How much Animal instinct still remains unnoticed in male/female?

Question

i feel some guys blame there infidelity on urges, "it just happened i don't love her it was just sex......" how many have heard something or said something along these lines??? is it a need 2 spread seed? or a lack of control? i have once (in a moment of weakness) fooled around one night on a girl i was seeing with her friend because we were the last ones awake and it "just happened" but i had no feelings for her and loved my girl fiercly i told her because i was guilty and i wanted her to hear it from me not someone else years later. as i said i loved her, why does this happen? how much is animal instinct how much is "sleazy, unfaithful, etc. (i have managed to never repeat this but the urges have been there?? (black widow spiders kill there mates for this very reason?? ladies please don't get any ideas lol but any thoughts???

Answer 1

No actually black widow spiders kill there mate for food. Same as the preyin matis, but I think your tryin to draw a line of how its all instinct. Lets just say your half right (as far as humans are concerned and completely right about the spider), humans are an interesting animal, becuase we have free choice on weather or not to follow our instincts, were not slaves to them. Ask a drug addict (which actual animals can be drug addicts so it shows how deep this drive runs), which is a fine example of how wants can fulfil needs (needs are instintual, and the list is long). But that all aside what you need to understand is that you did something because the fact was your needs were not being satisfied. Things don't "just happened" that pissed me off >_< (you sounded smart till then) theres reasoning behind it that 1. your ether not willing to accept or 2. not willing to tell us about. THat also aside you didn't do nothing different then anyone else, your a fine example of your pedigree. But were not slaves to our instinct, unless it makes a fine excuse, which is what we do......

Answer 2

Mother Nature invented the intercourse act for all species to breed and multiply. Human beings and maybe a few of our primate cousins have determined to make use of it as an act of delight. The normal rule is that intercourse is for procreation. Human beings could also be one of the most few (if now not the one) animals that keeps to mate after the feminine is impregnated.