What if a guy forces himself on u?

Question

I was hanging out with my friends when i bumped into an ex date of mine. We then decided to go out for dinner. He kept telling me how much he missed me and stuff. He then sort of like forced me to kiss him and he slipped his hand into my top. I brushed it away and he said,'youre wearing a low cut top...can i touch u there?' I was extremly upset and i left the place immediately. I'm still upset abt what happened. :(

Answer 1

I won't tell you the obvious, that many men are just easily stimulated, or that many men become overly assertive when they are in the company of a beautiful woman. That won't help the matter, because you already know that.

What I will tell you is that if a man forces himself upon your private space, he is violating your honor and dignity. If you become victimized in the privacy of a man that you do not want to be "romantic" with at that time, you must take control of the situation with; a strong, dominant tone in your voice, a hard, square look in the eye, and cross you arms to speak the ground rules that you are not going to be treated like a one night stand! If they want to get closer with you, they are going to have to respect your space, your person and your guidelines for behavior.

This is when you proclaim to them that you aren't going to serve as a one-night stand nor are you going to be the answer to their "animal urges"

Answer 2

Well if he was touching you in appropriate you should tell him to stop and dont let him put his hands on you if he continues to do it you need to tell somebody thats harassment

Answer 3

You were just a "booty call" to him, stop talking to the perve and stay away from him, what kind of jerk would say, "can i touch u there?" you can do better :). Hope i helped.

Answer 4

OMG! call the cops!!!! or at least take some self deffence classes so next time you see him you can kick his butt for doing that to you.

Answer 5

Guys just can't win, hit's a hit or miss, can't blame the guy for trying.