Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

My marriage has been dead for several years since 1994-give or take, maybe about 10 years back or so!

2007-09-19 14:10:56 · 30 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well girls I hate to say this but it seems to be true, that men in general are more intelligent than females.
Guess thats why god is male.
I kinda figure it like this god created man in his own image
pretty high IQ.. Then he created women to annoy men just for laughs...lol
guess he thought what the hell a spare rib wont hurt..
so he created women out of our ribs...what a waste of bones...

2007-09-19 14:07:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think she is ugly and a bad singer at that
shes too skinny
at least her sister has some meat on her bones
shes a wannabe jessica
and no i'm not just some jealous girl
i really dont like her, thats all
and i think as a fan of FALL OUT BOY
that pete deserves better
:]

2007-09-19 14:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by Alice 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex thinks that I was using him. (im a girl by the way) We were together for two years and in the last year, he stopped coming around, put his family who treated BOTH us us very badly, before me on Holidays, everything, in other words, he was really mean and hes a HUGE liar which I found out recently. Anyway I have a new boyfriend and told my ex I loved him before, which I did .... but he didnt show me that he changed so its me n the new guy. However, he thinks that I was using him...I had and have nothing to get from him but pain. And he scares my son all the time by getting in my face and trying to fight with me in front of him. WHICH HE STILL TRIES TO DO WHEN HE IS AROUND. So why does HE think Im using him?

* and he thinks that since I wont be with him, that I lied when I would tell him I love him

2007-09-19 14:06:15 · 1 answers · asked by Shawn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

pleas help and tell me :(

2007-09-19 14:06:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

one of my brothers passed away this pass Friday... my sister-in-law wants me 2 make a memorial CD to play at the service. but I just cant seem to remember any good songs…he liked all kinds of music ....like rap, alternative, techno, R&B, some country and old school punk… .at the moment I can think of only a few...
Dr, Dre and Mary J Blige- The Message
Bone Thugs N Harmony - Crossroads
With or With out you - U2
Mariah Carey- One Sweet Day
Jimmy Eat World- Hear You Me
Good Riddance- Green Day
would like some help from anyone who can think of any more that would be fitting for him…. trying to remembers his favorites or songs that will fit makes me a emotional wreck …and would appreciate the help

2007-09-19 14:05:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

You're engaged and you purchase a house with your fiance which they put 99% of the money into and then after living in the house for 3 months your fiance forces you and your son to move out and rent because they didn't like your attitude and didn't trutst you and you were arguing all the time, but they still wanted to see you and be your boyfriend. Would you want to still be their partner after being pressured to move out? . . on the premise that maybe one day you may be allowed to move back in if your good. Even if your fiance justified it by saying that they had to implement a separation on account of the reationship. Is being forced out of your own home a big deal??

2007-09-19 14:01:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I love my mom. And recently we went to on vacation to the Dominican Republic (where she is originally from). While on the trip, she had an accident and broke her ankle the first week were there. The next 3 weeks werent that great for her and she was miserable. When we came back to the U.S, I decided that I wanted to go study medicine over there which is my dream. I told my dad and he supported me 100%. I didn't want to tell my mom because I was supposed to leave to Boston for college and changed my mind. I thought that by not telling her, I would avoid her a headache "for the moment" (since she was still in pain about her ankle). But then she found out about my decision from someone else. I know that she feels hurt and I should've gone to her as soon as I made my decision. She hasn't talk to me for 3 weeks. I just dont have the courage to face her and feel embarassed for the pain I caused her. How can I approach her?

2007-09-19 14:01:50 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 3 in Family

2007-09-19 14:00:07 · 15 answers · asked by avacado pie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

pretended to be out said we are having guests and he still comes round. If we're not in at 6.30 he comes at 8pm. I tried to get him to break this habit, by going to his house at 5 pm but he still turns up at 6.30. My mum passed away 2 yr ago, so I try to understand his lonliness and visit him 3 -4 times a week, often staying a few hours to keep him company.
I have told him to go to night school, fishing or any other hobby he would enjoy, or even get a new partner but he refuses, saying he likes to visit me & my hubby at night.
The thing is he tries to cause trouble by pulling me apart to my hubby and my hubby apart to me. We took him on holiday with us earlier this year and he made us go to the room after the evening meal so the three of us could have a drink before bed on the balcony so our bedtime was 9pm We couldn't sneak out after that because he made us get up at 6.30 am for brekkie. I'm 47 and still scared to disobey or hurt him. What can I do. My dad is very fit and very sane

2007-09-19 13:59:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My girlfriend and I both work at McDonalds. I'm lucky because she is so attractive, but this has gone too far. I was sitting eating dinner with her the other night after we got off of work and a guy came in while we were eating. My g/f told me about him and how he sometimes comes in and makes little noises at her (sexual-type noises - like "woohoo" or "dannng") and how he always tries to hit on her. Well as we are leaving, he is at the counter and we come up to the counter to say goodbye to our fellow employees, and he's like "yoooo" and then as we walk out he's like "have a good night". It was the creepiest thing in my entire life. He looks like he is in his mid 20's. I'm afraid he's gonna try and rape her one day or something, you have no idea how creepy and white-trash this guy is. I don't know what do...should I lay his a$s out, even though he's a bit bigger than I am? Or have my g/f report him to management? Police? Any help or suggestions to get this guy away from my g/f?

2007-09-19 13:59:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Odviously it ended the relationship with him, and the relationship with her, but now she wants to be friends. It's 6 years later.

2007-09-19 13:45:49 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i losed her 2 days ago! she was like a sister 2 me

2007-09-19 13:45:39 · 7 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Friends

I am a nerd I guess. I am interested in learning, apparently that isn't cool these days. So I like girls, but I am not smart when "talking with them"(I really don't). Anyway I don't want to have the desire to date women or reproduce. Although it sounds nice I don't believe in dreams coming true. Should I get a castration? I hear those help control sexual drive.

2007-09-19 13:44:03 · 4 answers · asked by raymanfranks 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity with a guy that I thought I loved but now I don't know what is happening to me.I'm so confused I don't like this guy anymore and I feel bad that I lost my virginity with him.I wish I could be one more time virgine but I don't know how.

2007-09-19 13:42:08 · 72 answers · asked by ruth 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this may seem kind of weird to some of you.
But hopefully there are others that can relate with me.
I have a problem with my boyfriend that we argue about quite a lot. He is an average white guy who loves me very much,
And I am an average white girl that loves him more than anything. Seems great right? Not likely. Now I dont know if its just me, But my boyfriend has had a past of dating mainly african american girls. I have been told by his mother, brother, and friends that I am the only white girl that he has ever been in a relationship with. Although my boyfriend has told me that it wasn't true. But regardless, I feel sort of self-concious because of it because I feel like, i don't have something that he is mainly interested in. Don't get me wrong I can see that he loves me for me and thats great. But in a way, it just makes me feel somewhat self-concious. I've talked to his mother about it,
and she told me that its not wrong for me to think that way.
Is it just me or him?

2007-09-19 13:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy tells you that he dress as woman for holloween and his girl friend dress as man. He also told me alot of men were trying to hit on him, what would you think?

2007-09-19 13:41:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf broke up. he said it was beause he thought we didnt talk much. now he has a new gf, but they barely talk either! whenevr i see him i feel so self concience...im afraid to talk to him sometimes because its so awquird. i want to talk to him but idk how.....also it seems tht whenever he goes somewhere and sees me, he turns around and waits until i leave to go where he wants to go. then sometimes he gives me these weird long stares when i pass by him, but they arent mean or happy looking, just a striaght face......then about a few days ago his grangfather died so i called him to see if he was ok, he said he was ok but tht he cryed a little bit. then i told him tht i wished him and his new gf the best of luck and tht ill be waiting for him. hejust said "ok" and "thanks"... now whenevr we see each other he looks at me for a little bit then looks away [or down at the floor].....what is he thinking? what is happening?? how does he feel??? i dont get this at all i need major help!

2007-09-19 13:39:56 · 3 answers · asked by meredith 2 in Singles & Dating

I just feel like women have always been very hostile towards men to begin with and usually just pick boyfriends from their group of male friends when they want one. Now, It seems like with the popularity of show like this and the news covering it, girls will always assume that any guy that talks to them has spent thousands of dollars to attend one of those so called "seduction boot camps" or that he just follows internet pick-up guides religiously.

This poses a real problem for someone like me, who works instead of going to school and has no women in my social circle, so I have no choice but to approach strangers if I don't want to be alone forever. Does anyone else think that this "pick up" fad is going to harm guys in my position?

2007-09-19 13:31:29 · 1 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, there are these two people in my grade, jeff, and mal. well, jeff likes mal, and asked me to help him go out wiht her. i told him to ask her out, she said no,but he still is obsessively in love with her. he calls her like 7 times a day, and talks to her nonstop. she finds him really really annoying, and asked me to tell him to back off. so i did in a very polite and sensitive way. he took it really badly and wants to know how he can still stay connected wiht mal. he wants me to tell him where he should go from there. bottom line, boy likes girl who doesnt like him,and wants nothing to do wiht him, but he still wants her. what do you do?

2007-09-19 13:22:32 · 17 answers · asked by we_are_waiting 2 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and i know alot about the humen mind and how people act but lately my gf and my friends say i talk like a therapist and that it anoys them anyone have ideas on how to talk more like a teen thanks for the help

2007-09-19 13:19:33 · 12 answers · asked by lonewolfinthemist 2 in Family

My fiancee and I are having a beachy themed wedding and reception. I am thinking about buying these favors :

www.mybeachfavors.com/1-a-beachestinpail-candles.htm

But then again I would like to do something less costly concidering there will be around 300 people attending.

Any other fun cute ideas are welcome!

2007-09-19 13:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by *His Wifey* 3 in Weddings

2007-09-19 13:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

okl my friend has a BF, and she told me to IM him asking who he likes, and only ask that. I never met the guy or anything. I asked him and he said her so she was happy. Then, we started talking. Where talking right now. I don't have ANY ideas or anything, but he's nice 2 talk 2. It he ever said anything about us I would never IM him again. My friend does not know that i'm still talking 2 him, and I don't know what she would think if she did find out. So what do you think I should do? PLZ HELP!

2007-09-19 13:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Adorkable Cynthia 4 in Friends

to go live with her daddy? she lives with me and has security, stability here. if she goes with him then im left to worry and wonder...is she ok, is anybody gonna bother her? Its making me crazy. she is only 10. please I need some advice. No i dont want her to go at all.

2007-09-19 13:07:27 · 8 answers · asked by chevy 5 in Family

2007-09-19 13:05:06 · 18 answers · asked by thirsty mind 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is very loving and wonderful. He's faithful and sweet, BUT, very jealous. I'm not allowed to have friends, (i know being a tomboy doesn't help), but everyone needs friends. He has some anger issues, and doesn't really have any friends himself. I've filied for divorce after reaching my boiling point, but, I'm not sure if I should really go, I know he loves me and would never really hurt me, but, can I handle the jealousy?

2007-09-19 13:02:31 · 16 answers · asked by Elizabeth C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i kinda like this guy, but he is sooo shy. how do i talk to him? without being weird or obvious about liking him?

2007-09-19 13:00:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when we are argueing and annoyed with each other I want to be alone so I can cool down, but he wants to talk about it then and there. then If I leave he get more annoyed cos I left , but I need to cool off by my own. how can we come to a conclusion? I can talk to him after I cool down..

2007-09-19 12:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by lmhyde85 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom has been living with my brother and his wife and helping them take care of their kids but i guess my brother told me mom that its time to leave. and i live in my own apartment by myself and im 19 and i was telling my boyfriend ron that my mom might be comeing to live with me and he said good you need to live with your mom. my boyfriend is 23 and still lives with his parents. why does he want my mom to live with me? and no he doesnt have a crush on her.

2007-09-19 12:58:58 · 1 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Other - Family & Relationships