Whats the best method to heal a broken heart/ get over someone/stop loving them?

Answer 1

Theres no easy way to get over a broken heart. Just give it time. Time heals all wounds. Go have some fun! Try not to think about him. Lifes too short to waste it being upset now.

Answer 2

It takes time to heal a broken heart. Unfortunately, not everyone deals with it as easy as others but I would recommend that you spend time with friends and family. Maybe find some hobby to keep yourself busy. If the person you are brokenhearted over doesn't want to be in your life, then just remember that there are many many more people out there. I know it's easier said than done. To stop loving someone can be tough, but if that person you are trying to get over doesn't love you then you pretty much were wasting your precious time. I hope you find true happiness.

Answer 3

Keep yourself really busy with things that you enjoy and maybe take up something new. Do not have really bad thoughts towards your ex and don't jump into another relationship. Remember the good times and the lessons learnt and move on with your life. Write a list of all the things you want to do and then do them. Once you have healed you will meet someone new and remember if it doesn't work out between two people, you were never meant to be together.

Answer 4

I know this will sound stupid and maybe old fashioned, but it is just....time.If you concentrate on trying to forget him you won't.The best way is to go with how you feel.If you want to cry, cry over him, if you want to be angry, let yourself feel that anger, constructivley, and most of all talk to your best friend, mostly someone who knows how to comfort you and help you to be distracted from him, someone who is positive.Keep as busy as poss, whatever is is, even if you don't feel like doing it, do it.Eventually you will heal, and you will be surprised when you fall in love again and its just as wonderful, if not better because you have learnt more about yourself this time.!I have been through it and thats all I can say hunny.Chin up.Wish you the best.Your worth a lot, don't forget.!

Answer 5

i dont think u can ever stop loving a person well u can but it aint that easy i know girl. the easiest way to get ova a person is to delete their number n be around friends, friends will help. quite often u have to be careful because although uve split up deep down u may want to get back with him n friends will say things that will persuade u not to go back. i dnt know the situation so i cant comment on that. but b4 u try 2 4get him maybe sit down n think to urself is this wat i really want? if it is then live ur life but if not meet up with ur ex n talk about whats made u unhappy n he can tell u how he feels, then u can come up with a solution. relationships r hard work me n my man have split plenty of times, only cos we were angry at the time we would scream n shout f-in n blindin then it would get too much n 1 of us would be like ''its ova its ova get ur stuff get ur stuff'' etc n we didnt take each others views into consideration which happens but its also immature sometimes it is good to step back n really think about it it could take 1 month maybe 2 but if u both loved each other that much im sure u could work things out!!! i dnt know if thats what u wanted to hear but i dnt think TRU love could eva die!!! it can hurt u go down hill 4 a bit but it can neva die.

but good luck with wot eva u do.

Answer 6

Just act and then hold on ur breath a while and let go!Do u feel better?Nope i know coz it really takes time especially
when there re alot of memories good ones to cherish.I would say listen to some music , occupy urself and do not look at ur handphone whether the person will call.Life wonders!

Answer 7

dont push yourself to forget them so quickly as it makes it harder to accept whats happened and move on.
give yourself time to get your head around it, cry if you have to, shout and scream if it makes you feel better.
go out with your friends and take your mind off it, have fun and do all the things you want to to prove you are better than your ex and you dont need them anymore.
it will be hard and may take a lot of time and patients but it will get easier as time goes on, time is the best healer as they say.
you cant automatically stop loving someone, you might never stop loving them as they were in your life and will always have a place in your heart. but if your patient enough you will accept it and look back on it as a happy experience and smile, it will make you the person you grow to be later in life.
remember everything happens for a reason, your perfect partner could be just around the corner. keep your chin up, everything will be alright!

Answer 8

Go on with your life. You should have enough in your life to get real busy with to concentrate on instead of romance for a while. Practice your hobby, or get one if you don't have one. Join a club. Volunteer for a public service activity of some kind. There are many good people in public service.

Answer 9

Take time out and start loving yourself.

Boost self confidence.
Start smiling even if you don't feel like it.

Be with friends.
And tell them to smack you if you start talking about your ex.
And give you plenty of hugs.

Do your favourite things. Watch your favourite films.
Buy new clothes, new hairstyle, makeup.


And if you're missing them. Write a letter to them but not send it. It helped me alot to write unsent messages. As I know how much it hurts to keep those feelings locked up inside.

After awhile you will forget.

Answer 10

My best way is to keep ur mind off him by going out with mates 4 a night and ave a good time with them. don't brush ur friends to the side u can't by friendship or trust.