Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

Hi, i've been married for about 6 years now and I feel like I'm in prisoned by my wife. I'm a homebody. I don't go anywhere or do anything just the daily routine of work and coming home. But on the weekend I want to explore the city and maybe just get away, I only stay out for about an hour or so,but whenever I do return home my wife gives me the fifth degree "where have you been" in a mean tone. I told her that I really feel like I have no life, I can't go anywhere or do anything by myself unless she knows my whereabouts every second of the day. I noticed that she has changed over the past 6 months since she has started a new job and has gained a lot of lady friends, I wonder if they are feeding her bad info about men in general. Help I feel trapped.

2007-08-26 03:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by superguy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister just called me--her husband is leaving her for another woman. She is devastated and is very upset. Have anyone ever cheated on you? If so, how did you find out? Did you ever take him/her back? I hear alot about people cheating on their significant others, and I was wondering what y'all had to say about it.

2007-08-26 03:10:18 · 15 answers · asked by Mimi J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've only been married 4 years. I am no longer in love with my husband and have absolutely NO sexual desire for him. I think most of this is because I have caught him messing with other women twice, and he lied so blatantly about these situations, that I don't trust him At ALL. I no longer find him physically appealing, and can't say that I ever did--I fell in love with his spirit, and his mind, and at the time of our marriage I felt that was all I needed. But now there is just nothing there for me. My heart has been hardened by his cheating and lying. He wants to work things out, and doesn't want me to leave. But I don't feel anything for him. When he gets near me or tries to kiss me, I feel disgust, and his kiss feels wrong, and annoying. It's hard for me to watch him in his sadness, but he did this to himself. Somedays I feel pity for him, and somedays I wish he would just go the away. But I don't work and we have 2 kids, so I need his support for now.

2007-08-26 03:08:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After my parents died, I went to live with my friends mom. One day I saw her naked, and she was actually pretty hot. Then, a few days ago, we went to a party, and we both got drunk. I have my own house now, but I went to visit my little brother, at her house. Because I were drunk, I jumped into the pool naked. So did my friend's mom. We had sex under water. She was good at sex, and she was hot. She wants to have sex again. Should I do it or not?

2007-08-26 03:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Any ideas why a guy would call a girl's boyfriend a 'loser' and a 'psycho' behind her back?

2007-08-26 03:07:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 03:02:07 · 35 answers · asked by philag62 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a guy who i have been 'friends' with for over a year tells me that he needs a break after i recently told him that i loved him, however before that he did tell me that his feelings are stronger for me then any other woman (including his ex that they had kids). then just like that he cuts all ties with me.i kept trying to ring him because i needed to know and finally we speak and he tells me that he felt suffociated and that i was being too clingy, however i was only being like that because he cut all ties with me. anyway a month has passed and i respected him for being honest with me and then when i did call him he was wondering why i never called him before and i tell him it's because i wanted to give him space.i just don't understand him as he wanted space and i gave it and now he is wondering why i never called?.he wasn't angry about it just curious i think or maybe i'm wrong?anyone had this experience?? your advice or thoughts greatly appreciated.

2007-08-26 02:58:23 · 9 answers · asked by zuzu1969 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's brother kissed me a month ago and I kissed back, but since it never happened again I didn't think anything of it. When my boyfriend and I were on a break we hooked up again.. a couple times. My boyfriend saw us cuddling one day and tried beating up his brother until I stepped in. I took total blame for everything and talked to my boyfriend. He said I can date his brother if I want, but now his brother doesn't even want to talk to me because he feels responsible for breaking us up - which is not true! They've both told me they want to be with me, what do I do? Wait for the brother? Stay with my boyfriend? Stay away from both of them? Please help!

2007-08-26 02:57:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left me for a teenage girl and she's cheating on him already,should i tell him?He told me he cheated on me 4 times during our 18 yrs of marriage,we have 2 little boys and i don't want their father to get a std.

2007-08-26 02:57:10 · 38 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married , her wedding is soon. We used to have a great bond , but after her engagment we rarly see her. I feel that she's changed a lot, she's no longer funny and she meets us once in 2 weeks! Instead she's always with her fiance , I miss her but at the same time I don't want to take her romance away. What should I do to make her feel that I really miss her?!

2007-08-26 02:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by Adrianna Da Costa 1 in Weddings

I have been dating a wonderful man for the past 5 months. He has been really great about wanting to spend time with me. We live about an hour away from each other and he said the distance doesn't bother him. In the begining he used to call me every day or text message me. Now, i am lucky to hear from him 3 times a week. I understand being busy and work getting in the way but a 5 second phone call isnt asking too much is it? Now this past weekend i was supposed to go to his house. He calls me 10 minutes before i was going to pull into his driveway and said that he got bad news from home and that he didnt think he would be very good company. But a girlfriend and i went to another one of our friends houses that lives in the same town as him. When i swung by to see how he was doing he wasnt home. He wasnt at work either. When we swung by again at 3:30 in the morning he still wasnt there! I need to know if i am flipping out for no reason or do you think maybe he was with someone else?

2007-08-26 02:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by lopezjri 2 in Singles & Dating

well i met a great girl but she has a three year old son he drives me nuts i hate to say it but when he is with the fater i like being with my girlfriend but when he comes home its a nightmare i am torn between staying with this girl or leaving i really love her just dont like the kid because when i look at him i see his father in him wich he is a complete jerk what should i do?

2007-08-26 02:53:24 · 18 answers · asked by Mike R 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife went out w/a friend the other night and lied 2 me about it. she only came clean when i said i called the friend she was supp 2 have been with, but i didnt really after coming clean she told me that she wanted 2 tell me that she was going to meet up with this guy & have a few drinks but she knew i would argue w/her about it and not approve. they r old barhopping buddies & use 2 pty all the time tg. she says there is nothing 2 it and never was in the past but I've had female friends like this and i know how it wks when u pty all night and then go hm drunk. anyway... she says she didnt tell me bc she didnt want 2 fight and didnt want 2 hurt me. i am very hurt she lied and then there is part of me that feels like she was trying 2 protect me and admires she didnt want my feelings 2 b hurt. Am I a complete idiot and should i lay down an ultamadium or what?

2007-08-26 02:49:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like such a nag but I can't stand the sloppiness.....

2007-08-26 02:44:39 · 23 answers · asked by hmmmmmm?? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, my boyfriend and I (I think) are getting engaged sometime this year. He's in training right now for special forces, but I have this feeling that once that first part is over in a couple of months, he may ask me! Yay! But here's where I need some advice. We've been trying to figure out if I would move to wherever he is stationed once my lease is up in June. Problem is, that even once he's done with training and PCS's to a post, he'll still have so much more training or could be deployed right away. So logical thing to do is to wait and see what happens once he gets his orders? But, he won't know that until possibly the beginning of 2009, and if we get engaged within the next few months, I'd like to be married to him by then!

And, he's worried that if I move to NC (where he's training now) after my lease, that I'll REALLY never see him since he's out in the field so much... ok understandable.

2007-08-26 02:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-26 02:38:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I committed suicide:
I said I loved you:
I kissed you:
I lived next door to you:
I started smoking:
I stole something:
I was hospitalized:
I ran away from home and didnt come back:
I got into a fight and you were there:
I died:

What do you think about my..
Personality:
Eyes:
hair:
clothes:
self:

Would you:
love me?
let me kiss u?
watch a movie with me?
take a shower with me?
be my gf/bf?
tell me u think im cute?
take me home for da nite?
let me sleep in ur bed?
re-post dis for me 2 let me answer ur questions?
do u think im attractive, beautiful r sexy?
do u think im funie?
do u care about me?

2007-08-26 02:36:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 02:31:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an arranged marriage two months ago to a boy from India. We have signed the marriage papers there and he is in the process of getting his visa to come to be with me.
After marriage we spent a week together to get to know each other before I returned to the country where I reside. We will be having our hindu wedding ceremony when he arrives here.
I have been trying hard for da past 2 mths to contect with my husband mentally but there is no love there at all. I'm only now finding out that he is not educated, cant speak english and we have nothing in common, he does not show any effection towards me at all, He also speaks and treats me like I am his friend not a wife.
I understand that he maybe shy & unexperienced, but so am I & at the least he should be showing some effection toward me and trying to get to know me right?
I need advice on what to do in a relationship like this. Will it work out or shud I get out of it before I get stuck in a miserable marriage?

2007-08-26 02:29:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is sooo nice and hot and i just want to like makeout with him sooo bad.

2007-08-26 02:27:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it possible for afro-american women to compete with filipino women? Are they more appealing. I don't mean looks. Once the man gets a jobs overseas. This person had never travel before. Everything is new

2007-08-26 02:25:34 · 18 answers · asked by Marina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

[[I am a 14 year old girl]] Well I have had my boyfriend for 3 months now and we havent kissed yet. He is coming over to my house so my dad can meet him. But I live by a lake, so we are going to walk to this one place on the other side of the lake thats by the drainage hole. Theres no houses there or anything theres just a hill and the lake. And it doesnt smell or anything. I know we are gonna have fun like goofing around and stuff. But also we both want to kiss, and im pretty sure we will end up kissing there. Probably not with tounge, but open mouthed kissing. But I am a bit worried because I have braces. Is there any way that he could get hurt from my braces? And is there any special way to kiss with braces or do you jut kiss normally but a little bit softer/more gentle? Please help me!!! Thank you.

2007-08-26 02:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 02:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by arin l 1 in Singles & Dating

All be required to take a 3 month course on marriage and what it's really all about. Do you think this would downsize the divorce rate? Do you think the age your allowed to get married should be increased as well? Give my ? a star if you agree.

2007-08-26 02:21:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thats all he's talked about for the last few days is gambling. I know last year he went out a couple of times with another female, to gamble at a popular casino. I was not there, but heard about this from my kids and other people. He feels its okay now, to have "friends" from the opposite sex to go to different activites other than going there with me. I would never do this to him, or consider it either. What's going on here? Am I reading to much into it? She's a gambler and I'm not. We do not need nor can afford to gamble hundreds away right now. If we could, I'd love to join him once in awhile.
What should I do?
We've been married for 27 years.

2007-08-26 02:20:12 · 33 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4 in Marriage & Divorce

let me just say that i wanna live with my dad and at this moment i live with my mom(well she has full custity but i acually live with my grandma) and they know that i want to live with my dad but they wont let me in fact they wont even let me spend the night with him! So dad talked to his layer to see what he could do bout goin to court to get full coustity and he said that they best dad could get was half custity?? Is that true because im 15 and live in IL and i thought that i could pick the parent that i choose to live with!? So could someone help me plz!!!!

2007-08-26 02:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My friend Cailey, is a lesbian whose sleeping with a married woman at the married woman's house with her 2 year old son there. My guess is this husband is going to eventually catch them and give my friend the a** beating of a life time! I've tried to warn her but she doesn't think it will happen. who here thinks it will?

2007-08-26 02:10:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a baby when i was 18 and was pretty confident in myself up until i got stretchmarks on my breasts, my stomach, my hips, my thighs, and my butt.I am not big at all. I work out and would be happy with my body if i didn't have stretch marks. Now i get very depressed when i see myself. although they have faded and aren't too bad, I am afraid to date because I'm afraid a guy will see them and be totally turned off. It's taking over my life. I want to know if guys care about stretch marks and how big of a deal they are.

2007-08-26 02:07:29 · 21 answers · asked by amandacb0406 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 02:03:26 · 10 answers · asked by Eric Chua Yanshan Maynas 3 in Singles & Dating

I really love her from the bottom of my heart. But she do not. From the moment I saw her on wards I suffer from her love badly. I forget everything except thinking of her. It is about a year. She knows as I love her; but she is not voluntaire to help me. I need some advice; how can I forget her?.

2007-08-26 02:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by ABI 1 in Marriage & Divorce