i have two kids from a previous marriage. Ages 5 ond 3. We divorced because he was cheating on me. with plenty of women. i moved to a different state and made a new life since then i have moved back to the state that he lives in and he is making my life hell. we have joint custody but when he gets the girls he don't want to give them back. i am getting remarried and he has a girlfriend but all he does is talk about my future husband and want to fight him. i personally hate him but for the kids i try to be nice. he does not pay child support because he says he don't want to. Am i wrong because i don't want my kids around him? He calls to speak to them maybe 2x a week. Am i a bad person because i don't want him to get them?
2007-08-26 13:56:28 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No your not a bad person.
I assume you have primary custody, yet you share joint with your ex?
My son has Primary custody of his 3 year old.
From what I have seen my son go thru I can completely understand your situation. It is good that you are trying to be civil with him. Wish he could do the same.
I can tell you that your ex is just afraid that your fiance is going to take his place as a father role in the children's lives.
He (ex) apparently is jealous as well.
When you say he doesn't want to give the girls back. Are you saying you have to fight to get them. Or does he have them now? If you have joint custody, what are on the papers as far as who has them on which days?
About the only thing you can do is talk to a lawyer about what you can do legally.
Good luck, faith
2007-08-26 15:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋