i have a HUGE crush on a guy at school, but there's a little problem: he's three years older than me. i don't know what to do!!!! should i make a move or what?
2007-08-26 13:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and one more thing, i go to a private school and he's the pastor's son, so whatever happens his dad's always gonna be right there! so i always get nervous around him! i don't know what to do!!!!
2007-08-26 14:21:17 · update #1
Three years isn't that big of a deal. Just treat it as you would any other guy. Start talking to him. Use a mutual friend to introduce you guys. Flirt with him and just play it cool. Get to know him better before you decide that you really like him. If it goes well and he's flirting back. Make a move; that is if he hasn't already.
2007-08-26 14:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
making a move on an older (prolly more experienced.... no offense) guy is a lot different than making a move on someone ur own age. Ease into it. Try not to come on too strong or it might be weird for him. If there's something there than the age wont matter.
2007-08-26 21:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by LonalyFirefly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been easier if you had indicated both your ages.Generally, a three year age difference is a non issue and I would say go for it if you have a strong enough crush or interest in the guy.However, I will advise some caution and common sense as you proceed.Good luck.
2007-08-26 21:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on wether your over the age limit or not
if he's 18 and your 15-16 No,
yes if your 17-18 go for it ??
Good Luck
Ben
2007-08-26 21:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by beneryberlecco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i was in your situation like 3 years ago and you know what i had my friend let him know how i felt i just acted like i didnt know she said anything than i made my move, and we have been together ever since. i would go for it all hes gonna say is yes or no it wont be the end of the world either if he does say no but he might not, go for it , you might surprise yourself.
2007-08-26 21:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by ~Ash~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are atcually okay. For some odd reason guys like younger girls. I dont know why. But give it a shot!
2007-08-26 21:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age really isn't the issue here.. the questions is if u have a crush on this guy... does he feel the same waty as you??? that one thing u should find out first...
2007-08-26 21:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by Zykoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny if you like him go for it...but only if he's a nice guy...remember that age is only a number!
2007-08-26 21:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
age aint nothin but a number
2007-08-26 21:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's one of those bad boy types i'd stay away
but if he's sweet i'd go for him!
2007-08-26 21:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋