What do I do?

Question

I have been with my partner for two and a half yrs, Now my daughter says he has been coming on to her. I do not know what to do? any advise please.

Answer 1

Get rid of him, no doubts to it. You've been together for that long and she's just bringing it up now it's more than likely true and you owe your child the benefit of the doubt. She needs to know you will back her up and be there for her no matter what, here's your chance to prove it. Your relationship with her will be better for it.

Answer 2

We do have people of that nature, they want it all, daughter, mother, sister, cousin etc. Actually they don't respect themselves and are after no good. You daughter might be absolutely right and has face you and told you what the man is after her. she is running away, hurt, scared and want your help, how would you help her? Are you going to ignore her because of this idiot whom you may love him but he don't value love toward you or your daughter. What in his mind is just sex, a sex predator in your house hunting for your daughter. The best thing is stand up to protect your daughter, confront your man about it and warn him what you will do if it happen. Prove to him how perfect and straigth forward person you are and if he can't get satsfied with you, mentaly and sexually, he should step out and leave or you leave. If it turns out to be an argument without a solution, its worth to call it a quit and move on with your live with your daughter.

Answer 3

Do you feel your daughter is being honest?
Is it possible she is just trying to break the
two of you up? Maybe place a small automatic
tape recorder under furniture. When sound begins
the recorder automatically starts. It is spying
but you need to learn whats going on. I don't
know if this is legal so you should find out before
doing anything. Never do anything illegal.

Answer 4

Confront him! (Would she make this up? Or do you think this is really happening?) Whatever the reason, you should find out and do what is needed, whether or not it means leaving. Your daughter should always come first before any partner of yours!

Answer 5

Do you believe your daughter? How old is she? You don't want to take any chances that any harm can come to your daughter. Tell your partner that until you get the problem straightened out, he will have to live elsewhere.

Answer 6

I would find out if the allegations are true. If they are you should leave him in a heart beat. I don't know how old your daughter is, if she is younger she might be saying things because she is jealous. But if she is telling the truth you need to get her and yourself as far away from him as possible.

Answer 7

Have your daughter talk to a professional that deals with these cases. Do not let this man be with her alone. If its true, call the police and report him. Your child's safety is more important than your sex life.

Answer 8

tricky one, does your daughter generally get on with him, i would trust what your daughter is saying get them both together and tell him what she has said you will know by his face whether it is true or not. also if your daughter is making it up for some reason she won't want to be there if she is lying

Answer 9

Listen to ur daughter she might be telling the truth you dont know.
Sit down with her talk to her and find out whats going on.
As i said she might be telling the truth and if she is and you dont beleive her it will affect her for the rest of her life

Answer 10

you leave and you also think about charing him with molestation.
That's what you do. you leave NOW! Do NOT even think about giving him a second chance.

Get the cops on him because if he's done this to your daughter... how many others are there or have there been?