I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend and I would like to find one. I have thought about those dating sites but I'm afraid to go on those because they might not be safe and whatnot so I was hoping someone can give me good advice on how to find a guy. Thx in advance.
2007-09-19 16:26:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To gksnair2000, I look for personality and I expect a guy to treat me nice.
2007-09-19 16:55:09 · update #1
....oh my geez a boyfriend is not something that u need to go looking for...they actually just come to you naturally...and maybe the time isn't right..just be yourself and you will attract the RIGHT type of guys...but if you act like something your not...then you end up with the jackasses
2007-09-19 16:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are EVERYWHERE !! If you are in school there are guys in your class, at work, at the grocery store, at sporting events, go out with groups of friends and have them bring their friends. You can try dating sites but just always meet a guy in a public place and let a friend know that you will call her when you get home or if you need to get out of it.
I"m a member of a free site called Dating Training that has a lot of info on approaching guys and other helpful information. I put the link to the site below so you can take a look at it in case you are interested.
Good Luck !
2007-09-19 16:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No wonder you don't have a boyfriend. First you need to get over you paranoia. The datings sites are completely safe. The rule is on the first meeting, you meet at a public place like a mall or for drinks, hamburger, or ice-cream, it doesn't matter.
It is not hard to tell the difference between someone that may be dangerous and someone that is not. Also, if they are not as described, you can make a quick exit. If you still don't feel safe, double date or have him to meet you at church or a nice restaurant or club for drinks and dancing.
It is easy to meet guys at church or at a club. However, you have to be willing to settle for who you can get. You cannot get hott guys unless you are hott and have a waist to hip ratio of 0.7 or less.
2007-09-19 16:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by John 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 19 just wait for a guy to find you.... and im 20 and i would never date a girl on a website..... Listen think about it... sorry if i offend some guys out there but..... ANY GUY YOUR FIND ON A WEB SITE IS NOT WORTH the time... can you say loosers.... no just chill out and have fun alone... guys will come to you.... i been dating my girl friend for like a year and a half and i sometimes miss the ALONE part... DONT FIND ANY GUY.... THEY WILL FIND YOU... and if you go online you can get a freak and THEY WILL FIND YOU JK, but seriously just ENJOY BEING SINGLE
2007-09-27 15:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try a blind date if you have female friends that have male friends that are single..
the other choice that i thinks cool is myspace. dont laugh but just making a page and chit chattin with different folks on there looking at photo's can inspire you to think about your likes and dislikes in men.. and replying to the many messages online that you will get will help you to develope your conversation skills with the opposite sex as well.
2007-09-27 07:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found the dating sites to be a lot better than trying to find someone face to face --- i dont like pubs or clubs --- they are really no worse than meeting someone face to face as long as you are careful about where and when you meet and they can provide a way to get to know the person --- yes there are a lot of people that lie but you can easily separate them --- they generally dont meet --- i am biased i have met a few ladies and now i have met someone very VERY special ---- best wishes
2007-09-19 16:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanted to, I would try an online dating site. But, only if you are seriously desperate for someone--I would stick to someone in real life--perhaps in school or work? I am sure someone will ask you out. You just have to be patient.
2007-09-19 16:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't go looking for trouble first off.
Secondly, if your looking for a bf then the hormones will be firing its only a matter of time before a guy picks up on it.
I despise how animalistic humans are
2007-09-19 16:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont find love.....Love finds you(sometimes you may not recognize it!). Be yourself...its not a must that you should have a boyfriend. Dating sites.........try them...but be safe. Be honest and may be someone good is waiting for you!!
2007-09-19 16:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by rags 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but when you are looking you will never find!!
Stop looking, focus on being independant, go out with your mates and laugh alot. Love will come when you least expect it.
2007-09-19 16:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋