i had friedns throughout my school years but we all moved on and didnt keep contact. it is pretty lonely without any friends no where to go or noone to talk to i have my husband and kids but sometimes it would be nice to have a friend when im at home all day it does get very lonely when you see everyone else chatting and doing things together. i dont bother much with my family anymore and i do meet other parents at school and that and they are all very friendly and often ill chat while waiting but its still not the same what could i do?
2007-09-19 01:38:02 · 19 answers · asked by carla 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when chatting to ones at the school why not see if any want to get coffee maybe suggest one day a week you all go and chat and gossip it only takes one to say yes ,
im at home too i have few that are home as well every so often ill go to theirs or they come to mine ,maybe you have a car and one of them does not suggest you go shopping or something get to know them abit better
make friends on here its not meeting people and you can finish when u want ive a few i chat to on here it can be fun add me if you want jill2006_g@yahoo.co.uk
2007-09-19 01:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got no friend for me is a serious problem because I'm a person who's having a hard time without friends. How about start talking or socialize with your neighbourhood. Your next-door neighbour or someone else in your neighbour is the closest peron with you beside your families. Or you can join some classes or clubs, well in this so huge society of yahoo answers is a place for you to search for a friend too. But the fastest way I suggest to you is your neighbour or join some club or classes.
Good Luck!
2007-09-19 02:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest finding some kind of activity outdoors where there are other participants, or find a job. I did meet a new friend doing volunteer work at the local animal shelter. Most of my friends here moved away, so I can relate to your sadness. Also, break the ice between you and your family. My sis is my very best friend! I hope I've helped in some way.
2007-09-19 02:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are at a different stage of your life!
This is the world of grown ups. Your former friends have their commitments. By right you should have too. Just learn to grown out of it. People change and your friends have all changed by now. I don't think they treat you the same way as before. It is better for you to learn how to live without those kinds of friendships you once had. They don't exist anymore. For you anyway.
2007-09-19 01:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Street Smart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby and socialise with people. bother with your family because they will always be better than friends. Why are you at home all day can you not work? Im just saying dont let yourself burn your bridges its so hard to make friends in adulthood because you tend to confuse acquaintances but you know you'll meet some great ladies and have some great times out.
2007-09-19 01:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same boat. Im married with kids and stay at home. BORING!! im going to start taking classes in the spring and hopefully make some friends my own age. im friends with the parents of my kids friends but they are older by about ten years. But I do have sisters that i do things with but it isnt the same as having a close friend. after high school those relationships just dwindle we all go our separate ways. Im here if you need someone to talk to.
2007-09-19 02:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by delite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'll should be to having my new friends,to socializing with the other people,to communicated and to entertained with them and I think I'll be spending time to answer of these questions and to spending time with my family and relatives or I'll be to joined if we will go to shopping or watching movies than when I'm feeling lonely and sad if I had no friends
2007-09-19 01:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Clarisse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you got any mother and children groups in your area? lots of mums go to them with their children and get together. maybe you could do a college course or part time work. i know how you feel though as i always found it hard to make friends as a kid and i still to this day find it hard. i only have 2 true friends in my life. have you got any neighbours you talk to? get to know some of them better. maybe you could have a night out with them or go shopping etc. all it takes is for you to make the effort to get to know someone and the friendship will grow as time goes on. i know its easier said than done, but it will happen if you put your mind to it.
2007-09-19 01:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by * Mummy to 2 Girls * 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to www.meetup.com and find a local group that is into any of your favourite activities.
Just go to the site and look at the various get togethers that are there, there are groups for everyone and everything.
I was very surprised to find some folks who enjoy strategic board games as an example.
You have nothing to lose, git it a whirl.
2007-09-19 01:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean.I am also married with kids i have friends but they are not like the ones i had when i was single.We should be friends i'm sure we have lots in common.
2007-09-19 08:16:38 · answer #10 · answered by CRYSELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋