how to deal with a cold friend????

Question

I really need to know ur opinion about my friend who's somehow cold hearted or maybe cold emotioned....
my problem is that I'm someone who always need from close friendz to show me that they still love me and think that I deserve to be their friend.
but with this friend,she just never show her emotions,never react as expected.
she's kind and sweet and I talked to her about this but she old me that she can't express her feelings.
so tell me how improve this or what to do?

Answer 1

Well you know the saying "To know who a person is, first, find out who her friends are, and you will see who she is"

And since, she IS your friend, you would be cold too.

One advice girl, STOP JUDGING/CALLING OTHER PEOPLE NEGATIVLEY. What kind of friend are you?

I know that your pretty mad at me now, but really, if you think at it in her point of veiw, wouldnt you feel the same way?

Answer 2

everyone has a different way of showing emotions
some show it through actions rather than words or expressions
that seems to be the case with ur friend
u need to remember, just because she doesnt say what u want to hear, doesnt mean she doesnt care about you..
if u try to change her, it will only push her away
so give her space.. in time she might just react in ways that comfort u..

Answer 3

Ah, you could try being a little more sensitive about your friend's personality. Maybe she is shy or that she feels rejected. It could be coming from bad experiences that she has had with other people. So give her time to connect her feelings with you.

Answer 4

if i knew that she treated everyone that way, then it wouldnt bother me
but i like people to show their emotions too, i dont assosiate with people who i cant handle
for example,, my daughter has been fighting with a girl at school, her mum and me were freinds but since our kids fought shes gone cold,, even though her kid caused the trouble-- so i now park away from her car everyday, i just cant b around her
so i avoid people i dont think are as nice as they should be, good luck, xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

Well, everyone is different from the other. Maybe she is the type of person who are steriotype. Is your friend good in written? Maybe again she is not good in oral like me. I can express my self if it is written rather than verbally. Just undersatnd her.....

Answer 6

She is your friend, so you accept her for the person that she is. Not everyone acts the same. You need to learn not to be judgmental. It is not all about you!!!

Answer 7

she could be possibly on some type of medication, you should talk to her and ask her how she feels and tell her how you feel,