My parents are fighting and I think it's about me and my brother, they won't talk and I think that is something they need to do, I think I will stay with my Grandmother for a while because I'm afraid things will start to get violent. Can someone shed some light, because I feel really low right now.
2007-09-19 16:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Babe, you gotta remember that this has nothing to do with you or your brother. You're right in believing that they should talk to each other about it but they won't until they're ready and sometimes that takes time. Staying somewhere else(especially if you think it'll get violent) is a great idea. Let them cool out for a bit and if that shouldn't happen, at least your grandmother will be there for you.....best of luck sweets, keep focused, remember this is only one small moment in the huge time span of life you have to go through...be strong, you'll be fine
2007-09-20 01:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by leprechaun3833 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not the cause of their fighting, even if they are fighting about you.
You may be right to live with your Grandmother; you shouldn't have to witness violence at home. I wish your parents could see that.
You can't control your parents, so do your best for yourself. Do your best in school and develop your good qualities. Sooner than you think, you will be an adult and able to take care of yourself.
Don't get involved in this kind of relationship yourself; don't put your children through this.
2007-09-19 23:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to realize that you have not caused your parents problems. If they are fighting, it has to do wih them.
If you think you will be safer or even more comfortable with your grandmother, then go. Let your parents know why you are going and let them know how much you love them and want them to have the space to work things out.
2007-09-19 23:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your parents are fighting, its not about you, or they would fight with you or your brother. sometimes parents get in these ruts they will eventually come out of it, just give them time. try to help out around the house, and do things for them, it will get them in a better mood, and maybe they can talk things out civilly.
2007-09-19 23:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your bitter circumstance between you and your family has a deep spiritual lesson that only your Heavenly host of family members can offer you; your wound will soon heal and always remember that there are other families in this great big world that are in a worst state than yours.
2007-09-20 14:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by romaniascott 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋