Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

2007-09-19 08:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by jenny D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to a co-parenting class tonight with my ex (court ordered) and we just had a fight.
I have to tell him that I can no longer watch our daughter while he works on his vistation days (ie. everyother Friday after school, his Holidays where there is no school, etc). He is not paying child support, yet he acts like he can tell me what to do (like telling me I HAVE to go to the PTA meeting tonight and cancel our co-parenting class).
He knows all the right buttons to push to make me mad and upset. I know he's going to try to make me look bad tonight at the co-parenting meeting and I am sick of it.

Does anyone have any advise or a pep talk to help me through tonight? My hubby is at the range today until late and I can't even talk to him.

2007-09-19 08:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Spring 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents woke us 4 up every morning about 6 am (in the summer when we had no school), had us out working on the "fish farm" for about 6 hours a day. We had to bag bait, box worms.... get this, they literally paid us a nickel a box/bag... we also had a list of chores that was to be completed on the weekends... mow the 8 acres, pick up the horse mess, dishes, laundry, etc... I have kids now 16 and 10 and they barely will unload the dishwasher without a huge fight... just wondering if anyone else had to work like this when they were kids...i think they had us for cheap labor....

2007-09-19 08:37:32 · 12 answers · asked by Turk Lee 1 in Family

you have friends.
but you dont feel like there your friends anymore.
i have like 4 mian friends.
#1) prefers her boyfriend, its ovious.
#2) makes me feel ugly.
#3) says nasty comments about other people.
#4) is not all that bad. but likes number 3 too much.
Its doing my head in.
Theres no where to run @ break & dinner.
Id prefer to sit on my own half the time.
Theres no other people to make friends with.
What on earth do i do?
x

2007-09-19 08:34:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's a few years older than me, but he's in one of my classes at school. Although I've shared TONS of eyecontact with the cutie, I've never actually talked to him. He's kind of intimadating and I really want to talk to him. He sits at the back of the class room though, and I'm forced to sit up near the front.

How can I intiate conversation with him? What should I say? He's kind of shy, but he's a huge drug addict. I just want to talk to him at least once. HELP?!

2007-09-19 08:34:03 · 22 answers · asked by -Lynne 2 in Singles & Dating

just a month ago i lost my cousin in a car accident he was only 43 with 2 kids i carnt cry i feel numb 3 other drivers were involved but all suvived part from my cousin funeral was 2 weeks ago all just dosent seem real how do i move on from this tragidy

2007-09-19 08:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This seems to be a pattern.

2007-09-19 08:32:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met my boyfriend when i was 15. I was outgoing, funny, interesting and nice. He was at that time too loud, outgoing and extremely needed for attention. He practically stepped on me and he became the only one who could be funny, outgoing and friendly. On top of that he would laugh at me when i would try to speak English (its my second language) i became sort of embarrassed to even speak English when he was around. I became "shy" the only language i've been able to speak with him is my mother language and he understands it. I speak English with everybody else and Im outgoing but its going away more and more... i need him all the time to be by my side in order to feel confident and secure. Now Im so quiet and almost extremely shy with other people, unless they speak Spanish too. Im 20 yrs old now and I am insecure and sad. What should i do? im so trapped, stressed, i dont know what to do... im drowning.

2007-09-19 08:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 08:30:23 · 3 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Friends

One of my male best friends Cordell flirts w/me all the time even though he has a girlfriend. Well this morning in the cafeteria at school, he walked right by me and sat down w/ his GF and didn't even notice me! Well him and his GF talked for a couple of minutes and then he held her hand! It made me so so so mad! But at the same time I wanted to cry! He talked to her, held her hand and was right by her side the whole entire time and never even bothered to speak to me!

Well I havent told him how much I really like him and I'll be completely honest, I'm head over heels for him! He has everything about him that I want in a guy but he's taken and it almost kills me to even see his GF! But the way he acted around her this morning gave the impression that they were the absolute perfect couple and they acted like they were meant for each other. I'm very emotional about it and I'm grounded so I can't call my BFF and ask for her advice. Can you plez give me sum advice! I really need help!

2007-09-19 08:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My penis is about 6.5. I always thought I was kindof small, but my gf who has been with 2 other guys says I'm bigger than both of them. Do you think she is just saying that to make me feel better? Do you think I could be bigger than her other guys?

2007-09-19 08:28:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Before you can fart in front of your partner without an apology, especially while lying on the sofa watching TV watching football when the washing up is still waiting to be done.

2007-09-19 08:28:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is addicted to WOW this witch war craft game, he plays for literally about 6-7 hours a day after he gets home from work when the weekend gets here he's on for about 48hrs. He is neglecting me and our children. He has been doing this for years and I'm at my wits end any suggestions other then the obvious leaving?

2007-09-19 08:27:13 · 17 answers · asked by gina j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Was in a wedding a didn't quite understand why having a child dressed up like a bride and walk down the isle was necessary.

2007-09-19 08:26:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok my husbend of 11 months got a text from his ex girlfriend from like 6 years ago, and we have had this issue with her before and he said he would stop talking to her. well he didnt tell me she texted him and i found out, then he tells me that she called HIS job to talk to him because she didnt get a text back

now this broad is dieing of cancer and i think he feels sorry for her but i wish she would just hurry up and die!

Should i be worried that something is going on between them of is she just a sudistic Bia who wont go away?

2007-09-19 08:26:40 · 16 answers · asked by Angie H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My question is this. How many couples thought your marriage was going to work out because there should have been no reason that it should not have. Both parties took every precaution that you could have imagined. You planned ahead the kids, the money, the vacations, the in-laws visiting, etc....Yet, you broke up within about 10 years or less. Read my story and see if you can relate to it. Give me lots of DETAILS so I can see if what happened to you happened to me.

I took every precaution to make my marriage work. I planned on getting married when I was in my 30's so that I would be at a mature age. I am a very clean cut man so I chose a very clean cut lady. Both of us work as professors at the same university. We dated for a year. We were engaged for one and a half years. We are getting a divorce after being married 5 years. Suddenly we were not compatible even though in the begining we were. What went wrong?

2007-09-19 08:24:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out last week that my sister in law discovered that I viewed some pictures of her that were very revealing. I'm really not sure why she brought it up she says she isnt going to tell my wife (her sister). Just wondering if you can help me figure out why she is handling this like she is.By the way she is very hot

2007-09-19 08:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, i'm planning on speaking to my crush from college at a break (15 minute break) I don't know ANYTHING about her, and she's not in any of my classes. Do you think this is a good conversation, also what do you think needs adding/improving? Thanks :)

Me: Hi!
Her: ___
Me: How are you?
Her: ___
Me: Goodgood, so is this your first year at college?
Her: ___
Me: Ah right, so what course are you doing?
Her: ___
Me: Wow nice, so you want to be a ____ when you're older?
Her: ___
Me: Well I was going to do graphics design but as i didnt get the grades i needed i'm doing art+design for 1 year, then going onto the graphics design
Her: ___
Me: Oh by the way I'm _____
Her: ___

Thanks for reading, i'd really like your comments and opinions :)

2007-09-19 08:20:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that a lot of people are against the idea of marriage, and seem to be highly critical of those that choose to do so? Recently, as I have become engaged, I hear it a lot, as if it's "uncool" to get married now a days. Do you think that marriage has the potential for becoming outdated in the next decade or so?

Where do you think our society is headed?

2007-09-19 08:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by Lane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 08:15:46 · 20 answers · asked by Portugesewonder10 2 in Friends

My boyfriend of almost two years has completely fallen off the train when it comes to romance and sex. i have tried to talk to him about it in a sensible manor. I am a very understanding girl but he hasn't taken me out he doesn't give me romantic or passionate kisses and we haven't had sex in quite some time. Anybody have advice or can explain this odd behavior? And he is not cheating on me or watching pornography.

2007-09-19 08:15:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so now i want answers and i want to meet this girl to get her to answer them seeing as how my partner will not.. help need advice

2007-09-19 08:09:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 23 years old a mother of 2, an recently married(2months).. My husband doesn't want to work an when he does he thinks its ok to work for nothing.. He makes enough for him to do what he wants to with an to heck with the bills.. what can i do to make him see there is more to think about then himself.. I love him an i know he loves of kid(we only have one together) but i can't do this alone its goin to take both of us.. His Mother an Stepdad help out alot an my parents cause they know i can't do it alone but its not there place to pay his way through life... Should i stay with him or should i say to heck with it an move on.. Seems like im the only one that cares in the relationship about what happens with our life an out kids life..

2007-09-19 08:07:34 · 12 answers · asked by pruittsgurl_01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you found out your husband was handcuffed and dragged to a strip club for the bachelor party, about how long would it take you to forgive him if you do at all, and what would be your trust implications.

Note, He's never drank, smoked or been with anyone else but you and you are now pregnant with his child. And you found out about it from his mouth after a heated argument.

2007-09-19 08:06:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, that's where the green-eyed monster in you comes out.
If someone else liked your partner, would you wonder what attracted them to him?

2007-09-19 08:05:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assuming u didn't know each other previously...how soon after meeting and starting dating did u make out (heavily)?

2007-09-19 08:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm chinese and I went to an egyptian coptic church to find a husband and I added a bunch of people to my contact list. Two weeks later I forgot who I added to my msn, I spoke to a guy whose contact I didn't recognize and he said how do I know you? And I said I might have added you from a dating site and then he told me to remove him from my contact list.
Do people think your slutty or that your just going to church to meet guys when you tell them you joined a dating site?

2007-09-19 08:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my fiance been together almost 2 years, he has two childeren and i have one. his house is paid off and he has some money in stock, he also has a new business that is growing. I have a house which i have some mortgage on it. he says the only way that he would marry me is to sign a print obtional agreement which includes even his business in future. I understand his house and his stcock money but i don't think is fare to me if his business grows in future and I wont be part of it! should i marry him? I think he is not fare to me and he thinks i am after his money. what should i do?

2007-09-19 08:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by amy n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was asked today in court if you rent a prostitue or do you buy a prostitute. If you buy it it is yours RIGHT? If you rent it you give it back? I dont know just a dumb question and I didnt know.

2007-09-19 07:57:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im kicking out my husband for dif. things like him cheating and chasing girls and be very viloent. so im leaving him. my best friend lives in vegas and got ahold of a gal who wants her to be a flight attenendt and asked me to do it with her also. i live in southern utah about 2 hours away from vegas. im living with my parents now also. anyways i need to train for 6 weeks in texas then the job will be in vegas and they start out pretty good. i have alittle girl also so im worried about that. im a country gal and love the mountains and everything, i dont like vegas but should i do this.

2007-09-19 07:57:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships