2007-09-19 15:54:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He smokesHe makes noises while he eats
I just deal with it. He puts up with a lot from me too.
You can't look for the bad stuff...focus on the good!
2007-09-19 16:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do not like my hb to sit @ the pc the whole night watching anime or playing online games and climbing into bed @ 2-3am in the morning. I worried that he do not have enough sleep and felt neglected as that is the only time we can have a heart-to-heart chat after a hard day @ work. But to him, this is a form of relaxation and he enjoys doing so.
We try to comprise by setting a 'time-table'. For weekdays, we set a time (e.g: 12am) to stop using the pc and only use on alternate days so that we can spent time together. During the weekend if we did not go out, he can enjoy a full day @ the pc. We will try to 'give and take' to each others needs.
I wonder if there is anyone out there having the same issue and able to provide better solutions.
2007-09-19 23:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by December 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband can be a bit of a flirt, and sometimes it does bother me, but I know that he's mine. I don't like the fact that he has gained weight, I never did like heavy men. He gained about 40 plus pounds. I bought a treadmill, workout clothes, and an ipod to help deal with it. He gets on the treadmill every once in a while..... I try to stay skinny for him and I wish he'd stay fit for me as well. OH! and I hate the fact that he scarfs down his food in 5 min or less when I spend an hour making it....
2007-09-19 23:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband will not help with chores at home. He is a truckdriver and when he comes home he spends his free time in front of the tv. If I ask him to take the trash out for me for example, (I have a bad back), he usually procrastinates. When it's time for him to go back on the road, I remind him again to take out the trash and he gets upset. He was brought up that the woman did all the inside work and the man took care of the outside, but we live in a place that he doesn't have to mow grass, fix shingles, ect. It gets on my last nerve a lot, but I talk to the Lord about it and ask Him to give me strength and to keep me from saying something to my husband I would be sorry for.
2007-09-19 23:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many little quirks that drive me crazy. Smoking in the house, Going to the bar for happy hour on Friday, etc. After 17 years I have learned to pick my battles wisely. Does he love me..Yes. Would he go to the store in the middle of the night to get me medicine...Yes.. These things mean more in the end. After a while you learn which things will never change. Either try to accept or move on. It's is all about compromise.
2007-09-19 23:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by greeneyed_babygirl75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he hangs the washing using 3 pegs for 3 tshirts??? and they end up out of shape.
Still trying to deal with it lol even after all the training I have given him.
2007-09-19 23:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg, is there enough space here. he snores, really loud. he has a chronic cough that never ends,i counted 64 hacks in a row once. he leaves the seat up, and "drips" on the floor. he makes a mess of the toothpaste tube, (he strangles it), leaves his dirty socks all wadded up in balls for me to undo, and he drinks too much. i could go on but i won't. frankly, i don't know how i deal with it but i have been for 31 yrs.
2007-09-19 23:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sits on the couch and eats and watches TV while I do everything else...sometimes I look at him, sitting there and I just want to scratch the eyeballs right out of his unappreciative skull! How do I deal with it? I'm about to leave his lazy @ss!
2007-09-19 23:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He gives everything he has and more at work and has nothing left for us at home. I usually put up with it until I'm about to explode then I remind him that they (work) don't love and care about him and we(wife and kids) do. also remind him that he doesn't want our sons to remember him as the uninterested, despondent uncaring father but rather as the caring Dad who always had time for the boys. That helps for a little while.
2007-09-19 23:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the fact that he cheated on me,I'm just learning how to deal with it it has been so very hard at times.
2007-09-19 23:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋