Family & Relationships - 26 August 2007

2007-08-26 18:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by Cyndi M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am under the impression you are going through a depression that time has slowed down for you and that you feel helpless waighting for me. hold your bearing it is faithfullness we seek in love and sacrifise and it is hard to live this life styel, and I probley understand that more than enyone being that i am here and I antisipate you, in your loving and hating ways it always comes down to your faith in us and your emotional bearing I am scared of your hate side becase I have seen how unstabel you are and the ignorents that over comes you, that is what I dont trust is the side of you that broke my heart time and time again and it seems you have never lerned to control that side of you it had broght out the wours in me and I know that for a while now
thoughs emotional dramatic times we have had I had a strong part of me that just wanted to pick you up and kiss you and hold you close and tell you I love you and some how it would be alright and we would be content but you know that you were never open to the emoitional side of me were I just needed you to love me back right there that hard moment I dont know if you understand this letter pleas write back

2007-08-26 18:26:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He said I wasn't one of his best friends. He said that he might be one of my best friends, but I wasn't one of his best friends. I was somebody he could count on, but I wasn't one of his best friends.

So my question is
How does this happen? And how often?
Two people have totally different views of their friendship.
How did I get such a low status. He had told me he wanted to be as important to me as my best friend is. I gave him that status. One day he referred to me as his co-worker. How can he want me to elevate him to as big as my best female friend...but I don't get the same respect?

2007-08-26 18:24:45 · 1 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

i don't like my brothers wife. I knew her in high school and she's liked my brother for a long time and i always said they should of dated in h.s well she was engaged to a diff guy when my brother asked her to marry him they didn't really date just got engaged cause they messed around in high school. so she said yes n dumped the other guy. Well me and my brother use to have a great brother sister relationship and talk all the time. Then he moved with her and our relationship went down the drain he married her dec.06 in a chapel with her mom and my other sis there cause my mom and i moved to oklahoma he didn't even want to tell me he got married. He doesn't talk to me anymore besides hi when i call him every couple of months. she's always gotta be around him and never lets him have space when we hung out before the got married. She ruined our brother sis relationship and tells my brother lies. Friends tell me she was jealous of our bro sis relationship.

How can i get it back?

2007-08-26 18:21:28 · 17 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Family

I will be in the car with him and he will be driving. When he a pretty girl walks by I know he looks cause its obvious. When I ask him what hes looking at he will make something up and say"oh I was just making sure there wasn't a car on the right side but he won't even go to the right side when its clear and it makes me feel like im not pretty enough to look at and he needs to see more. I feel that Im worthless and he wants something better but all my guy friends tell me that im beautiful without me even asking them and i feel im just not worth being his wife even though he tells me he loves me everyday

2007-08-26 18:13:56 · 25 answers · asked by Southern Cowgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was hanging out with my friends when i bumped into an ex date of mine. We then decided to go out for dinner. He kept telling me how much he missed me and stuff. He then sort of like forced me to kiss him and he slipped his hand into my top. I brushed it away and he said,'youre wearing a low cut top...can i touch u there?' I was extremly upset and i left the place immediately. I'm still upset abt what happened. :(

2007-08-26 18:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 18:12:04 · 14 answers · asked by katie r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found some pictures of my husband with another woman on a website today. we are currently separated but working things out. he has always maintained that there is nothing going on. i have seen these pictures b4 and he always has an answer, but the woman has uploaded them very recently. any ideas on how i should handle this? I need a fool proof way to get the truth. yes, i do think he is cheating. i just want him to stop lying. i want to ensure that when and how i confront him will guarantee me the truth. any ideas?

2007-08-26 18:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister recently got married to a man. And that man's sister is a girl I fancy. Are we somehow related?

2007-08-26 18:09:09 · 8 answers · asked by faith2452154 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 5 sisters
Ella-my twin sister-19 years old
Hannah-14 years old
Mabelle-18 years old
Racquel-17 years old
Gabriella-20 years old
I have 5 brothers
Michael-21 years old
Johnny-15 years old
Brad-13 years old
Kyle-22 years old
James-16 years old
3 step sisters
lana,Lani,Lanelle -19 years old -triplets
two step brothers
John 20 years old
Aaron-22 years old

2007-08-26 18:05:14 · 14 answers · asked by Erika 3 in Family

.. got drunk and made out with a very attractive boy. Now I think I like him a bit.
But I know it was purely physical with him (I think.. he kept nudging me yesterday and kept trying to talk to me). What should I do?

2007-08-26 18:04:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He doesn't like them but what are your opinions??
Thankyou.

2007-08-26 18:02:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

By beautiful I mean nice looking with a great personality. Some people told me that I'll be alone forever if I'm fat. Is that true?

2007-08-26 18:02:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 18:02:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 18:01:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife says she is too anxious to move next week. The only problem is we signed a lease and gave a deposit and the house we are in now already has a new renter ready to move in. Plus, our kids still have to register for school. She says she changed her mind. Myself and the kids want move and she says she cant. She loved it and looked forward to it up until about a week ago when she suddenly changed her mind. she says the move is giving her severe anxiety and she just cant do it. If we dont go, we have nowhere to live and the kids have no school. Plus we lose our deposit. any help is appreciated. Thank You

2007-08-26 17:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by Terence M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

God saw you were getting tired when a cure was not to be
So He closed His arms around you
And whispered Come to Me
You didn't deserve what you went through
So He gave you a rest
God's garden must be beautiful
Because He only takes the best

2007-08-26 17:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by § dreamer § 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

What defines a relationship? As opposed to 'companionship', and 'friends with benefits'. It's not all about sex and we're not seeing other people and not really looking, but we're not commited.
We had common friends and I'd met him a couple of times when he was looking for a date for his bro's wedding. I said i'd go with him. We had a great time and continued to see each other, but never in any official capacity. He said about a week in that he was not looking for a 'relationship'.
He's super busy with school and is kinda worried that he'll fail out and ruin his life cause he's almost 30, he's had his heart really broken 2 years ago, he's gonna move away to some work camp thing when he's done in 2 years. I slept with him right after the wedding cause i was real drunk.
We're going to be in school together soon. If we hang out at lunch, watch movies and sleep together for the next long time...what do we have? Is it a relationship by default?
Is this my fault? his?or is it cool?

2007-08-26 17:56:02 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is atleast 25 maybe in his thirty's and he is a trainer at 24 hour fitness. He asked me, and gave me his number while i was working out. (fist time i talked to him). He only knows me from checking me out all the time while i work out, He is cute but i know its wrong if we were to just go on a date. RIGHT?
i responed with a "I will call you".

2007-08-26 17:55:32 · 25 answers · asked by marina_703 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents were sort of arranged to marry each other. any ways long story short they got divorced he has a new family in my home country hes very rich and basically never calls. my mom and i are doing fine just as rich as him probably more and i pretend he doesnt exist. he has hurt me though because every time i go back to see my other family he comes to meet me at the airport buys me lots of expensive stuff tells me he loves me and if there was anything he could do to be with me more he could and gives me empty promises. i trick myself into thinking i can have a dad for once in my life but he always dissapoints me. my mom hates him for just abandoning me and never talks about except to insult. well tonight my mom is away on buisness and he called my cell. he left a voicemail and un til the end i realized that i was sobbing. i was so emotional. that one phone call in a year made me think he loved me even though he had a buisness tone. i need to get out of this and forget him. HELP???

2007-08-26 17:52:36 · 9 answers · asked by LittleBunny 2 in Family

i am 17 and i dont want to live with my mom & dad anymore

2007-08-26 17:50:39 · 7 answers · asked by David M 1 in Family

i want a woman in my life a woman to be with and make love with.i'm in san diego,ca.

2007-08-26 17:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by wayne h 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a while back, we went out for about a month and a half. Things were going pretty good, so I thought. We saw each other, on average, two times a week. Then suddenly it was like he just magically disappeared. I tried to call him several times, and left a couple of messages, but never heard back from him. So, I figured he was just no longer interested and it was time to move on. Then suddenly tonight (about three weeks later since I last heard from him), I received an e-mail from him stating, "Hope your weekend was good, and hope we can meet up sometime this weekend. It would be great to see you again." How should I interpret this? What should I do? See him again? Part of me wonders if there maybe was another girl he was interested in and it didn't work, and now he wants to see me again, or maybe he just didn't, or doesn't, know what he wants. Anyone else ever have this, or similar to this happen? What did you do in your situation? And what should I do?

2007-08-26 17:49:38 · 14 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 17:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister started playing it because her bf got her into it and thats alllll they do! its a long distance relationship and when he comes over, he goes to the computer downstairs and they play it with each other. all day she sits on the computer and plays it!! she used to like going out and she went to resaturants and stuff with her bf but not anymore :-( every time i tell her shes playing it too much, she gets mad at me and says theres nothing else to do in our house and she just does it to pass time. but i think shes obsessed and i dont know what to do to make her stop without making her upset at me :-( she goes on EVERY day for at least 8 hours! PLEAASSSSSE HELP! i miss my sister :'-(

2007-08-26 17:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

separated and then got back together after your spouse started dating other people? how do you build trust in your relationship again? to add to that, if the other person says things when you argue like; you are not very attractive right now and threatens leaving again, etc.?

How do you help yourself? do you work it out until the end or do you start planning to go?

2007-08-26 17:44:42 · 20 answers · asked by Alena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate him soooooooo much !!! My parents got divorced less then a year ago and my Mom already has a boyfriend...they've been together for 3 or 4 months and my Mom acts like he's the only thing in her world ! She totally forgot about me(15) and my brother(13), she never talks to me anymore, we never do anything as a family, and their always having sex...Ewwwwww...and I hate him he is such a jerk and he's always looking at me and my friends like a pervert !!! I heard them talking about moving in together last night and I don't know what to do since my Dad lives really far away and travels alot :(


How can I get rid of him ?


Thanks so much for your help :)

2007-08-26 17:32:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-26 17:30:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's like a body language signal.. does it signal nervousness or discomfort, or can it be a good thing?

2007-08-26 17:27:40 · 22 answers · asked by balboa919 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-26 17:24:14 · 17 answers · asked by sandrahertzberg 1 in Weddings