Ok a few months ago I had a fling with a married man (yes i know BAD Idea, so don't worry you don't need to point this out - however i didn't cross the line so to speak) Anyway we both decided to stop and have no contacting (well his idea not to contact but i didn't argue) anyway when i knew him, I got to know some of his mates, as spent time at the pub with them all. Now he is telling me not to talk to his mates at the pub, and that they do not want to talk to me and wonder why I am there, and that the way I act 'does not look good'. However most of his mates have always been really friendly, and brought me drinks etc. Why do you think he said this? do you think he might be a bit jealous or not really?
2007-09-19 15:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mabye his wife i suspicious of him. his guys are probably players.
2007-09-19 15:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by superzebra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He still cares. He does not want you to have a relationship with any of his friends, he would not be able to take it. If he really did not care; he would careless who screwed you. It would be just a boost to his ego, for his friends to want to be with you or actually like you, and he knew he had you first. Yes he is jealous.
But I would like to caution you, not to date or have sex with any of his friends. For the most part, they know you were having sex with a married man. To another man that means you are loose. If they pursue a relationship, keep in mind for the most part, all they have in mind is hot sex, then after they get tired, they will dump you like trash on the side of the road.
I think you need to just cut your ties, and move on. Leave this man and his friends alone. You knew the man was married and that he still loved his wife, otherwise he would have left her for you. He was out for hot sex, something to occupy his time for a minute, he was not looking for a long term relationship. So now that he says it is over, you need to pull up your panties and move on.
I know it will be hard. In your mind you never wanted to face the fact that he was only using you. But now you know girl. Now you know. You need to know your stock and know that your you have much more value than being the woman on the side. Go find the man for you, and you know this married man is not the one. How would you like to be the married woman at home - oh no!!! You do not want him. Go find the man that will be true to you.
2007-09-20 17:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by 2Cute2B4Got 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are up pretty late if you are in the U.K! This man wants you out of his life and it is not cool to be hanging with his friends even though they treat you nicely (probably the drink!). The guy is married and probably just wants his life back. Stay well away!
2007-09-19 22:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jivey this aint the 1st time you asked and i answered ya the last time you asked so .
stay away from his friends go find some of your own how many times you want to be told or are you like that ana chick and just going to keep asking until you get an answer you like hmmmm.
2007-09-19 22:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be trying to distance himself from you for the sake of his marriage. Having his friends still hang around with you is probably not a healthy thing for either of you. Move on to bigger and better things!
2007-09-19 22:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Ann04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! of course he's not. he's doin that so that between both of u, there would be no more connection. with u being with his mates made him realized that ur not out of his life yet, and he needs to do that for security reasons. ok dear? hope u get it =)
2007-09-19 22:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its because he doesnt want his wife (and or kids) knowing he had a fling with you?? its possible hes a bit jealous, but I'd worry about his wife!
2007-09-19 22:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by gwyni150328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see this as jealousy as much as i see him not wanting to bring is ex-fling anywhere near his world - he obviously had a change of heart after your fling.
2007-09-19 22:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to another pub and find yourself a nice single guy
2007-09-19 22:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone get jealous of their mate talking or not talking even just by looking at you or him . thats something that if they get jealous it means he cares about u and loves you but if he doesnt then i dunno could be he does but doesnt want to show it cause he is afraid to loos you.
2007-09-19 22:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not jealous... He is araid his wife is going to find out... You silly goose you!!!
2007-09-23 20:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋