I just asked a question about my boyfriends anger issue and how it scares my but i let out a few major details.The only reason ive been with him for as long as i have is because we have a child together and i really want to make thing work with him for my sons sake.I dont want him to grow up without a close father.So besides dumping him,any advise?
2007-09-19 15:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you don't stay with an abusive person simply because you have a child together. what do you think the child is learnign while observing your dysfunctional relationship? how to be a good communicator? doubt it. your son can have a close relationship with the father with you two being divorced just the same. dump him. you're staying with him for the wrong reasons.
2007-09-19 15:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sure stay with him and your child will learn how beating up the other parent is a routine behaviour, how punching walls or whatever is how to deal with anger.
your choice.
What you state is NOT a good reason to stay with someone. It WILL hurt you... in more ways than one.
Better to be an independent solid woman doing it on your own.
2007-09-19 22:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy will never be close to his son because of his anger issue. Unless you want your son to grow up with the same problem, please suggest to your boyfriend that he seek counseling. You can support him by going with him to the appointment. If he refuses professional help, it will be a bleak future for you and your son.
2007-09-19 22:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has already disrespected you in the first place by having sex with you, before he was committed to you in marriage. He doesn't respect you at all, that's the main problem I see you have. I wouldn't let him have anymore until he wants to be your committed husband and has counseling for his anger problem. You need counseling too for your low self esteem problem that allows him to walk all over you.
2007-09-19 22:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to get rid of him because no kid needs to grow up in a house with an abusive parent. It you want him to have a father then find a bttr man that will act like one and will take care of both of you then see if he will adopt your son. Truely Good Luck.
*Brit*
2007-09-19 22:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure, stay with him live a miserable life and spend all your time on here asking stupid questions like "My boyfriend's anger got out of control and he hit me, now what do I do?".
2007-09-19 22:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say counseling or talk to him about it because if you dont get help it could get worse and you may have to break up
2007-09-19 22:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋