What is your honest opinion about men who use women or men who act like they are truly in love, only because they want to see the woman fail and look stupid?
I'm just trying to figure out why my ex took advantage of me, knowing I'm a sophisticated, educated, and loving person. Then left me for a promiscuous women with lots of children, no future,no education, and and a disgusting lifestyle??????
2007-09-19 15:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Psalms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow...that pretty much happened to me too! And I wasted a year or so trying to figure it all out. All I have learned is that it didn't work out with him and the other one...so I was right about that. I dont know what makes someone have a change of heart just like that...especially when they leave for someone with no morals, no class, and no goals in life. But in the end I know it does not work out....and regret will come into play....like "what was I thinking"....some come back....some don't because of pride or embarassment. But its a mistake they can live with for the rest of their lives, because thinking the grass is always greener on the other side isn't. Its like throwing away a precious diamond for sand....maybe the sand was fun at one point....but in the end its just sand.
I hope you find the man that will appreciate you for you.
God Bless and Good Luck
2007-09-19 16:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people can sweet talk, but when push comes to shove it's the one that will go to the mat with you and back you who you want as a partner.
While you feel hurt right now in the end at least you are free of someone who would never back you like that. Consider it a tough lesson and go find that man who will be there for you through thick and thin and then be thankful you found out what a jerk you had before wasting any more time with him.
2007-09-19 17:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry hon, that sucks :(
Sounds like he's a loser, plain and simple.
I hate to say it, but some of my fellow guys are just jerks, poseurs and general morons.
There's no explaining it, except that its the way they are or choose to be.
Might I suggest (If this is common for you).. that you put out your antenna for a different kind of guy? Maybe the big tough badass or slick talker is not the answer.. sure you may have an initial attraction, but in the long run, you see what happens.
Try a milder, geekier sort... they tend to make much better mates in more ways the one...
hope that helps, and good luck!
2007-09-19 15:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got victimized by the 80-20 syndrome. Many people leave their mates because after awhile they set their desires on the things they are missing instead of the things they have. They usually end up with about 20% of what they had and an additional 80% of troubles. They find out too late. You have to forgive and go on. Make Jesus your husband and he'll help you restore the years the devil has robbed you.
2007-09-19 15:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by JesusIsTheAnswer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is alway blind. It doesn't matter who you are, the queen, king, presidents daughter etc. It;s alway know that one must kiss allot of frogs before s/he gets a right partner. The one who comes with genuine love is alway turned away while the one who comes with sweet words get want they want even if you know that person won't be yours, you still would fall into it because of his words that are convincing. Once you let your guard down, a man alway would take advantage on you and if he can't handle it, he hit the road. trust be, sex is the weakness part of a man. So in your case here perhaps all he wanted was only to have sex with you, know your taste and if he didn't like or wouldn't handle it, he moved on or perhaps it way to lower your dignity and you fell into it. Consider all option of a relationship before you give in to a person.
2007-09-19 16:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, guys like your ex are trash. I would rather spit in their face then say hi.
They do that because they get bored with the same person/ scared they actually grow attached to that person / have a great fear of being commited to 1 person / have a low self esteem and feel that multiple women mean he's desirable.
2007-09-19 16:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When men are really depressed they turn to this kind of woman because she is so F*&%$d up that she makeshim feel good. Once real life and reallity set in they can't believe what they did......by that time it is usually to late.
2007-09-19 18:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, that man is not thinking the matter as u r that u r educated etc... he is just finding the opportunities and enjoying many females ..... dont think that he left u, he will may come to u again .....
some people dont understand the feeling of others, they r just self centered, look for just their enjoyment ..... and u r unable to unerstand such people and giving him that opportunity to enjoy ....
2007-09-19 15:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? He was probably looking for someone more on his level. You might be too challenging for him. It's difficult when a relationship ends but you will go on to better things. Have faith in yourself.
2007-09-19 16:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that Tina. Men like that are obviously going to go nowhere with their life. Friggin retard! You deserve way better! Good luck!
2007-09-19 15:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋