Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

My bf is always buying new clothes. He won't tell me what he does or where he works, or where he goes to college. Once when I spent the night his celly rang at like 5 in the morning and he wouldn't tell me who it was, he said it was nobody. I only see him once or twice a week. Rarely on Fri or Sat nights. He wears cologne when he goes to school, he sprays it on just before he leaves. He is accusatory and suspicious of me doing stuff.

He won't even tell me his real name. I know his nickname, but that's it. We been dating 7 months now.

2007-08-26 10:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need 2 figure out a place me n my friendz can hangout, that my mom will approve of. what should i say 2 convince her itz ok 2 hangout wit guyz @ 13

2007-08-26 10:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by Bahamma-mamma ♥ 1 in Friends

how do you tell a boy that your about to go out wit that you moving to the other side of the state of florida.If im hurtin real bad from this i know he would and i dont want him to be hurt so can you please tell me the best way to tell a boy you like that your movin?!?!?!?

2007-08-26 10:25:22 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda n 2 in Singles & Dating

(and if you were around the same age)

2007-08-26 10:23:27 · 15 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Singles & Dating

maybe by next year i can be with him in person. but that only after he is married. he will get narried most probably on january. i can only see him personally on april maybe

2007-08-26 10:20:16 · 9 answers · asked by maricar 1 in Weddings

This summer, i left Pennsylvania to go to wyoming to work as a waitress in a seasonal job at a resort outside of Yellowstone. While i was there, I fell in love with a fly fishing guide who worked at a nearby ranch, and i fell in love with my co workers (they became like my family) and the mountains. When i left i literally cried the whole way home. Now I have to return to school (i'm enrolled in a four year University) and i'm dreading the thought of it. Especially since the man i met out west has recently called my parents to ask their permission to marry me. I would rather be anywhere right now than going back to school, and doing the whole cookie cutter college thing like everyone else. I want to go back out west and follow my fisherman where ever he goes and just work at the lodges that he works at. I know the smart thing is to be in school, but i do not want to be unhappy there, but i would like to have an education someday. what should i do? i'm so confused and would love advice.

2007-08-26 10:19:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-08-26 10:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by ChandlerM 2 in Friends

i want to seduce this guy so bad! i've sent him pictures... :)...and texts but hes still so afraid of jail...but he;s only three years older. i don't get why he is freaking out so bad. especially when we have done..other...physical stuff.

2007-08-26 10:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Holly G. 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, when you kiss a girl tell me what you like. Not only a kiss, but making out or frenching too. I would like to know what you like them to smell like, and also what you want their breathe to be like. Minty, etc. Also, how do you like a girl to kiss you?

P.S., the guy I am seeing is 6'5 and I am 5'7. How would you like a shorter girl to approach you for a kiss?

2007-08-26 10:18:20 · 3 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Singles & Dating

say a cat or a dog has a partner and kids. we all hear about how dogs are so loyal, but does the dog can cheat on his dog partner, the mother of his kids? will he sleep with another she-dog?

2007-08-26 10:17:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's youngest brother cheated on his wife and got a co-worker of his pregnant. His wife just gave birth to a baby 2 months ago! We just learned that some chick is 1 months pregnant from him and my husband, his older brother and wife and myself are very disgusted with the whole situation. My brother-in-law has cheated left and right with many women and his wife just takes him back. We where all expecting for her to walk out on him since the news of a child broke out. My father in law has talked her into staying with him. My in-laws blame the girl who got pregnant for being a slease and they also blame the wife for not taking care of "his needs". I'm so angry I have decided to stop talking to him, he's a bastard! I know this is their problem and whatever they do is none of my business. But we have all lost sleep over this. And to top everything, my cheating bro in law is talking trash about the girl he got pregnant and how she has ruined his life. Is my brother in law SICK?

2007-08-26 10:10:55 · 14 answers · asked by C C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been fighting for 2 months over her drinking. My wife loves to drink and sometimes drinks too much. She also has guy friend that are in her class that she goes and hangs out with 2 or 3 times a month and drinks in bars with them. I have told her many times it bothers me but she refuses to quit. For more info refer to my last 2 questions in my profile. I recently left her, and now I think I want to give it one more try. She suggested a marriage counselor. I think the problem is my wife might be an alcoholic and not want to admit it. Plus, I don’t approve of the other guys in her life. Am I being stupid and jealous? She has never given me a reason not to trust her besides just going to bars with guys and a few other girls, but I don’t know them. She tells me I am always invited but has never called me and formerly invited to go before she goes out. What should I do? Is it too late? Please read my last 2-posted questions for more details.

2007-08-26 10:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by funkyballs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love this girl at school loaaadddds, but for some reason i don't talk to her. I don't really know why, i sometimes think it is because i don't know what to say or i am embarrassed. I am not the best at talking but i really want to talk to her more. plzzzzz help!!!

2007-08-26 10:08:24 · 1 answers · asked by jak 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your wife or girlfriend is getting ready to take her shower. she first walks past you purposely naked to get your attention. how would you respond to her? I ask because my husband wont touch me let alone stare at my half way decent naked body. wont touch me kiss me nothing I want to know because i think there is some thing wrong with me.

2007-08-26 10:07:41 · 23 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Singles & Dating

For about 6 weeks this guy I met online and I had been emailing back and forth. We finally met in person about a week ago and I like him and would like to get to know him better. I told him that I would be happy to get together again and he has now offered to make me dinner at his house. Do you think I should accept or do you think I should suggest we meet out somewhere again? I'm not really worried about him doing anything bad, but I kind of don't want things to go too fast. If a guy offers to cook for you is that serious? I'm not the best at dating, so need some advice. Thanks.

2007-08-26 10:06:15 · 8 answers · asked by millin56 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe it's because I'm not as sociable as everyone else but I seem to be a target for people to 'harmlessly make fun of' or be sarcastic about. I'm sick of it, but if I show how I feel I'll look like some stubborn brat. I'm sick of my family and friends looking & talking at me like an outcast. How do I deal with this?

2007-08-26 10:05:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Divorce rate has reached 50% in some countries such as the USA and 35% in some oil countries such as Kuwait. Families dont feel being secured in most poor countries. Why do you think this phenomena is wide spread all over the world?

2007-08-26 10:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by best-doctor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

An ex-boyfriend of mine says he is getting a do-it-yourself divorce in PA rather than NYS where he and his wife reside as he says it only takes 6 months in PA vs a year in NYS and the cost is cheaper. Is this true or is he full of B.S.? Thank-you.

2007-08-26 10:00:37 · 8 answers · asked by tigrzmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing this lovely guy and we havent slept together yet,but i was wondering if there is a way you can tell if a guy loves oral or not(giving). I think he likes receiving as he's dropped hints but hasnt mentioned the other way round. Do all guys like giving oral?

2007-08-26 09:56:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some men i have met only date one type of woman for example rod stewart only seems to date leggy blondes, do you have a type or are you more a personality or body shape over looks kinda guy? come on you can tell me.

2007-08-26 09:56:21 · 22 answers · asked by tish the bi@ch 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay I know this is a broad statement but I am 39 secure and single I happen to act and look younger than my age so I usually date men in their twenties. But as I get older I am tired of being the one with the money. So decided to date men my age and have discovered that they carry way too much baggage and have the tendency to be absolute geeks. To clarify further I am college educated but I listen to the Plain White T's, motorcycle ride and still skateboard. Yes it might seem immature of a women of my age doing these things but I also own a house and pay my bills. Are their fun guys out there who have their crap together and know who Camu is and who know who Aiden is?.

2007-08-26 09:55:09 · 1 answers · asked by yp_lena_albuquerque 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 09:54:54 · 2 answers · asked by LG 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 09:52:40 · 52 answers · asked by Vanessa R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when you're a girl and you hug someone and one of your legs like...lifts up? haha.

my friend always laughs at me when I hug someone and my leg goes up...maybe it's because I'm kinda short. :\

2007-08-26 09:45:36 · 28 answers · asked by miss addicted 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever felt left out and ignored like you dont belong and no matter what you do isn't good enough... How did you deal with it? ANd how can I solve it

2007-08-26 09:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by Me 6 in Friends

I want to have a wedding in a tropical garden or cottage style flower garden. Please help! Where can i have it? I live on the east coast, so i dont mind anywhere from Delaware down to Florida. I have been searching for garden centers, hotels, bed and breakfasts, and I cant find anything! I have looked at many websites and links, but i still cant seem to find anything! Any loacation ideas or website that acutally help!? Please anyone!!

2007-08-26 09:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my mum is no longer loud near me due to some problems and im currently with foster parents i would like to try and make this tempory by getting in touch with my real dad does anybody know how you can do this even if you dont knwo much about them xx ?? any help would be appreciated

2007-08-26 09:40:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and some of his friends were at the bar while others went and sat down and he went from the bar to get a lap dance from a girl that was comppletely naked at first it was three then he changed it to one and then after the lap dance he then realized he was out of gas when he was supposed to come to my house I just shut my phone off and went to bed cuz I was sick of hearing his BS and he had no gas so he is calling me at 11 at night telling me he is walking all over buffalo trying to get gas. That just seems to far out to me. And my question is so what you gotta a lap dance why did you have to tell me about it. It was liek he wanted to throw it up in my face and I have a hrad time trusting as it is and we were dating for three months and everythign was going good til that stripper and I was done. So what do you girls think?

2007-08-26 09:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by whisper2ya 2 in Friends

I let my daughter and ex-husband down by not putting the family back together.

I am constantly ambivalent and am not able to get things done to move things ahead.

Then, my ex-husband gets upset and calls me inefficient, diseased because I constantly talk to Counselors and other friends/ relatives for advice.

He claims that I need to fix myself.

Then, he says that I am "irresponsible mother." Yet, he had sole physical and legal custody.

It was wrong of me to leave my child. I know that.

I wonder if I need to look inside myself and maybe just maybe he is right.

2007-08-26 09:19:42 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas on keeping a relationship growing after a seperation period.

2007-08-26 09:19:12 · 13 answers · asked by lawhistory2002 2 in Other - Family & Relationships