i had a friends with benefit relationship with a guy, but it did not work out, well now i want the same thing with his older brother, do you think that is wrong?
2007-09-19 02:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by indianmix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that's all it was, and there were no feelings from either of you toward the other, and if that's all it would be between you and the brother, then go for it. There are people that might be judgmental about it, but first of all, most friend-with-benefit situations are not public knowledge... second of all, the people that would judge you aren't people that you need to be worrying about anyway. Ultimately, it's your life, and therefore your decision.
2007-09-19 09:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have 2 ask, then YEA its wrong! You dont want to be labeled the neighbor hood hoe do you? I HOPE NOT! IF so, go for it, if not...then leave the bro alone, there are so many other guys out there. PLUS, do u really think the brother is gonna be serious and have respect for you? HELL NO!
2007-09-19 02:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends...not on you but the older brother...if the older brother does like the idea then its not even worth doing it with that guy...hes a prick he should never stick in anything in you or even touch you if his little brother has..thats gross...we call that cool-aid dipping where im from thats if your family with that person. Like "brother" or "cousins". not the girl but the guys...
2007-09-19 02:09:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but you should go for someone not related to the guy you just stopped um..."being with". It would be a little disrepectful and sleezy to start "being with" his brother. Look around, I'm sure you'll find someone else.
2007-09-19 02:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to cause problems in his family? I know a guy who married is brothers exgirlfriend and they dont speak anymore. Move on!
2007-09-19 02:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by delite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, definitely its not right... its like using someone to meet your needs... using someone as a means to an end... theres definitely no happiness there... it will be just shallow... go and try to have something more fulfilling and true with someone you truly care about.
2007-09-19 02:21:20 · answer #6 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.
2007-09-19 02:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by lloyd_winston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think is wrong because otherwise you wouldnt think about it but I dont think is wrong so dont think about it!
2007-09-19 02:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by k1_persia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yes
2007-09-19 02:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Adam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Get your beans picked any way you can!
2007-09-19 02:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋