and i wish her to leave my life without my telling her anything about it. she is clueless about my affair.i want to marry my girlfriend as she remained unmarried because she loved me truly . i have been married for 10 years and have two kids.i wish to keep the kids and want my wife to leave me.i do not wish to tell her directly.how can i accomplish the task
2007-09-19 16:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey man now this isnt fair that you wana marry your GF after 10 years, you have two kids now and they are big enough to understand things now. so i think forget your GF and try to solve problems between you and ur wife, if any. i dont think its a good idea to take a divorce and go with your GF now. it will affect your life and also ur family's. it will hurt you a lot since you have been in relation with your wife for 10 long years.. please dont do this to your wife what will she do without you, she must be so used to you and is her financial condition good. she will not allow you to take the kids with you and also is your GF ready to except you with your kids. she will not give the same kinda love what your wife gives you and kids. you have done so much for your house and now you just want to break it off in 1 shot. just sit back and think what all thing you went through to see this day, what you are today and the life you are living. you cant face people as you have to stay in the same society where people just look for a chance to say any damn ****... my job is to just warn you and tell you rest upto u. bye buddy take care...
2007-09-19 19:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by tisha k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not do all in your power to keep the marriage going and try to restart the dying romance in it , you will regret it , and your kids will take the brunt of the divorce.
There was a reason you dropped the ex-girlfriend and chose your wife . Find that reason again.
2007-09-19 16:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by gillemhor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would like to tell you that cheating is wrong and secondly the best way is just for you to tell her about your little affair and before you do that go to court to get custidy of your kids so she can't take them away from you. But they also need their mother so it would be better if you filied for joint-custidy.Then after you get the papers file for divorce and tell her why you want to do so. You kids probably will not be too happy with you for awhile, but you have to do what you have to do I guess. This process will take awhile but you will just have to deal with it.
2007-09-19 16:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Haley Candace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is people like you that make single people not want to marry EVER!!
Thank you 2 pts.
2007-09-19 16:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you forgot about the "till death do us part"
2007-09-19 16:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by prop4u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋