Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

ok, my BF and i have been tegehter and madly in love for 3 years. we know were going to be tegether forever. we always tlak about it, and he hints about how he is saving money for someting big. im assuiming its a ring. lol. ;) anyways, he is really good to me, and im really good to him. well lately he has been complaining about me not making enough money! i just graduated college with a degree with Social work and im makign $12 an hour. well his dad owns a construciton company and he works for his dad at about $18an hour. he made me feel real bad today, cus i said :"isnt it weird that this is going to be it 4ever. me and you working at these jobs and stuff" and he said "well IM going to be well off NO MATTER WHAT! YOU might be fine beign poor but IM NOT!" i was shocked. he always talks about WE he never says i. but he did today and it really bugged me. i tried to talk to him about it, but he didnt want 2 he got pissed at me. and said we have different expectaitons. does he want 2 split

2007-08-26 12:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by darrah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-26 12:55:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He also said I am his best friend
only serious mature adults should answer the question

2007-08-26 12:55:17 · 12 answers · asked by rainbow2 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is my Maid of Honor and she is 15 years old.

2007-08-26 12:53:31 · 10 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

I have been with my partner for two and a half yrs, Now my daughter says he has been coming on to her. I do not know what to do? any advise please.

2007-08-26 12:49:42 · 25 answers · asked by Maggie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 14, and just started high school, and im in Marine Corps. Junior ROTC, and i love the program. But i have to wear my hair in a bun when i wear my unifor,, and my hair is layered and somewhat short, wich makes it hard, but if my hair was shorted i wouldnt have to mess with it. Problem....My dad is a preacher, and he thinks girls shouldnt cut thier hair...period. Im tired of having to try to put my hair up for an hour when i could just cut it! i really want to anyways. He tells me that its un christian like for girls to cut thier hair that short, and its really annoying. What do i do?

2007-08-26 12:47:01 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a girl and 5' 9''! I feel so tall and freakish, is their any chance that this year guys'll be taller than me?

2007-08-26 12:46:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kids dont matter to me cos i brought up 2 girlrs for 10 years and they have flown the nest...im 32 and my ex is 45 so i want to make a baby of my own before time runs out but all i can see is taking the responsibility of another guys kid,do you know where im coming from? please help me

2007-08-26 12:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just want good ideas from you guys. I have kind of gone off my husband a bit. Love him still but not as strongly. He is the love of my life but i had some other personal worries and got depressed and on antidepressants. Now I feel as though i can think straight. Have not taken his needs in concept. He does not talk much and i felt that pissed off from not being able to talk my fears with him. I totally went off him. Now i m getting my perspective sorted, and realise i love him so much. Today is the 3rd anniversary. I want to know how to make him know i m sorry and a way to get my feelings the same as it was. HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-26 12:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by sbalroarhe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been experimenting with my sexuality for about a year now, and about 6 months ago I befriended a girl who lives in another state. The two of us grew really close, and 15 weeks ago, we began an internet relaitonship. We keep in contact via MSN, SMS and email. We love one another deeply, and for her, I am her first love. Recently, though, she has not been returning my 'I love you's' and I am a little worried. On her Myspace page, some quizzes say I'm not the first person she's been in love with (despite her telling I am), that she's hooked up with someone whilst we were dating, that she's fallen out of love with someone in recent months and so on. I'm trying to think I'm being plain old paranoid, and my friends say I am, but my gut instinct says I have reason to be suspicious, even though I truly trust her. It's more a matter of her behaviour being completely out of character for her! What on earth do i do without hurting her and making sure we don't break up?! I really do love her!

2007-08-26 12:41:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you love him so much you cant breathe? Then when you get mad you can hate him so much? Is that just marriage?

2007-08-26 12:40:03 · 14 answers · asked by babychick37180 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my friends friends (guy) has been casually flirting and kissing this girl at parties. He just asked her out on an official date and wanted an idea of a cute place to take her that would make for a good evening, but not coming on too strong or too weak. Any suggestions?

2007-08-26 12:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 12:36:36 · 47 answers · asked by Sniper Hobo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've known about my boyfriend's past anger/anxiety problems since we first started dating, which then they hadn't been present for several years.we've now been together over 1 1/2 years and over the past 3 months,i've noticed his anger problems coming back & they've been getting worse & worse. in july,for instance,as he was walking through the bedroom door,he accidentally knocked his elbow on the door frame&was so mad that he punched(on accident) a hole in the wall.i asked if he was alright and he said"i'm fine".he was all flustered and i kept quiet cause i didn't know what else to say and i was worried i'd make the situation worse.i know he would never ever do anything to hurt me.when we're walking and people are infront of us "going slow", he gets pissed off. little things like that make him so upset.i really don't know what to do or say, which makes him even more mad.but hes the sweetest and most caring boyfriend ever.how can i tell him his problems are coming back?what can we do?

2007-08-26 12:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by famishedartist 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been talking to a guy. he's really cool and nice. i want to be his g.f. but a while back he made the statement that he didn't have time for a g.f. what do i do??? thanks!

2007-08-26 12:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Ashe 2 in Singles & Dating

do you prefer love or lust?

2007-08-26 12:32:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help.

2007-08-26 12:29:23 · 19 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Friends

I just found out that my daughter is going down hill fast... She moved out 3 months ago (she's 19) She started smoking.. OK not bad but then she started smoking pot, I'm not sure how often but the person who told me said it's all the time. She quit her job, is getting kicked out of her apartment because she can't pay rent, she owes over $1000, she's over drawn on credit cards and at the bank. She doesn't eat and has gone from 120 (5' 7") and is now down to 101 lbs. She looks awful...but she thinks she looks great. How can I help her? She wants to move back home and says she is going to change. Can she change? Any one have any success stories and or ideas on how her dad and I can help.

2007-08-26 12:28:15 · 17 answers · asked by Vapsjp 1 in Family

I think it's because I'm getting on, I've just turned 23 this week.

I HATED school but I really miss family holidays and outings and Christmasses where everything was magical and fun and innocent.

Been getting really upset about it and I can barely remember fun times without getting really emotional!

Asked my dad if he remembers my old toy Hoover tonight and almost started crying thinking about baby me!!

2007-08-26 12:24:18 · 21 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have never filed for a legal separation and have significant others. If we divorce he cannot keep me on his insurance. I do not want him responsible for my bills, nor me, his.

2007-08-26 12:22:55 · 18 answers · asked by ldrixole 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad gives me $5 every week but if i want something then i have to tell him what i'm gonna buy and he can say no to it, so i'm practically saving up money for college. and plus he won't let me get a job. what should i do?

2007-08-26 12:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

one of my closest friends died.
i dont know what to do latley.
he died in july & i still dont believe it.
i need him in my life so much right now.
another one of my friends is in the hosipital.
she got in a car accident,which was horrible.they dont know if shell make it.

can anyone please,say anything to help me cope with all this pain?
thanks :/

2007-08-26 12:17:36 · 22 answers · asked by :D 4 in Friends

my parents r getting a divorce, and im so frustanted,angry, ext.
i found out becuz i was goin to my room and i heard the marguring and my dad kept blaming everything on me, its like im the problem and the thing is i heard him say shes no good, she should even be here...that was very hurtful. he kinda left the house, and he left the house while my mom was crying. i dont know what to do, i want them to be togather, but im the porblem. i dont even know what i did wrong. i cant stand it, y is he doing this?

2007-08-26 12:16:24 · 28 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a very small house with only 1 bathroom and we leave the door unlocked and often use the bathroom when someone else (my mom, my brother or me) is in the shower as we get ready for school/work. I hav see him naked before as we are not shy in the bathroom. However, this time I saw him with an erection as he was toweling off and it was huge! This is the first time I hav see a erect penis and I was fascinated as I stared at it. He was quite cool and did not try to hide it but continued to dry off. I asked my mom and she says tht it is normal for boys that age to have erections after a shower and to consider it part of my education. My brother still treats me like a kid and is very protective of me and i luv him and look up to him. Should I apologise to him that I stared at his erect penis?

2007-08-26 12:14:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-26 12:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the situation: I started dating my cousin's ex boygriend. They broke up because she cheated on him. We've been dating now for almost 3 months, we talk on the phone almost every day and see each other on the weekends because were too busy to see each other on week days. The problem is that we are not officially bf and gf and the only times we hook up is on parties when were both at least tipsy. Im kind of tired of the situation so i told him that i was bored but the only answer i got was that Im way better than my cousin and that i have to figure him out. i think this is all BS cuz he doesn't know what to do. I just decided to back off because although he is really sweet to me and everything i like to have things clear. I called him some time ago and he did not nswer. Now he is calling but i havent answered. WHAT DO I DO????? Do i keep on trying or should i just let him go?

2007-08-26 12:13:32 · 2 answers · asked by groovybubs 2 in Singles & Dating

The majority of guys will say they prefer 'curvy' girls when asked, but in my opinion, then don't mean what girls think they mean.

'Curvy' can have many different meanings. So when a guy says he prefers curvy, he probably doesn't mean that he's partial to a bit of cellulite on a girl's thighs and a flabby stomach. No, he means he likes a skinny girl with large breasts or girl who's curvy in all the right places, i.e. hips, bum, boobs and has a thin waist, as opposed to a flat chested anorexic.

Am I right in thinking this?

2007-08-26 12:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy haha i bet tons of questions start out this way but anyways

so i have known him for seven years. he is so sweet and adorable and handsome and kind and mature. the only problem is we arent friends outside of our church youth group. we go to different schools and are involved with different things.

the thing is he always makes me laugh all the time he knows how to "push my buttons" and just make me burst out laughing. but i dont even know if he has a girlfriend or anything.

the problem is we are having a dance at school soon and id love for him to be my date. i like him a lot but i understand it might be best to be friends. id love to ask him to be my date - just as friends but i am too scared. in my opinion its the guys job to ask a girl out. i just want to go us friends but im scaring myself i mean what if he says no or thinks im too foward or doesnt even like me and takes it the wrong way.

what should i do and say????

2007-08-26 12:10:29 · 13 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do. I been seeing him off and on for about 6 weeks now. we havent had sex, but we kiss alot.. I love my husband,but I found out he got a few girls numbers so I lost trust , I am very attracted to him,he knows I have someone.It started off discrete,but Im starting to feel more for him.I think he knows it. Its funny but our kisses is so hot and irresistable.I know Im wrong for this,but I dont trust my husband know more.

2007-08-26 12:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by caramel 2 in Singles & Dating

cause i just turened 13 and was just wondering.......

2007-08-26 12:09:06 · 18 answers · asked by katrina h 1 in Marriage & Divorce