Wife acting too much, she knows no matter what the court will assign two kids 5 & 2 yr. old to her, not for $$ but due to her low life mentality I wants my kids custody what can I do to impress judge and to hurt her credibility she lies, lies and lies and all the time.
2007-09-19 01:57:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Another suggestion that is always a good idea, is to document everything you are seeing that she lies about. Write down dates and times that you are sure that she will "dispute". Make sure that there are people around when you exchange the kids, or anything where you think it could come up in court. If it is just her word against yours, then it is just that, but if you have others, sometimes neutral 3rd parties that can testify to what you are talking about, and you have dates and times documented, it will have better backing to a judge sometimes. It will show that you are keeping track of your efforts also. Example: If she refused to let you see the kids, but then said you didn't show up, if you had someone with you, a friend or neighbor for example, they could testify to her not allowing you to see them and what her "reasons" were.
Also, as the other poster said, get a lawyer also, this helps immensely!!
2007-09-19 15:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by mystry72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney. Your attorney will help you convince the judge that you are better qualified to have physical custody.
Unless your ex is neglecting or abusing the kids, it is next to impossible to prove her to be unfit, whether you approve of her low-life mentality or not. It is far easier to prove the better parent (stability, finances, home, guidance, etc.)
What ever you do, do NOT act like an idiot in front of the judge and do NOT bad mouth your ex. Be very very careful of the image you portray to the judge!
2007-09-19 09:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get a good lawyer and you hae to show shes lying its very hard but if you get the right lawyer he can do it. most of the time the judges side witht he moms no matter what but you can beat it if you do what the lawyer says if you get a good custody lawyer. good luck
2007-09-22 21:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋