apart from the fact I'm gloating over how the first word caught your Freudian attention
I'm 18 and I haven't had sex.
How bad is the situation looking?
2007-09-19 10:23:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Interesting issues.
Thanks for the support by the by!
2007-09-19 10:39:42 · update #1
It's going to fall off.
2007-09-19 10:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine Says... 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
haha no gloating. I'll admit that I am a person very much into sex. But nothing wrong wit that! XP Just becuase you're 18 and haven't had sex doesn't make you bad or it doesn't mean you're in a bad situation. It's actually fine. It doesn't matter. People might say damm you're an idiot. But actually you were smart not to get that **** done in highschool. When you're a virgin and you have sex...you get attached to the girl you have sex with and you get really clingy. Very bad in highschool because you start to not think about school. Just go to parties and hook up with girls just for making out and maybe you can get a girlfriend and after about 2 months maybe 1 month you can have sex with her. It might depend on how much you know the girl to tell her you're a virgin because she might be afraid of having a clingy boyfriend. :] Overall...im pretty sure you'll know what to do...you've watched porn im sure. But highschool boys know nothing of where to put it >< so you should know. YOu better know...very unattractive if you don't know what you're doing. Very big turn off.
2007-09-19 17:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hali 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
18 and still a virgin, congratulations man! And I'm NOT being sarcastic. You don't see too many people like you, everyone wants to have sex before they're like 13 nowadays.
The situation is NOT bad, though, eventually you will want to gain some experience in that area.
Feel free to read my sex blog at http://datcurious.com if you're interested in learning anything on that topic.
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2007-09-20 15:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha thats funny you said that, i just clicked on it because it said sex AND i was literally thinking "i love how everyone loves the questions with sex and click them"
but don't worry about it, i know plenty of guys who haven't had sex and they are like 21 and VERY attractive and they get all the ladies and everything. I mean you can either get all the ladies and choose not to have sex yet, OR you don't get ladies and that is why you don't have sex, but trust me it will come soon. and if people ask you, they don't need to know you don't get ladies (if thats the case) just make something up about wanting to wait or something.
2007-09-19 17:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your situation looks damn good,
there 30 & 40 year olds out there
who have never had sex. Just go
out, and socialize, you will meet
someone sooner or later. Take
your time, and speak up a little
more, You will be okay.
2007-09-19 17:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by trebor2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have sex till I was 18 and now I'm 26 and I'm glad i waited. Just wait till you get a steady girlfriend and you're both ready.
2007-09-20 23:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Seamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter how old you are. waiting untill you find the perfect person is wht it is about. i think it's very sweet and admirable to wait to have sex. i waited untill i was in a relationship with somebody i truly loved and cared for. but dont think just because you are 18 you have to rush into sex. take your time and wait for the right person. you will just know in your heart when you're ready
2007-09-19 17:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by k-dub 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not bad at all. I respect a man who is confident enough to say he is still a virgin. Now this is not about when is the rigth age to loose it. The important thing is that you do it with someone you love.
Good luck
2007-09-19 17:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you used the word "Freudian" explains it all.
2007-09-19 17:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything bad about it all. if you haven't had sex yet it is because you are not ready. There is alot of responsibilty that comes with sex. Have it with someone you care about. It can be a wonderful expierence. Please use protection!!! A few minutes of pleasure isn't worth three letter words to your death.
2007-09-19 17:34:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have sex by 18. You will find the person that you should be with.
2007-09-19 17:27:17 · answer #11 · answered by Valerie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋