How can I be virgin again?

Question

I lost my virginity with a guy that I thought I loved but now I don't know what is happening to me.I'm so confused I don't like this guy anymore and I feel bad that I lost my virginity with him.I wish I could be one more time virgine but I don't know how.

Answer 1

Carebear It sounds like you just goofed. You have learned something about men. Some of these men are good at breaking a girl down and getting what they want and then walk away. I will say I'm sorrow but that won't help for what this man did to you. Pick up where you left off. Before you met this uncouth gentleman.
Sit your self down in a quite place and use biofeedback and bring your mind and body into focus that is positive and get on a good diet and start rebuilding the damaged area to both your mind and body. You must remember this world is not built on love. Protect yourself and love yourself first as God love you not as you love yourself. You have the power to forgive yourself. You also have the power to rebuild the damage areas in mind and body.

Example:
I was crushed under 30 tons of rock. I spent 27 years on drugs and oxygen. Then one day the doctor informed me I had six months left and to get thing in order before my death.
That when I took hold of my mind and body. I removed the air lines and through the pills and needles and the tens units in the trash. I made up my mind to either die or win the battle of recovery. It has now been 4 years and guess what? I walk as if I haven't been injured and I don't use oxygen. My life is wonderful. I have regrown the lung part the doctors cut out. and I feel really good about myself and the wourld around me.

Answer 2

Okay, there is a surgery that reconstructs your hymen and pretty much makes you physically like a virgin again but, virginity is more of a state of being rather than a physical thing. You've already had sex. You cannot have another first time. The innocence of it all is gone. Realize that you made a mistake and try not to do it again. Next time, be SURE that you love someone before you sleep with him.

Edit: I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 15. We had been dating for a year by then and continued dating for 2 years after that. I truly loved him but I found out later that although he cared for me, he never really loved me. This became apparent after he cheated on me. However, I never regretted losing my virginity to him because I learned from it; it helped me make better decisions in the future and has helped me become who I am today. Life is full of mistakes, the goal is to learn from them.

Answer 3

I sympathize with the dilemma you now face--your confusion and desire to be a virgin all over again. However, biologically, emotionally, mentally, and psychologically, you are not and can never become a virgin again. While medical science, can re-attach and give you a hymen,it does not restore virginity(defined as never having had any sexual intercourse).But do not despair. Henceforth, choose when and who you become intimate with very carefully.Sexual intimacy is a very special avenue for expressing love between a man and a woman; that is why you need to choose carefully.I hope time will ease your pain and I wish you the best.

Answer 4

hate to have to say this but viginity is a one time thing.. one day you are, the next you're not. However, sex is such an intimate act that the physicality of being of virgin won't matter when you find the right man.. the intimacy that you'll experience when making love to a man you truely love will make up for the fact that he's not your first, plus you'll have better idea of what to expect so don't look on your experience as negative, simply a learning process. Mentally, one day, you'll loose your soul to a man you love, and that's much more profound than loosing your virginity (and far far more frightening)

Answer 5

Virginity is more than just losing your hymen. It's about experiencing sex for the first time with someone, and you've already done that. I'm sorry to say your virginity is deffinately gone.

But the good news is that you can choose to make better choices in the future about who you sleep with. Sex is not something to do just because it's 'fun' or because you want to experience something new! You may THINK you love a guy, but until you're absolutely sure, you shouldn't share your body and put it at risk for disease and pregnancy.

So...consider this a learning experience, and someday, when you meet your future husband, you can tell him you did wait for him in your heart if not your body.

Answer 6

You can't be a virgin again, only a "born again virgin." Many years ago, I made the same mistake and lost my virginity with the wrong guy, who turned out to be a jerk. All you can do is learn from your mistakes, resolve to have better judgment in the future, and move on. Don't be so hard on yourself!

Answer 7

You can't get your "original" virginity back!

The good news is that you can still have a great first time!

The next time you have sex with someone, make sure you love each other, then it will be your "first time" with someone you love! For most people, that is even better than losing your virginity!

Answer 8

That's the mistake of young kids these days. They think they are OH SO in love, but once you do the big thing, he leaves. Or he's suddenly not interested. Guys will do that.

Sadly, you've made the decison and can't take it back.

You can ask God for forgiveness, but that will only make you a born again virgin.

You've torn your hymen... it's gone.

Answer 9

I would guess you are in your mid-teens.

You cannot regain your virginity, but you can regain your dignity. What's in the past is referred to as "spilt milk" meaning we can't change the past, just the future. The value of what happened is in what you can learn from it. It seems you have learned something: it takes time to know someone and it takes time for love to take root. Many times, attraction and desire may be confused for love, sometimes in moments of intimacy we feel a connection to another person that seems to be love. We must be patient. Everyone has a soulmate, even more than one. Love is not stingy, not handed out in carefully measured portions. Love is bountiful, and is everywhere, just waiting to be found by people, just like you. As a matter of fact, it may very well find you. When it happens, be patient, but also, be ready to accept it, for it may not be as plain as we might like it to be! Best of luck to you, dear!

Answer 10

Sorry hon, you'll have to wait until your next life for that.
:)

But all is not lost. We love you anyway, and if you learned something, probably overall it was worth it.

Don't stress. Virginity is nice for all the reasons people want it, but if it doesn't work out, the world goes on and many of us just don't care, or if anything, if we were dating and the subject came up, we would feel for you and be mad at the idiot for duping you.

s'awright, Sugar.