Can someone please give me some advice.
3 yrs ago, my husband got it in his head he was sick of renting and we should own a home. We were wed one year and a baby already here and one on the way. We went into the cheapest thing we could afford, where it was in Hells Angels community and it was a nightmare. We sold 3 yrs later and lost money b/c I was desperate to get out.
Now, comes the second house, we are 10K our allowed amount, had to take out a third mortgage to pay for it. We can not afford to do the repairs required in this house. It's a year and a half we've been here. Part of the cost was, we got rid of our car and are now carless for the past year.
The problem is, we will never get a car, our credit is shabby and I think we should sell this house and rent and buy a cheap car. My husband will not budge and we're heading into winter with no repairs done and two kids that are as sick of walking everywhere as I am.
2007-09-19 06:02:21 · 2 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who's right? I want out so we can rent, get better with our finances and once we are settled buy a house that we actually want not just to own a house for the sake of owning property and he thinks it's stupid and a mistake.
2007-09-19 06:03:14 · update #1
My husband was that way.Cherished a house over children. He's been my ex-husband for 32 years now, and I remarried into much better.
2007-09-19 06:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talking to him about possible renting a place for now untilk you both can save up enough money to buy a house at least one with a lower payment and maybe one that doesn't require a lot of handy work
2007-09-19 13:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋