Need advise from the men?

Question

Thanks in advance..

He was attracted, then when I got serious, he pulled away and said he isn't ready for a relationship. We are still talking, and he cares for sure, but love seems one-way. Is it ever going to be possible to win his love/romantic interest and have him come to me again, like the way he was before? What gives? How do you advise I should be with him, in order to mazimize my chances? I love this person.

Answer 1

Love means nothing without purpose, which is something your hiding, along with him, remember that. This is how it works, when you say "I love him" theres reasons,, like I love him because I want to marry him someday, because I'm lonely and he is cute, becaue I need to be laid. Love is never enough its emotion that excites feelings, so thats why he used romance to try and get what he can from you, thats why he pulled away you were going to be to much trouble. Anything deeper then that, can be summed up to you weren't the right person, so its one or the other you make that call. As far as "Winning" him over, don't be stupid, you can't do that, thats cute movie stuff, but if you have to win them over, you can loss them agian, which isn't fair to you, expect more, and trust me hunnie you've got plenty of "love" so NEVER make that the sole reason to be with someone, thats going to led to heartache..... love isn't enough, its HOW you use it!