whos jerking them around. And girls have to understand that...You don't have to be an underacheiving badboy to get a girls attention, I mean come on! who would agree on me here

2007-09-19 20:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by Just Ask 1 in Singles & Dating

or it won't bother you at all?

2007-09-19 20:48:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say u die.. left a will saying u dont want nothing to do with family members.. do police still contact them and eventualy hand the body over to family members?

and is there always a funeral if you die? what if u left in the will that u dont want a funeral? and dont want anyone to know that u passed away?

2007-09-19 20:47:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need my job, my husband and I work separate shifts, only see each other on our day off.(want to spend time with him) Need to see my mom who lives alone in another town, want to see my two grown children(who also have crazy hours at work) and Grandkids(who want Grandma time,who I miss) who each live in different towns,(none too far away, just all in different directions) plus need a litlle time to relax on my day off. How do people do this?

2007-09-19 20:38:22 · 7 answers · asked by seven-11 4 in Family

My husband can't seem to keep his hands off me (sexually). Most people wouldn't be bothered but I can't do anything without him touching me!! I can't sleep, get dressed, take a shower, cook, I mean nothing! I have asked him a million times in the past 5 YEARS to stop it, but he just can't. He told me that he needed help, because he can't control himself when he's around me. Which made me feel even more worse. So anyway how can I help him to keep his hands off of me, without taking away his want for me?

2007-09-19 20:36:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who is otherwise a good friend and very valued, who does not know I would be there for them when they need me, yet they do not trust me enough to ever live around them, although it seems they would consider me a good friend, this bothers me, it makes me feel as I am not judged worthy, and even though I have my own family and people to live with, i'm not sure how to take it,

2007-09-19 20:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really need to know ur opinion about my friend who's somehow cold hearted or maybe cold emotioned....
my problem is that I'm someone who always need from close friendz to show me that they still love me and think that I deserve to be their friend.
but with this friend,she just never show her emotions,never react as expected.
she's kind and sweet and I talked to her about this but she old me that she can't express her feelings.
so tell me how improve this or what to do?

2007-09-19 20:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by Pinka 3 in Friends

2007-09-19 20:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by BigDog 1 in Weddings

What do you think of women who are very sexually active with a lot of different guys? I for instance like to have sex with 6, 7, 8.. guys at the same time I just love it!!
If men do that why the f.. should't we? So what if I slept with over 200 guys they always coming back for more, married or not, with gf or not they just love me.
And I now that any of you wouldn't reject me so don't pretend that you would.

2007-09-19 20:28:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 20:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by rajesh b 1 in Singles & Dating