I like a guy, the guy likes me. It's not love. We aren't in a "relationship". Neither of us have any time to commit to anything more than midnight fun with each other. So is it wrong for two single consenting adults to get together just for some of the most amazing sex either of us has ever had? People are calling me naive and saying that this guy is just using me. BUT I KNOW IT. I'm not seeing anyone else and it's fun. Why can't it just be accepted that sometimes all you need for a particular moment in life is just awesome sex without any strings?
2007-09-19 15:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with "no strings" sex. It's sometimes nice for your self-esteem. You just can't let yourself get too attached. If you start to feel pangs of jealousy when you picture him in a happy relationship with someone else, then it's time to back off.
2007-09-19 15:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Purl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm..I think that one point that 's not mentioned here is HE seeing other women? You're not, but doesn't mean that he's having an exclusive relationship with YOU.
If both of you have agreed on being monogamous, then ok. Otherwise you have to consider that fact that he may be having 'awesome sex' with other women. The problem? These days you are taking the risk he might be bringing something to you that 'can't be scrubbed off', if you get my drift. There are wayyyyyyy too many STD'S out there, that unlike awesome sex, NEVER EVER go away. Think about things like genital warts, herpes, and AIDS. This is just the tip of the STD iceberg. Just think about it, define what the relationship is going to entail, fidelity maybe?, and then decide if the risks are worth it.
2007-09-19 22:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by perizada_dancing4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're using each other for sex, no problem. Just don't allow emotions to start getting involved...someone could get hurt.
2007-09-19 22:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget what people say if the sex is good keep on having it
2007-09-19 22:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by brilliant butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and have lots of fun
2007-09-19 22:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋