By beautiful I mean nice looking with a great personality. Some people told me that I'll be alone forever if I'm fat. Is that true?
2007-08-26 18:02:22 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not. But you increase your chance is you appear to care about your health.
2007-08-26 18:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Renesme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes everyone assume that your personality is SO wonderful. Why would she choose someone with an unattractive body when she could choose someone with an attractive body who has an equally good personality too.
Also, would you, if you were a very attractive man, ever possibly even consider dating a woman who was fat and therefore physically unattractive to you, instead of a dozen beauties who were equally nice in personality? No, i dont think so, never.
It's true that there are exceptions. A somewhat fat man can get a beautiful woman but only if he has other exceptional characteristics (personality, charm, funny, money, etc.). But i do mean EXCEPTIONAL characteristics, being a rather nice person will not be nearly enough to make you seem very attractive to a woman if your body is unattractive to her.
So. Now you know.
2007-08-26 18:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by gentlest_theirsintheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not true...but it is very DIFFICULT to get a beautiful woman if you're fat. I mean, if she were fat, would you get with her? Reality is, looks matter. Physical appearance is the first thing people see. It's most likely that it takes her a great deal of time and energy keeping herself beautiful, that she's want the same back from her partner.
Plus wouldn't you want to look good for her anyways? And wouldn't you just feel as though you don't measure up to her qualities, especially in front of crowds?
2007-08-26 18:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by mikah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly thats an particularly problematic question to respond to. it actual relies upon on the guy individual. U would be obese and characteristic a great character and particular u will come across a great woman. yet unfortunatly with being 'fats' comes lack of self belief. And thats what is going to make it extra best for you. I wont say that seems arent a significant element of a relationship because of the fact they are. yet good seems modifications from guy or woman to guy or woman, what one would discover captivating yet another will possibly not. All in all character is the breaker, the main serious situation yet being captivating on your considerable different is likewise significant. Have u tried to get healthful and lose some weight? yet while it makes u happier to pay attention the guy i like is a tad extra effective and that i like it.
2016-12-16 05:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe this is true. If you have a good personality and you treat the people around you nicely, if your out going not shy because of physical differences..and you are confident in yourself; you will find someone! Seems to me like you're looking for something on the outside instead of the inside....you got that backward sweetie, you should be looking for a persons 'inner beauty' first, that's what will make her beautiful to you.
2007-08-26 18:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't true. It is harder when you are heavy to attract the opposite sex and you get a bum rap on a whole lot of things because you're fat. There is someone out there for everyone. Here's some advice-you pay for everything you do to your body when your young. As you get older, everything you've ever done catches up to your body and you pay. You are shortening your life and you need to do something for yourself. Please read Dr. Phil's book on diets and things. He gives some psycho babble about why you overeat. It's pretty interesting to figure out just why you overeat and it can help you tremendously to get your head together and then help with good dieting techniques. And it's really just simple, you will live a better, longer life if you lose the weight or at least some of it. Think about it for yourself. May your life be everything you wish it to be.
2007-08-26 18:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is not all about the OUTSIDE. You can be 1000lbs and Beautiful if your personality is Beautiful. We need to stop terrorizing each other with weight issues and how this or that should be. Life is too short for bull#$%*! Live your life and look for Love no matter what others say. The very people who make negative remarks about others usually have short comings themselvesI love every body and GOD loves you more! Be happy You are never alone.
2007-08-26 18:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by MissBadto_ the bone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you fall into this mindset you surely won't be doing yourself much good I'll tell you that. If your weight bothers you, work on it. But don't believe that you can't get a good looking smart and great to get along with girl just because of your weight. Believing this crap will only attract the same like minded people.
The people who feed you this garbage are the ones who can't lead a successful relationship.
This is coming from a skinny guy who has had his fair share of evil chicks who I would gladly send your way if you ever doubt you have the unfair end of the deal.
Best of luck to you mate.
2007-08-26 18:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by untamed_soul 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, there's lots of girls out there that think that looks aren't everything. Don't ever thing that you cannot have a beautiful woman just cause your over weight. As long as you be yourself and have people accept you for who you are, you can never go wrong, and as for those people who think that looks are everything, in a few years they probably won't look so hot themselves.
2007-08-26 18:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you admit to being overweight.... but want that leggy hot woman with it all... looks, personality, etc....
I am NOT saying that being overweight eliminates you from the dating pool in terms of finding a beautiful, nice woman, but you are being a hypocrit by wanting the whole package, when in fact it appears as though you are not taking care of yourself pshycially. It's like making enough money to buy a suit from Wal-Mart, but then expecting to be given a Gucci Suit...
Revise your expectations, and be open to dating women with great personalities who may have average looks.
2007-08-26 18:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by SSM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only "empty" women look for outside appearance. Besides, if you are a fat guy, why dont you try and lose weight? Make some exercises, do something for your body. But the main reason should not be to be attractive for women but your health.
2007-08-26 18:10:23 · answer #11 · answered by Rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋