2007-08-26 12:36:36 · 47 answers · asked by Sniper Hobo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
both, what goes around comes around
2007-08-26 12:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Diane D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be cheating for revenge or she may just be a cheater also. Whatever the case two wrongs don't make a right and it's never o.k. to cheat on a spouse even if you cheated first. I think you both need marriage counseling. If she can't deal with what happned she needs to back out of the marriage instead of making the situation worse by being unfaithful. Adultery is wrong no matter what.
2007-08-26 13:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably both. If she's not still interested in you she would have thrown your cheating butt out on the curb along with your clothes. So yes, she's cheating. And, yes, she's getting her revenge. Now the thing to do, since you started this little shopping spree.... Tell her you are sorry, and that you got your dose of bitter medicine. Ask her if she wants to give it another shot and try to work towards a happy marriage. Be sure to convince her you will do no more shopping and you wish the same from her.
2007-08-26 12:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guyz need some mediator to soften things here. She needs to have her heart mended coz her heart feels like f-ing sh*tt rite now, coz you cheated on her and she still hasn't forgiven you and has kept very bitter, angry feelings towards you that resulted in this action (more like a reaction by the way). She's a lil impatient to go thru with this action tho. Two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-08-26 15:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Simplygreat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs don't make 1 right, cheating is cheating. time to get out of this relationship and move on
2007-08-26 12:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's probably both...
She might feel that it is her right to cheat after having been cheated on. But it's all still cheating.
These two people need counseling, and quick!
2007-08-26 12:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? it depends on your wife -
i would never cheat for revenge - i feel so much higher of myself than letting someone else in there just because your *** fuhked up ~ i hope i would never cheat anyway - but if i did it wouldnt just be cheating - it would be because he actually gives me what i need ( probally emotional support and listens to what i say and can carry on a converstaion with me ) -
2007-08-26 12:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by imissmahboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating, regardless of the reason behind it.
Now the motivation may have some bearing on how others (like the cuckolded husband) react to it, but it is cheating.
2007-08-26 12:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Beaver1224 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's revenge cheating. What difference does it make? You obviously weren't meant for each other.
2007-08-26 12:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be revenge and most likely is, but its still cheating no matter what!!
2007-08-26 12:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is just that cheating..
Maybe it's her way of taking revenge but that is some childish sh*t right there and borderline pathetic if you ask me..
2007-08-26 12:43:06 · answer #11 · answered by Esm[][]th 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋