Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

what would prompt a woman, while away on say a convention, to toss her marriage vows out the window, for a romp in the sheets with someone else? What ever happened to fidelity? I think there are more cases of women cheating on their hubbies nowadays.

2007-08-26 20:45:36 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that sort of stuff- but he took away the joint check book and the debit card and I don't have any $$ to speak of and I work only two days a week, no kids under 18, we own our house plus a rental property, but my name is only on one of these, plus a couple of a cars are in my name also, what should I do he also physically assaulted me, throughout our marriage but only when he use to drink- he quit drinking but he slapped me alot tonight because he knows I found out about his "b*itch!"

2007-08-26 20:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by sickofit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend have married before 45 to 50 days. But in those days they have spend only 10 to 15 days together. Most of the days her husband were went out for his job. Now days both were not properly sharing with each other. Every time there is small problem and argument. That argument leads to fight. I like to interfer, shall i? I wish to solve this problem. i like to know weather they have good relationship, including all the thing. Because this will help me to guid or advice to them.

Shall i interfer? This is correct of wrong.

Please advice me

2007-08-26 20:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by cooljean g 1 in Weddings

2007-08-26 20:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by phad_lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the statement that says"if their anyone that feels that these two shall not be joint in holy matrimony
please speak now or forever hold your peace.

2007-08-26 20:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by victoria j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me guys if 2 girls were at a club, which one would you approach or would you be attracted to? Skinny or Voluptuous ?

2007-08-26 19:58:11 · 21 answers · asked by rnwtn21 1 in Singles & Dating

I catch him in lies all the time? I.e. we went to my sisters for dinner & his friend calls & says he needs something my hubby has to go, says hell be back in 30 min, tops. An hr. and 15 min. later I call & his friend says hes @ his house but going back then to our house where my husband was waiting. He gets back to my sisters 45 min later. We live 10 min, fr. my sisters. Then after basically forgiving or forgetting the incident we come back home, and a girl friend of ours stops by & casually mentions in conversation stopping by earlier in the day "when you weren't here." after seeing my anger @ him, she added that she had only been 5 or 10 min. Its not even the point that it was a female friend because I figure she did drop in but if that is the case or not I spec. asked him 2-3 times earlier who was there and he told me solemnly "nobody". Now he doesn't understand why I am mad. Its little things like this all of the time....I mean mybe small in big pic, but its driving me NUTS

2007-08-26 19:57:22 · 8 answers · asked by hyphyscwifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i got a question, if you get married by the judge, is there an expiration of being married becuase havent gotten married by a priest?... or is it consider being single not being married by a priest?...

2007-08-26 19:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by sweetcarmel37 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am happily married for 2 years. When my husband and I have sexual intercourse we can last for about 30-45 mins. or sometimes on hour. When is time to for me to be on top, I don't last long and I try my best NOT to *** so quickly. As soon as I am on top, it only takes me less than 2 mins and sometimes less than 1 min depending how hot I am. I try to slow down but by the time I do ... that's when I ***. My husband doesn't complain but I know he likes it more when I am on top ... so I need to know what can I do to make it up for him. Thanks a lot for your help!

2007-08-26 19:49:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is a uk citizen,I want to marry and stay here but dont know what we need to do,and help would be greatly appericated.

2007-08-26 19:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they say that when you love someone, set them free and if they comes back then you are meant to be.

but if that person comes back and you're no longer free?

what will you do?

2007-08-26 19:42:11 · 13 answers · asked by askme n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-26 19:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by marc_501usa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He organised his best mates bucks show the same weekend as our 1st wedding anniversay knowing full well what date it was, he came home and told me and said he didn't think i would mind!! He said he will be back on sunday and will take me out for tea, so he gets home on sunday with a huge hangover and goes straight to bed and that was all i seen of him. Is it wrong of me to expect him to make it up to me this year? It just doesn't feel the same.

2007-08-26 19:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy gives me clues that he likes me but he turned into a mute after i told him I was in love with him. I am not stupid I told only after I knew he some feelings for me. He was a wierdo b4 i told him but he became more wierd after a told him he started to become like a mute. anybody knows whats up? I asked him what do you want me to do stay leave..and he won't answer me!

2007-08-26 19:21:08 · 1 answers · asked by kobeis_awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 19:20:10 · 3 answers · asked by carla gomez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i spend on a girl for a birthday if we've only been together for a month? whats too much and whats to cheap?

2007-08-26 19:14:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I left my husband of 17 years,because he cheated on me.I moved 600 miles away to my mothers.We were starting a new life together after getting off drugs we had moved to a new town,gotten a place&we both got good jobs&for the first time in a long time I felt like this was it.I thought we were really getting our life back&we were happy.Then after about 6 months I found out he was cheating.I stayed for about 3 weeeks& he was late getting home one day &I decided I didn't want to spend the rest of my life wondering if he was where he really said he was or if he was out f****** someone.So here I am almost 2 months later[I've seen him once] we talk everyday,I love him,he says he'll never do it again,but I don't trust him&I'm afraid I never will,but the thought of getting a divorce&cutting our ties is heartbreaking.Please help me!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-26 19:10:04 · 26 answers · asked by lisa m 1 in Singles & Dating

http://hmtus.multiply.com/journal/item/1/What_would_you_do_How_would_you_feel

Please post all answers here. For voting reasons.

All information should be included on Multiply page above.

Thank you for your help in this matter.

2007-08-26 19:09:19 · 8 answers · asked by Dwayne 4 in Family

I TAKE FULL RESPOCABLITY FOR WHAT HAPPEN AND AM SORRY FOR THE DISASTAR THAT HAPPENS IN MY MARRIAGE AND MY SONS LIFE WHAT CAN I DO?

I had an AFFAIR on my ex. husband before we divorced with his older brother who was my HIGH SCHOOL love, but went to prison before graduation! He got out and got married and went to prison again until a year ago when he got out, and we got together 24 years latter!

My husband caught us and he divorced me and took our son with him and kicked me out took everything saying in court I was unfit mother, judge believed him and I lost completely!

My son lived with him for over a year but I was to get him for 6 week this summer. Well he was with me for a day when I said something POORLY, and salty because my BOYFRIEND was "feeling me up" and when my son caught us , I made a joke at his expense.

My son picked a candle stick holder on the table and struck me in the face and said hows that for a joke, I had to go to the hospital and have many,

2007-08-26 18:58:30 · 21 answers · asked by April Snow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been involved with my boyfriend for about 9 months in this on again off again relationship.
I want out now, but I have used all possible excuses and he still comes back; I even said I met someone else to no avail.
I stopped taking his calls, but he comes over. Neighbours think we are related .
Now I want out of my life for good.

2007-08-26 18:56:05 · 15 answers · asked by field mouse 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 18:55:49 · 22 answers · asked by nomoreiaminthisworld 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i went to the gym and the instructor there makes us say stuff to her microphone like grunts and stuff like that and she never put it to me and when she did i didnt say anything wuold you have? or would you have acted shy like me and how do i overcome shyness?

2007-08-26 18:53:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

act all sweet and then when you start dating them like the sweetness goes away and they act like jerks?

my bf use to be sweet all the time more before we started dating. now he is a jerk sometimes and hurts my feelings and i tell him and he's like im joking i love u..but why cant he just be sweet like it use to be?

2007-08-26 18:48:46 · 24 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex of almost 3 yrs dumped me a few wks ago and said he didn't love me anymore and I got upset and ran out the door he came runing to me telling me he was confused, that he does love me and can't live without me. We have makeup sex. now for the second time this monday he said he doesn't love me and doesn't care if were together. this was a shock because the week before we had sex and he told me how much he loved me. i cried and he sat on the phone yawning. i go to his college and give him his stuff and follow him to his house for mine, the whole time i bravely acted as though life was fine and he kept asking me how long and where i was staying and i blew him off by saying i dunno. and I left his house saying okay, bye. well the next night I just really needed to talk to him and of course i ruined it and got emotional showing him how upset i was and he tells me he doesn't love me like that, and that the last time he took me back he felt guiltly and that makeup sex was a bonus for him

2007-08-26 18:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by heartbroken</3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 18:47:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I terminated the relationship with my ex several months ago. Now he is going around his office and with my (now ex-) friends talking very badly about me behind my back. And when he is in online locations that he knows I also am there, he will make passive aggressive snarky comments at my expense. My response so far is say nothing. But the more that I find out he is saying about me, and these lies that are being spread about me, my patience is about to wear out. Part of me wants to confront him and the people involved and call them out directly. Part of me wants to snark back. And what I think is my better nature says to have no part of it and not even address such concerns. Why do I feel the need to defend myself? Should I? I do not go around the old friends at all - he won them. But at work (we work together, on my recommendation he got his job while we were together) I do not want to run the risk of his badly chosen words to change my reputation. Is silence always the best option?

2007-08-26 18:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by buscadora78 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have not spoken to my mother in a year for many different reasons. She drinks alot, has an alcoholic family, is very argumentive and opinionated. She has tried to contact me but I am so fed up with her lies, etc. that I feel like I just can't take it any more. Any advise???

2007-08-26 18:43:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm going to have 4 large groups of girls ages 10-15 and I have to lead them in something but arts & crafts & sports are already taken and I do not know what to do.

2007-08-26 18:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years, and for the past 2 he's been having family problems and they're taking a tole on our relationship. He's stopped respecting me and my opinion isn't important to him. We're growing apart and theres nothing I can do to stop it. He knows he's being a jerk and he apologizes all the time. I want to be there for him but I feel like I cant handle being his personal punching bag when hes having a bad day. Should I leave him or just try a trial separation? Im so confused. HELP!

2007-08-26 18:32:46 · 14 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

They should be either, where they last put them, or where they shoud be, (because if I have moved them anywhere, that is where I have put them). He does not even bother to look in those two places first!!!

2007-08-26 18:32:40 · 25 answers · asked by chookscc 1 in Marriage & Divorce