Just want good ideas from you guys. I have kind of gone off my husband a bit. Love him still but not as strongly. He is the love of my life but i had some other personal worries and got depressed and on antidepressants. Now I feel as though i can think straight. Have not taken his needs in concept. He does not talk much and i felt that pissed off from not being able to talk my fears with him. I totally went off him. Now i m getting my perspective sorted, and realise i love him so much. Today is the 3rd anniversary. I want to know how to make him know i m sorry and a way to get my feelings the same as it was. HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-26 12:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by sbalroarhe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Someone very wisely said "Do not worry too much about loving people. Just behave as if you did, and you will discover that you do"
It ios well worth trying in any marriage. Go for it.
I will be praying for you.
2007-08-26 20:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you have told us. Then, to rekindle any dying flame, you throw some new logs on the fire. Get out of the bedroom. Snuggle on the couch then start things there. Or the kitchen -serve him breakfast nude. Stop him on the way up the stairs and finish him off on the stairs. Climb into the shower with him. Don't forget car sex. As he is going out the door to go to work, give him a great big kiss, with lots of tongue, and say, "I just wanted you to think about me all day long." I'm sure you can come up with many more. When he sees you trying to rekindle, he will respond. Good Luck !
2007-08-26 13:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach so cook him a very nice dinner just for the two of u. but putting all jokes aside, plan a night where the kids are out of the house or you can arrange it that way and if you have a lot of things on your mind, write it down as a letter and after you cook him that wonderful dinner and you being the desert lol read him everything you've been wanting to tell him..from how you feel realizing how much you took him out of your life to the things you love about him that drive you crazy! a good crazy that is ;) say everything with sincerity and just let him know you're so grateful to have him by your side even in the roughest of times ;) and everyday after that leave little love notes so he could find before he goes to work to let him know you appreciate him and that you want to move forward with him ;) God bless and i hope this really helps ;)
2007-08-26 13:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~Anonymous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and your husband could get on super i think of lol. To be honest i think of that the only factor which you're able to do is to aim and spend slightly high quality time with him. while he's feeling slightly extra comfortable he could in basic terms experience that little urge for you coming returned returned. by all ability don't experience stupid soliciting for intercourse. it could probable do him slightly reliable to be reminded in specific situations which you're a woman and additionally you have desires too. If all else fails then by all ability get the toy. We now and returned have our desires at diverse circumstances or on diverse days wherein case there is not any longer something incorrect with taking the subject into your own hands. as long as you experience soft masturbating (and there is not any reason you should no longer) then it is a protection valve which will enable you slightly exciting without annoying too various of your husband on a similar time as he's clearly drained. the subsequent time he looks to experience ok, then bounce on him and characteristic it your way. on a similar time as an affair may be tempting it is likewise risky. i won't be in a position to assert yea or nay, yet think of intently in the previous you prefer to take this course. wish this facilitates you out xxx
2016-10-09 06:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is remember how you first felt about when you first got together.. remember that first date when he made you feel happy. when you been together for a while you get stuck in a rut and your relationship becomes a chore.. you have to be spontanous do things out of your comfort zone and maybe you'll get that spark back.. men dont do feelings maybe you could have a diary when you feel down and write.. hope you get that flame back..
2007-08-26 20:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you've said here. you might want to miss out the bit where you say you still love him but not as strongly
2007-08-26 12:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by drunkmagnet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To rekindle a dying flame you blow on it. Try it you might like it.
2007-08-26 12:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ray D dog 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL, FIRSTLY YOU SHOULD SORT OUT YOUR PERSONAL WORRIES GET HELP FROM IF YOU NEED IT. THEN YOU TWO CAN GET TOGETHER AGAIN PROPER, & HELPING YOU WILL BRING HIM CLOSER & SHOW YOU HOW HE CARES FOR YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-26 12:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about petrol.
2007-08-26 12:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by john m 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
easy.
show him this q
2007-08-26 12:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋