My dad and brother got in a terribble accident and died. My gret grandma's bladder gave out. I am having a hard time gettin over this. help me please.
2007-09-19 16:26:08 · 6 answers · asked by Cammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sooo sorry! My grandpa died 5years ago unexpectedly and then a few months after he died my aunt died of breast cancer. Just this year my grandma died 3 days before mothers day. It was really hard but with support from family and friends my family and I made it through. I found that talking about it helped me alot! I'll be praying 4u!!!
2007-09-19 16:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dreambig24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, my condolences to you. I am sorry that these people have left you and you are feeling really depressed at the moment. The best way to keep them "alive" in your heart is to remember the special times you've spent together. Cherish what you have right now. I'm a Roman Catholic and I believe that everything I have right now on this Earth is all on loan to me. Meaning that God and take my most precious loved ones away any second. I remind myself how lucky I am to have them love me. As for you my friend, it's good that you are greiving. It's natural and it lets all depressed feelings out. Just remember that these people loved you and you have loved them just the same when there were still alive. They have all gone to a better place and now are your Guardian Angels. Pray for them. My sincerest regards.
2007-09-19 16:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well guess what they are there in watching you and trying to help but they dont' know either but they are fine and i am firm believer of this have you ever watched john edward? hes a medium and he goes all over the world and i know that your soul doesn't die therefore you exist all the time in a different time and place till God comes for us. they are here and present so be happy they are hurting or sick or feeling bad any more they are at peace and syou should be also they are fine try and dwell on it my dads passed 2000 it seems like yesterday its hard ot get over the loss but they are fine i know. take care.
2007-09-23 14:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats horrible. I am sure you may doubt God at a time like this but he has a plan and we all are here temporarily. I do not know why he allowed this but If I were you I would pray trust in Him and let Him make this mess a message and your test a testimony. So sorry , my heart goes out to you.
2007-09-19 17:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a horrific tragedy, I think the only way to get through such a tragic event is to seek professional help. One death in the famly is tragic enough, let alone 3.
Do not be ashamed to seek professional help. There are people out there who are trained to help others. Use it.
2007-09-19 16:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am so sorry. I will pray that the Lord will help you through the pain. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. God Be with you and your family. I know it is hard to lose one let alone three. I am so so sorry.God Bless.
2007-09-19 16:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋