2007-09-19 12:09:14 · 21 answers · asked by Fogazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its sex with someone you love, why stop?
2007-09-19 12:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So what, your're normal. Is there a problem? The only time it is bad is if you do it to excess so that you can't make love any more to your wife, then there's a problem. Otherwise you do what every other man and woman do. You are not different or wierd. If you talk seriously to your wife about it she will probably admit that she does it too. In fact that is a way to spice up a marriage sometimes by mutual masturbation. It's fun to watch and be watched, but you have to be secure with yourself enough to do it. Have fun.
2007-09-19 19:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cliff R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ignoring your wife physically ? or are you keeping her satisfied and fulfilling ALL her sexual needs? if yes then why do you want to stop masturbating? seriously why do people do this garbage its natural , its a part of life for cryen out loud.
If your ignoring your wife then cut back how much you masturbate and give her more attention before she leaves you because thats the advice she'll be given if she come's in here whinging , moaning , groaning about you doing it.
Good luck either way.
2007-09-19 19:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are asking for help on how to stop masturbating, then you may have a problem. Most likely, your wife is not fulfilled. If your problem is out of hand, get professional help. Good Luck!!!
2007-09-19 19:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by metalwife 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to stop it? the reality of it is that most men, esp. your age, married or not with or w/o children need sexual gratification of some sort. some treat themselves to the company of a young, cute, accommodating escort or two a week so your saving $ and being faithful. whats wrong with that?
2007-09-19 19:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it is an addiction you need to clean out everything and anything that makes you do it. Also you need help from your wife or counsler to help you quit. Porn and masterbating is addictive. My husband and I just went through the same problem.
2007-09-19 21:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is..... most men regardless of their situation still toss off...... I'll bet Brad Pitt still does as well as many guys married to totally hot women... I say the day you lose your desire to beat the bishop is the day you have a problem.
2007-09-19 19:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by DavidV 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you think you masterbate too much? If that's the case, then maybe you need to seek some professional help for addiction.
Otherwise, masterbation is perfectly normal and healthy. Go for it!
2007-09-19 21:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Greenman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to stop unless it is interfering with your sex life with your spouse. Just make sure you do it in a private place where no one will catch you, like your kids!
2007-09-19 21:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to stop masturbating.
I'm a mother of 2 and i still masturbate. this is normal. and keep stress to a lower level.
2007-09-19 19:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by tabatha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with masturbating we all do it unless your one of those wierdos who think it is a sin. **** i love to masturbate i see nothing wrong with it. you relieve stress and get pleased at the same time sometimes it is better than sex lol
2007-09-19 19:23:54 · answer #11 · answered by stt143 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋