My friend is 26 yrs guy and he is indulging with this woman of 42 years. She is a single mother with 3 children. First one is 21 girl, second one is 19 girl and third one is 16 boy. She has left her partner (never married) 12 years before and living alone with children. She is self supportive and children are all live in and doing their studies.
Cool. My friend is also earning well and can support equally, but the question is, if they enter a relation ship, will that be ok? Already he looks like a match to his mate's daughter. LOL.
2007-09-19 21:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is just a question about that happens around me and as usual it attracts a lot of gossips in the circle. For sure, as a friend, I do not have a say on his choice and it is just to share my feelings and to know how the world will look up on such relations.
2007-09-19 21:28:44 · update #1
Maybe he is thinking of the 2 daughters as freebies!! ;-)
Relationship shud be ok, if he can keep his eyes off the 2 daughters, LOL!
2007-09-19 21:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by nice_libra_guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - she is married and has little ones! you won't be ready to marry her. And, she is merely too previous for you. i'm 40 5 and can't even start to appreciate desirous to be with a 22 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous (no offense, yet you should be my son - eeuuwwww!). stop messing with a married lady and mom of four please! Rule of thumb for age changes for couples. Take your age, divide it in a million/2 and upload 7 - that's the youngest man or woman you should even evaluate relationship or having a romantic relationship with. **Logan - in case you do the math from the 'rule of thumb' formulation - a fifty 4 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous man or woman's youngest 'date' is 34. You suggested you're 38. i'm undecided what isn't actual for you? The age factor is a fabulous instruction manual because of the fact it bargains with subject concerns of adulthood and the cycles we conflict by way of in existence. The age span widens appreciably for older human beings. Do the math and you will see what I propose.
2016-11-05 22:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? age is just a number in my book. My friends sister in law is the same age as her step daughter and thats never caused any problems. If people want to be judgmental about this relationship then they have the problem, these two are obviously happy so nothing else should matter.
2007-09-19 21:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say that if both of them are happy with each other's company, then it is nobody's business but theirs. Now that you mix her children in, then it can be a little complicated. Especially is one of the partner's is closer to being their kid's age. It is going to be awkward from the 21 year old daughter's prospective when he mom is dating someone who could be a brother to her.
2007-09-19 21:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there! And it will not work! And He should back off. He will have the mother and daughter on fighting ends and nothing good will come out of it....If he wants a chance with the daughter then tell the mother and let the chips fall where they will.........
2007-09-20 15:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by madashell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely it's a matter for your friend, isn't it? If he's happy with this woman, and she's happy with him, nothing else matters.
2007-09-19 21:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u said it yourself..... its very complicated.... the prob is in another 15 years... he would still be young and she would be really old..{}
2007-09-19 21:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋