how do you tell a boy that your about to go out wit that you moving to the other side of the state of florida.If im hurtin real bad from this i know he would and i dont want him to be hurt so can you please tell me the best way to tell a boy you like that your movin?!?!?!?
2007-08-26 10:25:22 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my best guy friend just moved from missouri to new mexico a few weeks ago. it was so sad and i miss him alot. hes also my best friends boyfriend, so it was really hard on her. She tried to be strong for him and make his last few weeks awesome, and i spent a ton of time with him before he had to go. i think that you should meet him at lunch or at a park or something (this probably seems like a huge step, but you wont regret it, i promise. consider it a now or never kind of thing considering youre leaving, and i think that you'd definitely regret not doing it if you dont) and just tell him that you've liked hanging out with him and getting to know him (have you? lol im kind of presumptuous) and you need to tell him something. just flat out say that you're moving, and you're very sad to leave everything, but you hope that you 2 can still stay in touch. and tahts that. no need to draw it out, you can accept his sympathy or whatever but just kind of change the subject so the day stays on a happy note, and when you move give him your new #, and if he does call you or you call him - VERY IMPORTANT - sound cheerful!!! i know thats probably very hard to do, but i hate when my friend calls me and sounds miserable. its so sad and i understand that hes upset but its so much better to takl to him when hes in a good, cheery mood ebcause it makes me admire his strength and happiness. good luck and i hope you have a good moving experience!!
2007-08-26 10:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by jelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him. It's not an easy thing to do. It will be hard for you as well as for him. The sooner you tell him the better. He would be hurt if you wait for a day or two before you move. Just tell him you want more than anything to keep in touch with him as much as possible with E-mail, Instant Messenger, Snail Mail, Once a week or month phone calls. You two could get a web-cam so you can talk and see one another. At least you are in the same state, so chances are you may be able to visit during summer vacation or spring break. This will ease the pain for you both. And, the miles between you won't feel so far away after all. Good luck with your move.
2007-08-26 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mass can't get come to be smaller with pace. I suppose theoretically mass turns into higher to infinity as you method the pace of sunshine, however I'm no whiz on relativity so please nobody grill me if I'm fallacious. As for having no mass, simply considering that Newton's moment legislation of movement destroys that. F=ma; if mass used to be 0 and engine used to be exerting a drive (to quit it slowing all the way down to air resistance) acceleration could rocket to infinity, which it obviously does not. Also, probably an extra method to assume a motorbike and not using a mass could be to assume it in a gravitational subject. No mass, for this reason no weight could imply the slightest bump, and even simply the curvature of the Earth could purpose an area motorbike! All I can suppose is that probably your pal used to be making an attempt to provide an explanation for why a 2 wheeled motorbike falls over whilst desk bound however is flawlessly steady whilst relocating alongside. This is because of the gyroscopic outcome of the wheels and their angular pace. I have no idea all of that stuff both, I simply positioned it all the way down to the complexities of technological know-how and depart it at that. Hope I helped.
2016-09-05 15:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up any other way and he may be hurt more. Tell him your feelings but you have no choice.
Life throws a lot of surprises in our path. Handling directly and as soon as possible is the best way to do it. You can always meet him again if you both want. You can definite stay in contact in this world.
2007-08-26 10:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really is no best way, moving sucks but only at first, i was devistated when i moved and then a year after i had moved in i met the greatest guy in my life!! we have been going out for 2 yrs and unfortunately i am moving again...telling a guy you are in a relationship with is much harder than telling a guy you dont even really know yet. you both will quickly get over it.
2007-08-26 10:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm maybe you can actually use this question as an opening line....ask him what and how would he do it.....than do the things he suggested. You will have to talk to me soon though so he can accept the fact and you guys can go over the more important things like....the best way to say 'till we meet again' and have a memorable night.......maybe to continue and how to carry on the relationship....what is best....this is more important to discuss....right...also maybe make plans to see each other on line through web-cam or during holidays etc etc
2007-08-26 10:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by soundfamiliar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it in person. think of it like breaking up (not that you are breaking up ) but i would be better in person. first see how he will react. then suggest things like we could still go out or long distance or keep in contact. if you can drive you will still be able to see each other and theres phones and computers and webcams so you wount be totally seperated.spend time with him but dopnt dwell on it for forever. still make new friends and meet new guys. you might find someone you like just as much or more and if you dont then you can have long distance. but when you tell him do it in person and go out and have fun before you leave (but make time for your other friends).
2007-08-26 10:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are moving and why you are moving. Then discuss ways that you two can see each other. Meeting half way between your homes or alternating weekends to travel back and forth are all good ways to keep in touch.
2007-08-26 10:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell him is sooner rather than later. He's going to find out, so you want it to be in a favorable manner. Respect his feelings and tell him now. Good luck and God bless.
2007-08-26 10:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by wizball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie there are some things, you can't do, without a shock to the system and this is one of them, you just have to tell him and hope for the best. Good luck to you and take care.
2007-08-26 10:44:38 · answer #10 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋