and some of his friends were at the bar while others went and sat down and he went from the bar to get a lap dance from a girl that was comppletely naked at first it was three then he changed it to one and then after the lap dance he then realized he was out of gas when he was supposed to come to my house I just shut my phone off and went to bed cuz I was sick of hearing his BS and he had no gas so he is calling me at 11 at night telling me he is walking all over buffalo trying to get gas. That just seems to far out to me. And my question is so what you gotta a lap dance why did you have to tell me about it. It was liek he wanted to throw it up in my face and I have a hrad time trusting as it is and we were dating for three months and everythign was going good til that stripper and I was done. So what do you girls think?
2007-08-26 09:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by whisper2ya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it's time to move on.
Quit worrying about him and the past and focus on your future.
2007-08-26 09:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you the truth about the lap dance and you got mad. I can say I would be mad too if my boyfriend told me he got a lap dance. But I would also be glad that he felt compelled enough to tell me the truth. Let him know you are pissed about the lap dance, but that you do appreciate him being honest with you. I don't believe he was throwing it in your face. I would then tell him that you really don't need to know the intimate details of his night out at the strip club. (That is unless you want him to tell you). Talk to him about this and any other issues you may be having. Good luck.
2007-08-26 16:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already have trust issues then why are you with this guy? the next time(if you stick it out) he wants to go out to a strip bar go with him. Take $20.00 with you make sure you are driving your own car or have your own designated driver and just have a good time.women CAN have a great time at a titty bar too. He'll be shoked for sure. then find you some one you can trust.
2007-08-26 16:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he does sound like a b*****d, i take it he wasn't your ex until he told you about the lap dancers?
what you need to ask is why did he tell you, it is possible he was just trying to make you jealous/get your attention? In which case....that's up to u
Otherwise, yep, you're better off without him.
2007-08-28 11:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Thneedloverz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot, you don't tell your girlfriend you got 3 lap dances. Even I know that.
2007-08-26 16:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hindu Guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If my partner had a butt naked girl parading in front of him i'd be super pI**ed! If he'd paid for it i'd be even more annoyed.
2007-08-26 16:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably feel the exact same...some things are best left untold
2007-08-26 16:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by ste4bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts .
2007-08-26 16:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, I THINK YOU SHUD JUST MOVE ON & SHOW HIM YOU DONT NEED A LOSER LIKE HIM, YOUR TO GOOD FOR HIM. GOOD LUCK.
2007-08-26 19:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋