My girlfriend and I both work at McDonalds. I'm lucky because she is so attractive, but this has gone too far. I was sitting eating dinner with her the other night after we got off of work and a guy came in while we were eating. My g/f told me about him and how he sometimes comes in and makes little noises at her (sexual-type noises - like "woohoo" or "dannng") and how he always tries to hit on her. Well as we are leaving, he is at the counter and we come up to the counter to say goodbye to our fellow employees, and he's like "yoooo" and then as we walk out he's like "have a good night". It was the creepiest thing in my entire life. He looks like he is in his mid 20's. I'm afraid he's gonna try and rape her one day or something, you have no idea how creepy and white-trash this guy is. I don't know what do...should I lay his a$s out, even though he's a bit bigger than I am? Or have my g/f report him to management? Police? Any help or suggestions to get this guy away from my g/f?
2007-09-19 13:59:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can appreciate your fear and concern for your girlfriend but your options are not that many. Because this guy is a relative stranger to you(you don't know his name, address, place of employment etc), the only things you can do are:1)have a talk with him and risk a violent confrontation2)report him to your bosses, but since he does not work for McDonalds, there is not very much they can do about him--ban him from the store etc3)report him to the police.this is a little tricky because you will have to prove that his comments are directed at her or pray the police catch him in the act and /or have a talk with him and he listens.My suggestion is that as long as he makes no physical contact with her, and you can continue to escort her, and your girlfriend can ignore the cat calls, then just be careful, cautious, and vigilant.Unfortunately, there are people like this guy everywhere and there is not a whole lot we can do about them.I wish you both all the best and hold on to each other for support.Your love will see you through this difficult period. Good luck.
2007-09-19 14:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos for wanting to do something about it, this guy is definitely creepy. I would report him to your boss, and then see where it goes. You could present your concern, and then present the option of the cops if needed. Don't beat him up, then YOU will get in trouble!!! She's lucky you care so much about her. :-) Maybe you guys could work a different job together? Just be strong and don't stop unitl this guy is OUT of your life!! Good Luck :-)!
2007-09-19 14:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by sunshiney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of which you are able to tell the government of the McDonald's so as that way they are able to all save an eye fixed out on her for her protection once you're no longer able to. i think of which you could additionally touch the police just to be on the secure side. Rape is a terrible experience that no person ought to ought to pass by way of. i'm thinking that she ought to get a distinctive activity if it would not stop after administration or her asserting something. i'm hoping that one and all would be ok.
2016-11-05 21:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is worried, i would have her alert the management, and they can work with her so she no longer has to serve him.. If he continues to cross the line, the management can warn him to keep comments to himself. If that doesn't work, than there can be trespass charges brought against him, if he happens to show back up.. More than likely, he is just an immature pig, and will quit if told to.
2007-09-19 14:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by nikki f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋