what woudl you do..?

Question

if you loved your mother.
but she always thought bad of everyhting
very pesemistic!
and you just dont know wat to do..cuz she just like wont let you grow up. and yall get in fights and "i hate you" comes out. but then you realize... "aww darn.. whos gonna take me shoppping!??"
i just want trust from her.
and letting my choose who i wanna be with
and what i wanna wear (but her buy it)
gosh im 14!
arent i old enough to be by now??

but yea.. i love the chic.. but she needs to bacc off! but be there for me at the same time..

wowzers; wat would you do with mommy MctripTRIP.

O AND: like when she says something bas your liek "whatever! omg! freak out!" and all that gay crap shes like "then why are you so defensive??"

thats crazy! why everytime i try to defend myself am i in denial and being defensive..gay crap!

Answer 1

Ok if you want to keep up the fantasy that chic is something cool and that makes you mature and better able to understand this world, disregard my anwser, it would just waste both our times.













Realize the most important thing is your family, for you to turn this inability to relate, into a shopping tragedy isn't funny. Also whats about to come up later in your life becasue of this is also not going to be funny. Realize you live in a cultural thats has lost all its merit. So you've got a choice, continue to go down your path of chic, find some rich guy that digs your style (really just your sexuality, but you won't know any better) and he'll take you shopping and all your cool friends can help you forget about how horriable you were raised. ARE you could take your head out of your..... and realize ever bad thing you had to deal with, espacially with your mother can be traced back to the same culture that your worshiping. I'm not saying american culture is bad, I'm saying doing any of the comfromist I'm hip because I think I'm unique sterotypical groups to belong to, is. If you could see the bigger picture you would see your fix, this comes down to you both amiting how much you truly love each other and I'm not talking about ooo I love you, I'm talking ooo I love you so much because you are my mother and I'd kill for you, but your acting like a stupid fool becaue you don't understand how I most play these games with these immature snots are I'll never find anyone who geniunely cares about me, so get with the program. And then wait for her response, trust me. If not, then go down the chic, you'll find someone to save you.