2007-09-19 01:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
onli if they were babies or adults
2007-09-19 13:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a single parent point of view, the thing I'd advise people to be careful about is their expectations.
monoparental family have a dynamic of their own which allows the stability and happiness of all.
Having a partner come in is difficult, not only for the one coming in, but for the whole family.
It's a shame single parents are discriminated against, but I guess it's only fair, because it IS not easy.
However, I think that the difficulty lies mainly in the fact that people want to rush things, or mark their territory and are selfish.
The very same reason, couple divorce anyway.
Only with a monoparental family, those things are clear right form the start.
What one is or is not willing to put up with; not to always be number 1, love and compromise.
So, to me, it seems that if you don't come full of a suitcase of expectations, and are just ready to love, knowing that love don't come easy, then, it's totally possible!!!
Don't delete us just yet!xxx
2007-09-19 01:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah of course. if i love the person, why not ? It depends on yourself whether you are letting yourself to get over the facts that she already has a children from a previous relationship. If you don't mind, Yeah everything's cool. Seize the right moments with perfect timing. Opportunities don't give chances. Only you are the one who be able to give yourself a chance with a opportunites you have. If she's the one who approach you and you could get along well with her. By all means just go for iT!!! GOOD LUCK!
2007-09-19 01:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am... dating someone with 2 children from a previous marriage. I love him... but sometimes it is really hard on me. I have to remember that he has other people that come before me... and sometimes I forget that - b/c I do not have children. Basically, he is my number 1 and I am his number 3! But, we are still doing good... it's just something I have to really WORK ON!!
2007-09-19 01:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If the person's a nice guy and a good parent (meaning that he disciplines the children when needed). I like kids overall, and if the person's a nice guy, it doesn't matter if he has kids or not.
2007-09-22 07:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if I loved him, I'd accept and love his kids too. The children would be a part of him and nothing could change that.
2007-09-19 01:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmina 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Everyone usually has a past, and if it comes with children, then so be it. If you like them, you like them, no matter if they have children or not.
2007-09-19 01:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kaiti P 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would
2007-09-19 01:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by MissE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-09-19 05:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by ballet_girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this may sound selfish, coldhearted, and just plain beyotchy, but.....no. no way......i dont want that problem dealing with the ex wife, and step kids, and all that other crap....i have 2 of my own, and i just want them to be it. if something was to happen, i would want to be with someone who dont have kids, and dont want any of their own.
2007-09-19 01:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by sonyanjoey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If the person is great, it doesn't matter...
2007-09-19 01:05:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋