My boyfriend's brother kissed me a month ago and I kissed back, but since it never happened again I didn't think anything of it. When my boyfriend and I were on a break we hooked up again.. a couple times. My boyfriend saw us cuddling one day and tried beating up his brother until I stepped in. I took total blame for everything and talked to my boyfriend. He said I can date his brother if I want, but now his brother doesn't even want to talk to me because he feels responsible for breaking us up - which is not true! They've both told me they want to be with me, what do I do? Wait for the brother? Stay with my boyfriend? Stay away from both of them? Please help!
2007-08-26 02:57:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A few more details:
They are still on good terms. After a long talk with my bofriend he apologized to his brother and they hugged and made up.
I do love my boyfriend, we've been friends for two years and dating for one.
And, even their mom knows what happened and she laughed. She kept making jokes about it and saying it's because "I love the family so much." She's acting like it's no big deal.
2007-08-26 03:19:41 · update #1
You're gonna end up getting in the middle and hurting their relationship. Be with who you want, but also step back for now. Choose later because they could seriously mess up their relationship and then you'll feel awful and still not have a boyfriend
2007-08-26 03:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by hope. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you're bf's brother likes you, yet do no longer decide for it. being cheated on with a brother hurts worse than chum. and as some distance because of the fact the ex gf element, you ought to talk on your bf approximately it if it bothers you. he may well be dishonest on you along with her and he's probably no longer yet you will in no way comprehend in case you do no longer talk over with him approximately it.
2016-11-13 10:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are totally in the wrong. If you want to cheat on a boyfriend don't do so with his own flesh and blood. You could cause damage to the family and them not speaking for any given period of time
2007-08-26 03:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a pathetic, immature, insecure woman. Call Jerry Springer.
Good Luck
2007-08-26 03:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you back away from both of them....because if u date ur boyfriend...his bro will think ur betrayed him....and if you date the bro...ur exboyfriend will think u betrayed him too....so its a nogainer cause either way sumones gonna be angry...i mean u don't LOVE either of them do you...even if you have a crush on him....it doesn't equal LOVE.
2007-08-26 03:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would steer clear of both of them. And of other guys. It doesn't sound like you are ready for a relationship right now.
2007-08-26 03:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with both of them double the pleasure
2007-08-26 03:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you really should do is grow up and stop messing up family's like you have. honestly do you think its right to play one brother against the other.
2007-08-26 03:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make another boy friend who has two brothers!!
2007-08-26 03:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by priyabrata d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which one do u want to be w/?
if u really want to date his bro,u hv to talk to both of them.
otherwise,u r wasting ur time &their time.
u hv to ask urself wt actually u want?
if ur answer is both of them then,just stay away from them.dun hurt them anymore.
2007-08-26 03:09:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋