So this question mostly goes out to girls as to why nice guys finish last and bad boys/jerks finish first? I guess the age-limit on this particular factor would probably age around 14-21? Is it because younger girls want a challenge and nothing serious? confused/scared of commitment to being with one guy? There's a difference between being a nice guy who cannot stand up for himself and a nice guy who can stand up for himself and tell someone off whos jerking them around. And girls have to understand that...You don't have to be an underacheiving badboy to get a girls attention, I mean come on! who would agree on me here
2007-09-19 20:51:22 · 4 answers · asked by Just Ask 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nice guys finish last so we can have you around longer ;)
2007-09-19 20:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls like a guy with confidence and spontaneity, who is willing to take charge, basically a leader-type person. Unfortunately, nice guys just does what people say, so they blend into the environment, rather than stand out from the environment. You'll be nothing else but a friend to them. I've played the nice guy role for years, and no luck until my first year of college when I finally tried to break out of the nice guy role and go for the girl I want. Once you do get the girl, now you have to be nice again to keep the girl. =P Now, I have a girlfriend of 2 years!
Just be assertive, confident, and mainly be yourself, and you'll be successful in the dating scene.
2007-09-20 04:05:47 · answer #2 · answered by AlexD 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nice don't finish last. How do I know? I am one. Where a lot of nice guys fail with women is because they confuse being NICE to a woman with being ROMANTIC and CHARMING to a woman. Those are two different feelings.
Being nice to woman may make her like you and make her feel safe being around you, but it will never make her look at you more than being a friend. If this sounds like you, then you need to stop this immediately.
Be nice to women as a plus. Not a romance ploy. It doesn't work. Work on your flirting, romantic, and charm techniques. If you are successful with those skills and are a nice guy, you will have more women sniffing around you than you know what to do with.
2007-09-20 04:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we all love the nice guys! just the bad boys blind us. its the nice guys that need to rly show off how much they care instead of hiding it behind their shyness.
2007-09-20 04:32:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mousy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋