I was wondering if i am sensitive. I get very upset when someone close to me is upset and if they are acting differently i take it personally. Whenever somebody is being mean to someone, i always feel their pain and i get so angry i just want to help them, but i cant, as i am to shy. I am always worried what people think of me and i am nervous when I am with someone alone. Whenever people tell me their problems i listen and i feel their pain, but i dont think they will care about mine. I love Animals and i hate seeing cruelty to any living being. I always seemed to get walked all over by "friends" and this can make me EXTREMELY upset. If somebody says something mean to me, i will get upset and i will only want to to talk a few people i trust. I can be jealous when i see my friends with other people, and i am very protective. I hate getting yelled at and if i do i will just be alone. Am i sensitive? and do guys like girls like this? Thanks.
2007-09-19 02:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Girl with a brain 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there, you shouldn't worry if guys like a girl like that. I think that you are too emotional and should see a professional to help you judge what is ok and what is too much empathy for your fellow man. You should NOT let anyone, friend or not, walk all over you. That is not normal in any relationship, except by people who are in abusive situations. People need to respect your right to live and be happy. You need to exert your personal space and make people respect that boundary. If they won't, then you need to get new people in your life who will respect you.
Another thing you need to realize is that you can't help everybody. People have different agendas and you don't want to be manipulated into doing anything you will regret later on. You need to be true to yourself first and make sure you are happy. Be secure in yourself and you will see that guys will like you b/c you are confidant.
Guys do like women who are caring, but, you don't seem to know where the point ends between a caring person and a person who will be an emotional mess all the time. Guys don't like emotional messes that are never happy b/c you are always feeling someone else's pain. You need balance and a guide to show you what is a good way to be happy given who you are. I just don't want to see you get hurt, project that pain and screw up all relationships in the future. Good luck, and you can email me if you wish.
2007-09-19 08:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by dancam1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay dear. so here u are telling us all bout urself. honestly if i was a guy, i'd be annoyed. its wonderful to have a lil bit of sensitivity but urs is over the top. im sorry if i sounded mean but u cant keep on being like this when socializing. u need to give people space to think or to talk, no matter what they're thinking or talking about. u should stop thinking bout urself or what u feel. who cares if someone acts differentlytowards u? as long as u know that ur in the right side, then be it.
but i really like ur caring attitude. thats sweet and warm =)
2007-09-19 02:10:38 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually, if I'm going to date a "sensitive" girl she's got to be really something for me to put up with all the sensitivity. Personally, I don't like to have to watch everything I say or have to boost up her ego all the time. I guess it doesn't generally make for a fun relationship if I'm always worried about hurting her feelings. Not that I'm mean or anything, but I can't voice my opinion that dissents from hers because she gets hurt or offended.
That said, it doesn't always take a woman off the table. Like I said, if she really means something to me, I'll date her and put up with it. I will realize I'll be in the doghouse half the time, but.... well. If she's worth it, she's worth it.
2007-09-19 02:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys make like a girl like this, however it really depends on you and the person. Personally I like women who are stable and not overly emotional.
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2007-09-19 02:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anime Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get counseling for your self-esteem issues.
2. Yes, you are too sensitive.
3. No, guys don't like that, because you're always yelling or crying at them.
2007-09-19 02:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
yes u r sensitive..esp around ppl, but shyness can be overcome, but not personality, as in how you think ppl's moods reflect ur relationship w/them, most of the time it probalby doesn't
and i don't htink guys like this...girls won't even like it lols
2007-09-19 02:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by looneyanaid 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes, i would consider you to be hypersensitive. that bothers most boys but not if they are determined to satisfy their lust.
2007-09-19 02:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋