I met my boyfriend when i was 15. I was outgoing, funny, interesting and nice. He was at that time too loud, outgoing and extremely needed for attention. He practically stepped on me and he became the only one who could be funny, outgoing and friendly. On top of that he would laugh at me when i would try to speak English (its my second language) i became sort of embarrassed to even speak English when he was around. I became "shy" the only language i've been able to speak with him is my mother language and he understands it. I speak English with everybody else and Im outgoing but its going away more and more... i need him all the time to be by my side in order to feel confident and secure. Now Im so quiet and almost extremely shy with other people, unless they speak Spanish too. Im 20 yrs old now and I am insecure and sad. What should i do? im so trapped, stressed, i dont know what to do... im drowning.
2007-09-19 08:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave this relationship and find your self and someone who will love and appreciate you for the real you.
2007-09-19 08:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of people that will love you and this person is not one of them. If someone is putting you down and not helping you grow as a person then it is time to pack the baggage and leave honey. I know i was in a relationship like this too for 8 years but my guy was very controlling and didn't want me to have friends and relationships without him. Now i am a single woman and loving it and most of all loving myself!! You need people who are going to let you be yourself and grow! Don't ever let a man trap you into feeling this way women worked to hard to be on their own in this country.
Be free Love yourself!
Good Luck
2007-09-19 08:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to this question. That is why you are here asking it. Listen to your heart and do what is best for you. If staying was the best thing to do, you wouldn't even be here asking. You'd know. Time to get out, and you know it! Good luck!
2007-09-19 08:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is caused you to exclude yourself from ppl and sounds like even yourself. hes controling you, you need to leave before its too late.
:/ goodluck
2007-09-19 08:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Elly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kind of what happened to me, GET OUT!!!!!.Youre losing who you are.Dont do that to your self.Good luck
2007-09-19 08:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by tmckenzieswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋