Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

like on christmas sholud you give the woman a present and expect nothing in return or should both parties get presents from each other.

2007-08-26 14:17:47 · 20 answers · asked by bigchill2007 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 14:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Matt A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I got tired of sending resumes without sucess. I studied in a expensive school and my dad paid it but I couldn't find a job on what I studied so I recently accepted a job in a drugstore...my dad is a sucessful bussiness man and I don't know if he would understand that I am working on this. He called me and asked me to visit him and I didn't know how to tell him I can't go to his city because I am working...how can I tell him that I am working??? I think he will get very dissapointed.

2007-08-26 14:15:16 · 11 answers · asked by C6 7 in Family

I just began my second year at college. Nowadays, i feel very insecure about my looks and personality. Over the summer, back to home, i was a pretty confident person all around. I don’t feel like myself. I feel fat and ugly. When i go out, i always notice guys wanting to talk to my friends and not me. I’ve had small insecures is like everyone and I know I’m not unattractive but i've been feeling very down lately. How can i change this

2007-08-26 14:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by Indgrid 1 in Singles & Dating

my step cousin has been calling me upset and in tears, sometimes i cant understand her words. but one thing she makes clear is that she says she want to die, just die. and that she's more likely to die from her own two hands than a car accident or something. I know she's been through some tough times in the past year, but i would have thought she would be over it by now. But seems as if her world is alway gray, she could be happy for a few, then she falls again*out of the blue*. I want to help her, but dont know were to began. I dont even really know whats wrong, because if you as her she would say.
''i cant explain, i just feel it''

2007-08-26 14:13:29 · 10 answers · asked by DJ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-26 14:12:44 · 25 answers · asked by rom20_20 3 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my fiancé it looks like me and my cousin are in the same boat my cousin on here is lenny check my contacts you will found her. I don't understand guys why they have to lie, cheat and try to impress then turn you against the people you love. Red flags I caught before we got married. Some of the same issues caused us both to wake up which I am glad we did.
1. Postpone wedding supposedly we weren't finance secure2. Berating everybody that he has even been confronted on problems he runs away. 3. Doing illegal drugs l4. Getting credit cards in my name without permission and I never signed for any pf those credit cards what do I tell the credit? 5. Confronted about money and the cards he has left me 5 horrible voice mails and about 3 to 5 nasty text which I am keeping on my phone. So was my choice the right thing to do break up with him and not accept anymore calls or do anything else and just going on living my life? And what can I do from here I am in my early thirties and feel alone except for family. But I am scared of him please advise what my next step should be?

2007-08-26 14:12:23 · 3 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 14:11:43 · 8 answers · asked by Matt A 1 in Friends

Why?

2007-08-26 14:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by fabs83 4 in Singles & Dating

Tomorrow night will be the first time I meet my boyfriend's (of 2 months) son. He is 5, and he also has Down's Syndrome. He's visiting his father for a few months, then going back to his mother (they share custody). I'm not sure how to act, or what to do, because I've never dated someone with a child before.

2007-08-26 14:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little sister is going to start her freshman year and she wants to wear this kind of low cut top from Hollister. Is this a bad thing to wear on the first day of school? Will this give teachers a bad impression?

2007-08-26 14:07:51 · 5 answers · asked by Fredrico 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-26 14:07:37 · 41 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

the girl is 17 and an honor roll student. she doesnt drink, smoke, or even hang out at parties. most of the time she is at the movie theatre or at her bf's house watching a movie with his family

2007-08-26 14:07:30 · 19 answers · asked by goaliediva01 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that i cant stop thinking about i can tell that she really likes me but the thing is i dont know how to talk to her.
it seems that i can talk to anyone without problem except her. i was with her one time and some of her friend and i ended up saying nothing to her only her friends that i didnt even know! even thou i really wanted to talk to her god dammit

2007-08-26 14:05:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For about three months my boyfriend and I have been kicking around the idea of driving up to Santa Barbra for a lttle weekend getaway; but he keeps "forgetting" about it. Just the other night, he told me that is friend asked him to go hiking to Mt. Whitney and he said yes. I'm pissed because we have been trying to plan something for the longest time and haven't done anyting, but his friend asks him to go somewhere and he jumps on it. What do You think? Thanks for your answers.

2007-08-26 14:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 14:01:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend (honest) that began an affair with a married co-worker. She then found out that his wife was pregnant and wants out but he starts being very mean and then very sweet to her. ( I know...typical emotional abusive behavior) She really regrets what she has done and knows that there is no excusing her own behavior but she really wants to do damage control at this point. He also happens to work directly across the hall from her. Please don't give thoughts on how she deserves it now, she was going through an extremely rough time when it began ( her husand deserted her and her mother died all in the same week and she was in a really bad place) I really just need to help her figure out how to fix this mess as best as possible. Changing jobs is not possible either.

2007-08-26 14:01:42 · 10 answers · asked by zogetta3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Back when i was 5, i had this friend 'Justin', we had some fun times playing and everything- we'd put sunscreen on each other (others would make fun of us for that), i'd be walking partners with his little sister at daycare, build sand castles with him...etc. Basically puppy-love....but, then we saw each other occasionally at Sunday school, and he'd say hi, and i be my shy self and look at anyone but him....
Now I'm in high school and we haven't spoken to each other since i was in 2nd grade (except that he was checking me out at the movies), and i really like him and so my question is: How do i get him to talk to me? When should i talk to him? (we have no classes together) and what should i say?... do you think he would still like me? or at least be friends with me again? Please write hopeful, cheery answers!

2007-08-26 13:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by Radar M 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a HUGE crush on a guy at school, but there's a little problem: he's three years older than me. i don't know what to do!!!! should i make a move or what?

2007-08-26 13:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have two kids from a previous marriage. Ages 5 ond 3. We divorced because he was cheating on me. with plenty of women. i moved to a different state and made a new life since then i have moved back to the state that he lives in and he is making my life hell. we have joint custody but when he gets the girls he don't want to give them back. i am getting remarried and he has a girlfriend but all he does is talk about my future husband and want to fight him. i personally hate him but for the kids i try to be nice. he does not pay child support because he says he don't want to. Am i wrong because i don't want my kids around him? He calls to speak to them maybe 2x a week. Am i a bad person because i don't want him to get them?

2007-08-26 13:56:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he thinks its funny! how do i make him stop?!

2007-08-26 13:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 13:50:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do women like guys that lives at home, drives a crappy car and has no monies?
Just wondering.

2007-08-26 13:50:44 · 5 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

When you love someone with such a fierceness, but deep down know it just isn't going to work? When as you catch yourself watching him sleep, your stomach drops knowing it really is going to end? When you realize that even though it's been just one long goodbye, you still avoid the enevitable because you've just never really been good at watching the one you gave your heart and soul to turn around and not come back.. ? Life is truelly unfair.. cruel... and it's just life...

2007-08-26 13:50:03 · 3 answers · asked by big_gurlz_dont_cry27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex-boyfriend and I are still friends. we talk to each other often. I broke up with him even though we both still liked each other (it was too complicated for me to keep seeing him) and he didn't want us to break up but he accepted it. this was at the end of january. ever since then, about at least once a month I hang out with him and he always initiates it (calling/texting/IMing me to hang out with him). whenever I hang out with him he always tries to kiss me and I tell him I don't want to because we're just friends and he responds, "we could be more than that" and tells me that he wishes we never broke up. lately (for I guess the past 2 months) he's been telling me he really wants a girlfriend and my response usually is "i'm sure you'll find one" (what else would I say, you know?). whenever he texts me, he tells me he really wants to hang out and told me twice that he still liked me and that he wanted to go steady with me. Now, I would think this would mean he does like me but...

2007-08-26 13:50:02 · 12 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friends girlfriend is showing pictures of herself naked to him is this illeagle or conciderd porn?

2007-08-26 13:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Sam D GO CAROLINA 2 in Friends

Can a guy single a girl out they've never even talked to but has just seen in school or has a class with & have a crush on her? I mean the guys who are really popular in school & social. Would they ever single a girl out they've never talked to & have a crush on her?

2007-08-26 13:47:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father is extremely hypocritical! He gets mad so easily and complains that i'm too technical and that everything has to be persice with me. I can't tell him or my mom anything, although I can tell my mom more stuff. I don't exactly trust my dad with anything. Everyime he is near me and is using a knive for whatever reason, I always think he is going to use it on me. Same thing with walking across the front of a car while it's on and he is in the drivers seat...What should I do?!?!?!? I seriously can not stand him anymore...

2007-08-26 13:47:17 · 4 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Family

the gift is for a female

2007-08-26 13:46:57 · 1 answers · asked by kailey b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Will it cause my question to be removed?? lol... I read the community guidelines but it wasn't like I said anything vulgar or questionable really...

hehe... is there really a person sitting there reading all of these questions and deciding whether or not it violates their rules??

I mean, I know some people "report" stuff, but is that the only way you get deleted? Do they just take other members' words for it??

Well, guess I gotta limit my spankee spankee questions...

lol... bummer really....;)

We'll see how long this one lasts... lol

2007-08-26 13:40:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating