My husband is very selfish. The only thing that matters to him is his family, his job, football and alcohol. i love you very dearly and i know he loves me too. But if I was to hurt myself, get ill or grow disabled, he would not be there for me. He has no patience. WHen a person married someone they hope for a secure life and hope to aid each other at times of difficulties....i dont think mine would do that. WHat shall i do?
2007-09-19 00:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry it's time to move on,you cant teach a old dog new tricks he is set in his way.good luck.
2007-09-19 00:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Spot 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm very sorry to hear of your plight sweetheart, I guess in time we all discover what the people around us are really like. I believe that you deserve better but should at least try and work it out before going your own separate ways.
All the luck in the world.
2007-09-19 07:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
communicate! Does he know how you feel, you said you know he loves you so he obviously cares about your life. Maybe he thinks you are happy as you are, i'm sure if you did need him he would be there for you, he just doesn't realise how you feel. Try spending more time together, go out etc. and you will not feel so alienated, he's maybe just taking you fo granted.
2007-09-23 05:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Thneedloverz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have one life to live. This isnt a dress rehearsal its the real thing. You got to look after number 1 and that is you!! Get out there and get a real life! Good luck
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2007-09-19 07:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wasn't always this way, was he? If he was, I doubt that you'd have married him, right? Bottom line - if you wish to save your marriage, then work on it. If you don't think it's worth it, then get out and find someone who'll care for you the way that you deserve to be care for...
2007-09-19 07:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wont change,so if i were you,id get out of this marriage.Do you want to look back in twenty years time asking yourself why you put up with it?
You deserve better than this.
2007-09-19 07:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Be strong and ask him what he thinks the future is with you all
2007-09-19 07:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a bit on the side
2007-09-19 07:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by roger69 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you have a choice either deal with it or move on.
2007-09-19 14:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live with it or leave - simple as.
2007-09-19 07:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋