Ever since last night when I cooked her favorite meal, then I took her shopping to buy any clothes she want(My credit card is still smoking mind you lol), gave her a massage with scented oils by candle lights then presented her with new ring for being pregnant and to celebrate being pregnant.
And some other "nightly activities" that where focused on her.
Now today she just stares at me. I asked her what is wrong but she says nothing.
But she stares quietly at me, watching everything I do.
Is she okay? Is it her hormones from being pregnant? Or is it something else?
I know she likes to keep the scare "even". Ever since kindergarden during Valentines day she had to give me more love cards that I gave her or equal to it......
2007-09-19 15:27:28 · 60 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah right, like I would ever cheat on her. She is the only one for me.
2007-09-19 15:38:25 · update #1
she just hates you that's all!
wanna know why?
because you ask perfect strangers questions about you marriage on the net!
2007-09-26 23:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did you do all of this becasue you found out that she is pregnant? What kind of ring was this? would you have given the ring to her if she werent pregnant? Would you have normally done all of these things before you found out she is pregnant? All of these are questions that need answered before I can say what my answer would be. Are you one of those guys that only brings flowers home when you know you are in trouble? or one of the guys that does it for no reason at all? If you are doing things that you wouldnt normally do then she is really probably watching you to see clues as to what is up with you.
but then again, She could be just saying.. WOW.. I didn't realize I had such a wonderful man! Hint though.. Don't spoil her only becasue something "BIG" is happening. Women need to feel wanted and needed and loved ALL OF THE TIME. Romance is ALWAYS a plus! ANY DAY OF THE YEAR!! Oh.. and don't ever lie.. no matter how small the lie is. We ALWAYS find out. Most of the time you tell us! Sounds like shes got a good man... but you might not want to ask her "whats wrong" all the time.. thats really irritating!!
2007-09-27 15:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think I'd be offended by the "nightly activities" you're referring to, especially, if she isn't into that.
How long have you been married? Is this your first child?
I know that [especially the first pregnancy] your hormones do get a little "raging".
Another thing I'd take into consideration is all the shopping you did. Men don't usually make their wife's favorite meal or take their wives shopping, especially for the amount of purchases that you made, unless he's in trouble. She might be wondering what you're up to.
I could understand a small expensive, intimate gift [like jewelry] as a gift for her pregnancy, but are trying to reward her for getting pregnant? Did she even want to be pregnant?
Give her a minute and let her calm down, then ask her again. Just tell her that it's important and that you'd really like to know if you did mess up, so that you can try to fix it, or explain.
2007-09-26 09:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by dark eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to figure out a reason you have done all these nice things. Its hard sometimes just to accept something without thinking that you are doing this for someother reason. For example she may think you are doing this because you are cheating. On the other hand she could be just so shocked and appreciative of what she has especially if she's not used to it. Dont push the issue just let it all sink in and Im sure she will stop by tommorrow.
2007-09-19 15:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by SanDiego 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It sounds as though you are doing the right things to make her feel special and love her deeply especially during a time when she probably needs it most.
I think it is definitely pregnancy hormones - she is probably overwhelmed by all of the attention in addition to all of the changes in her body.
Hey, one other suggestion that she'll love - gift certificates to a really nice salon/day spa for pedicures. As she gets toward the end of her pregnancy and her ankles and feet swell, it feels wonderful & makes a woman feel good to know that it the feet are going to be in stirrups, they look damn good! Good luck with your baby - You sound like you're going to be a great dad!
2007-09-19 16:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like there is more to it . there is something going on with her and she just can not put her hand on it . maybe seeing a Dr and talking to them would help in finding out what is going on . have to ask is she happy about being pregnant ? try doing things like you have but leave some things out oh say like not having sex that night just showing her the love you have for her , like you have been (from what I have read) .some women don't like having sex while with child because it hurts and some thinks it will hurt the baby . but any ways good luck to you .
2007-09-26 20:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by patti_buffkin2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's waiting to see if you drink a glass of water with 3/4 sugar in it , or if your head spins round constantly if she looks away , or for antenna to come out the top of your head.
Your an alian to her right now because of how you treated her and she is wondering when the penny will drop.
Kudo's to you for being caring dont stop to many men stop which ends in with women on here whinging and whining oh man wait for the abuse from guys over you putting them in the hot seat lmao.
2007-09-19 15:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's got a lot of things going on inside her brain & is probably thinking of not sharing any with you for now to keep the mystery. She also might not be in the position to argue, let alone overpower you due to her present condition. One thing I know for sure is that ,deep inside her preggy self, she's so grateful to have you. That you can be restassured of. Congratulations !!!!
2007-09-19 15:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by zynjen 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That the I LOVE YOU stare dont worry its very good!!!!! I wish to have a husband like you doing all those nice things for me while i'm pregnant tooo!!!! your a super man
2007-09-27 04:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything is fine! She is simply looking at you in awe. She doesn't say anything because she doesn't need to. In her head she thinks you are the most amazing man ever! I know that sometimes I didn't say anything when I looked at my boyfriend. There are no words. You just simply look at them in absolute awe. She simply loves you.
2007-09-27 06:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by curious cathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is her 1st pregnancy, she is likely scared a bit. Maybe she doen't want to take the excitement out of the moment for you, so it's easier to say nothing is wrong. Talk to her, maybe it is a rivalry, maybe she has something cooking for you besides the bun in her oven.
2007-09-19 15:34:21 · answer #11 · answered by shes_marie77 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋